FabSwingers.com forum: pakistani female of couple needs help

By *eedsasians OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I am a pakistani wife and we have joined this site and been to a few clubs .

We have played together but not played with another couple as I am scared to do so.

my husband says I should but when I want to.

We are struggling to meet a similar couple who is new .

and the couples we meet are ready to jump straight in and fuck .

is there any couples out there that would meet a few times socially so I can feel comfortable to go to the next stage. I'm sorry but I don't want to fuck the first time we meet .

not interested in a single guy just yet.

couples are more than welcome to contact us . any advice will be greatly appreciated. Pleasedon't be rude and offensive .

I'm just asking a few questions.

I want to do this but I keep getting the butterflies xx sara

ideally Looking for an asian couple to meet socially and Remove the barriers I as the wife have to having sex with another guy . maybe if I see my hubby playing with someone I might get the confidence to do same

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *punkymonkey40Man
over a year ago

derby

Sorry to be a single guy and not in a couple but nice to see Asian ladies/couples is my dream to have sex with a Pakistani/Indian. Maybe one day I will get the chance

But good luck and all the best in your new adventure

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olidcomfortMan
over a year ago

Edmonton

Hi completely understand your needs but there's no harm in trying single guys if you make it clear that there won't be any sex involved and if you feel comfortable you could get as far as massage and see how you feel.

I had met an Asian couple similar to you and on the second meet she wanted to have massage ..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of us singles around who can respectfully help out. I myself am always happy to meet socially first.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife was like that,when she started,we got a single guy to join us and watch,once he started to play with himself she was hooked,the next weekend we met a couple as it happens they wear Asian my wife was if she had always been doing it,the guy joining us give her so much confidence, all the best

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're ready for a single guy; let me know x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All 5 replies from single guys haha!!

I'm not in a couple but I would suggest to keep going to clubs, try a few different ones near to you.

There's never an expectation to play so just go with the mindset of having fun socially.

Sure enough you'll meet some lovely friendly couples & you can take it from there.

If you're not comfortable then the play won't be enjoyable so don't push yourself sweet X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

If you are already going to clubs, I would suggest find a couple you like there, chat with them, then let them go off and play, maybe watch or play near them too if you're comfortable, then ask them when they are next going back to the club and meet them again like that until you're comfortable enough to move to the next stage.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a pakistani wife and we have joined this site and been to a few clubs .

We have played together but not played with another couple as I am scared to do so.

my husband says I should but when I want to.

We are struggling to meet a similar couple who is new .

and the couples we meet are ready to jump straight in and fuck .

is there any couples out there that would meet a few times socially so I can feel comfortable to go to the next stage. I'm sorry but I don't want to fuck the first time we meet .

not interested in a single guy just yet.

couples are more than welcome to contact us . any advice will be greatly appreciated. Pleasedon't be rude and offensive .

I'm just asking a few questions.

I want to do this but I keep getting the butterflies xx sara

You do not want another inexperienced couple, experience = understanding not aggression. They'll teach you ans hold your hand.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can Brits,Paddy's, Scots, Yanks,Ozzies, Frogs apply???

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have six verifications......what happened with those?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sa asian guyMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Wow! Mein app se mil saktha hoon.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have six verifications......what happened with those?"

Socials maybe? Mine nearly all are. OP may even of just had a drink with her verifications from her club visits?

Many people do not fuck everyone they see. If there's no attraction felt from in person meets, I forgot example will not sleep with them. A lot of people do not upload upto date pics of themselves on here.

OP I wish you luck and I hope you find what you're looking for. My advice would be the same as the lady above, attend clubs, get to know a couple, let them know you don't want to rush, if they're interested and genuinely nice folks, they'll happily wait until you are comfortable. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"You have six verifications......what happened with those?

Socials maybe? Mine nearly all are. OP may even of just had a drink with her verifications from her club visits?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

OP socials and clubs are probably the best way forward for you have fun xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mmersCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

Dear OP,

Well done for being brave n postin in the forums. We're a young mixed race couple and we totally understand where your coming from. We'd love to walk along this with you and social meal or drinks is a great idea to begin with. And we will only go ahead once we all feel comfortable with each other. If this sounds good. Please get in touch. Emma n Ray x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We respect people and go with the flow

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Sex is as much mental (psychological) as it is physical. First of all, I've checked you out and I think you look better than OK.

Now to my main answer. Coming from an ethnic minority background myself, I think the biggest barrier is cultural. I therefore suggest you "avoid" ASIAN in the initial stages. When you have dipped your feet into the waters a few times with others your confidence will grow and then the sky will be your curtain ( not your limit).

I struggle sometimes when I meet a couple and the chap is Asian or Black. The psychocultural barriers you acquire while growing up are real.

Good luck and hope you enjoy the lifestyle.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eedsasians OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

wow so many messages from people who want to help .

I didn't even think anyone would reply I feel so overwhelmed

thank you everyone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nterracialDesiresCouple (MM)
over a year ago

London / Essex

Shame you're not local.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

Some clubs do social nights where it's just that, a social! There's fab socials all the time, you can arrange to meet "socially" with people you've chatted with on fab. The lady that runs fare to swing in Bristol is Asian and lovely. Maybe go there on one of their socials. Have fun, because that's what it's supposed to be

xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hor ThumbMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Some clubs do social nights where it's just that, a social! There's fab socials all the time, you can arrange to meet "socially" with people you've chatted with on fab. The lady that runs fare to swing in Bristol is Asian and lovely. Maybe go there on one of their socials. Have fun, because that's what it's supposed to be

xxx"
thats "Dare" to swing, sorry!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All 5 replies from single guys haha!!

I'm not in a couple but I would suggest to keep going to clubs, try a few different ones near to you.

There's never an expectation to play so just go with the mindset of having fun socially.

Sure enough you'll meet some lovely friendly couples & you can take it from there.

If you're not comfortable then the play won't be enjoyable so don't push yourself sweet X "
I was just thinking the same and they all just wanted to get between her legs.

Keep going to clubs you don't have to play just relax and enjoy

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Hi. We're a new couple on the scene and we'd be more than happy to meet and chat. Absolutely nothing wrong with getting to know someone first before committing. T

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread