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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening all

I'm just wondering if you amazing fabbers could help me with my profile

I assume that's where I'm going wrong

I'm polite and well mannered, I'm not pushy and always read profiles before messaging but I really struggle with getting a reply

Now I know that a lot of women and couples receive 100's of messages a day but I still don't get anything not even a view of my profile

So please help me

Thanks in advance x

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Most women view in stealth mode so you'll never know if they have looked at your profile. You say you've been on here numerous times before and have had meets so you must have done something to attract those meets. Currently for me your profile is very bland op. There's lots of good advice on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most women view in stealth mode so you'll never know if they have looked at your profile. You say you've been on here numerous times before and have had meets so you must have done something to attract those meets. Currently for me your profile is very bland op. There's lots of good advice on the forums "

Thanks for getting back to me

You say my profile is bland in what way??

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

Too much talk of work and gym and been here before bla bla..nothing in your bio really shows what you like, what you're into, what kind of lover you are etc etc

And the photos just do the same thing- you at the gym... So uninspiring.

You can get so much more creative and suggestive with your photos- rather "yo I lift heavy", try "hey..look at my fit arm touching my torso in this dim lighting.."

And use full stops.

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

I think maybe you think that girls will like the fact you work out a lot and spend hours in the gym - but it's actually a little off putting. You don't need to over emphasise the fact you lift.. we can see from your pics you clearly work hard. That should speak for itself.

Why don't you try writing about what you're looking for on here because right now it doesn't say anything and you have the right to be as selective as you want as this is basically a site for sex and hookups so put yourself out there and be confident and state exactly what you like.. what you want... what you need and how you wish to get it.

B xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too many gym photos, second home I assume? Lose the cock pic, so many on here already. Lose the cheesy update. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is good you come across fun n friendly and offer lots of pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need less gym pics, boring!!

Your bio says nothing interesting at all. If we were looking for straight guys, we would pass you by as we've no idea what your onto...other than the gym!!!

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for your help guys

ive updated my profile please let me know what you think

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

It's a different profile entirely now... at least people know exactly what you're looking for now.

I hate being a keyboard warrior BUT I would maybe professionalise it slightly... just better use of capitals and punctuation but that's just me!! And I'm being EXTRA picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would be surprised. Couples don't get hundreds of mail a day.

Today I think we have had maybe 4 messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd Deffo get rid of the gym pics. They are doing nothing for your profile

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

So, your pics tell me you have 2 pairs of shades and gonto the gym..

Your profile tells me you're not looking for commitment but has to be 'this or that' and that you seek to release your sexual inner self after a boring sex life.

Sorry, but none of it intrigued or excited me xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok new pics up and old gym pics gone

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I think it looks good now.

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