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"I wonder why I bother sometimes writing long messages to just see them get deleted "Maybe spend the time creating a better profile and on some pictures? | |||
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"Not messaging is the key... Having a shit?" Nope. Friday night drinking. | |||
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"Not messaging is the key... Having a shit? Nope. Friday night drinking. "  shits and giggles | |||
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"Not messaging is the key... Having a shit? Nope. Friday night drinking. shits and giggles "Mrs has fallen asleep which means i can watch bear grills!  | |||
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"I wonder why I bother sometimes writing long messages to just see them get deleted "Try a short message then.  | |||
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"Patience is the key  "Yeah I'm still waiting for my reply | |||
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Yeah I'm still waiting for my reply "I thought you wanted to end the conversation, my bad  . Will cake make up for it? | |||
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"well a lot of people do not write anything you can use to taylor a nice message on them. and honestly the work is rarely rewarded by an answer so better a more neutral opening " Why would you even message someone if they haven't written anything on their profile? | |||
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"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?" | |||
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"From the FAQs: There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?" I get the feeling lots of people have never read the FAQs judging by the number of statuses I see moaning about it being rude not to reply  | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. " I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner " Well said | |||
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"well a nice reply to say no to a long not rude message would help to remain humans. unfortunately very few do it. " Would you reply "no thank you" 20/30 times every day though? I know women (who do want to meet single guys, so haven't filtered them) who get that many. I wouldn't - and I'm flippin lovely | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. " Ok, I'll leave them for a few days then delete it if it makes you feel better | |||
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"well a lot of people do not write anything you can use to taylor a nice message on them. and honestly the work is rarely rewarded by an answer so better a more neutral opening Why would you even message someone if they haven't written anything on their profile? "Anyone with the gift of the gab can write what they want others to read...Doesn't mean it'll be of much help when one arranges a meet....Just saying. 1st rule of fab, don't believe a word of it ... | |||
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"that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile. " We've no idea who you're replying to... Use answer\quote | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. Ok, I'll leave them for a few days then delete it if it makes you feel better "well it would make a difference. if you don't get it is your problem. | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner " that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile. | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile." I never actually said you did I was just saying why many of my "none rude" messages get deleted | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile. I never actually said you did I was just saying why many of my "none rude" messages get deleted "well you profile is hidden right now lol | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile." if you message someone you find attractive, with profile criteria that match.and they reply 'thank you but not really what i'm looking for'...what would your reply be? | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile. if you message someone you find attractive, with profile criteria that match.and they reply 'thank you but not really what i'm looking for'...what would your reply be?" well i would not be happy of course, but at least it would be a polite answer. and it happens really rarely. I find it ridiculous when is made by girls who write appearance is not important, they want to chat bla bla bla lol | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile. I never actually said you did I was just saying why many of my "none rude" messages get deleted
well you profile is hidden right now lol "And that my law of you means I can't have a opinion does it? I've had a recent bereavement so I'm taking a break from meeting if it really that important to you | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile. if you message someone you find attractive, with profile criteria that match.and they reply 'thank you but not really what i'm looking for'...what would your reply be? well i would not be happy of course, but at least it would be a polite answer. and it happens really rarely. I find it ridiculous when is made by girls who write appearance is not important, they want to chat bla bla bla lol" no idea what all the stuff about appearance has to do with answering mail...but what i was getting at is that an awful lot of the time, saying 'thanks, but not what im looking for' invites responses like 'why not?'..'what are you looking for?'..or downright abuse...which is why, as has been repeatedly over and over again on here,many women do not reply if they are not interested....and why, i assume, the FAQs clearly state a no reply is a no thank you, and should not be taken as rude. If you choose to think it's rude,then that is your choice, your problem, and not a problem with the person you messaged, but a problem with your ego. | |||
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"I think is rude deleting a not rude message immediately. I delete many a none rude message daily when my profile isn't hidden as I'm taking a break from meeting Mainly because they were rude enough to either not read my profile and make sure they are what I'm looking for first or just chose to disregard what's written in my profile and message me anyway usually with a sentence similar to "I know I'm not what your looking for but ....." If you're going to be rude enough to do either of the above I'll treat your message in equally as rudely manner that is not what i said. i never spoke about not reading or ignoring profile. if you message someone you find attractive, with profile criteria that match.and they reply 'thank you but not really what i'm looking for'...what would your reply be? well i would not be happy of course, but at least it would be a polite answer. and it happens really rarely. I find it ridiculous when is made by girls who write appearance is not important, they want to chat bla bla bla lol no idea what all the stuff about appearance has to do with answering mail...but what i was getting at is that an awful lot of the time, saying 'thanks, but not what im looking for' invites responses like 'why not?'..'what are you looking for?'..or downright abuse...which is why, as has been repeatedly over and over again on here,many women do not reply if they are not interested....and why, i assume, the FAQs clearly state a no reply is a no thank you, and should not be taken as rude. If you choose to think it's rude,then that is your choice, your problem, and not a problem with the person you messaged, but a problem with your ego." i think it's not nice and i have written in my profile. Some girls do it prooving it is not impossible. i think a man who takes time to read y profile and think about a good message deserves at least a copy-pasted polite reply. this is a matter of respect. if you do not get it is your problem. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck." ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. " i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time." i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. " That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? " being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are." So you do reply to all you're junk mail at home then? afterall these companies have taken thought and time to invent and elaborate advertisement to send to you so that you'll take an interest in the product/service if you aren't then interested surely you reply in the interest of politeness? | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are." I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you " have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol " It's her choice to have it hidden, she obviously has her reasons for it which is nobody elses business but here! Why would she open it up to be inundated with messages??!! | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol It's her choice to have it hidden, she obviously has her reasons for it which is nobody elses business but here! Why would she open it up to be inundated with messages??!!" lol then nobody will read her profile and nobody will send an interesting message. I think that those messages who show the efford of reading profile and thinking about something nice shuld deserve a polite no answer. not doing it is rude. end of the story. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol " Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? " I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. " I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite " well u are rude forcing me to answer stupid questions. We are in this site and I always answer to people in this site. One of the services here is the chance to write to people. If you don't wat people to message you can block messages or better leave the site Nobody will bother you. On the other hand: Do you ignore all people who say you hallo in real life? I always do, but i think you do not lol | |||
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"well a nice reply to say no to a long not rude message would help to remain humans. unfortunately very few do it. " Firstly you choose who your going to message so don't they have a right to choose who they reply to. Secondly you send a no thank you then you get a why not question so you try and be nice and say your just not for me/ us that is then followed by another message so it's just easier not to reply also fems and couples are on here looking for fun just like you guys why should we spend ages replying to every message with a no thanks when a no reply says that without wasting everyone's time. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite well u are rude forcing me to answer stupid questions. We are in this site and I always answer to people in this site. One of the services here is the chance to write to people. If you don't wat people to message you can block messages or better leave the site Nobody will bother you. On the other hand: Do you ignore all people who say you hallo in real life? I always do, but i think you do not lol " It's not a stupid question, you claim everyone making an effort to contact you deserves a reply that should extend to all walks of life And no I won't answer to everyone, especially in case where I've seen them already hound other people or are too pissed to stand up, i casual hi I will say hi back but generally don't want to get drawn into a conversation as I'm usually on my way somewhere so busy. Which could be a reason why people don't respond to you they're busy conversing to people they're actually interested in | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite well u are rude forcing me to answer stupid questions. We are in this site and I always answer to people in this site. One of the services here is the chance to write to people. If you don't wat people to message you can block messages or better leave the site Nobody will bother you. On the other hand: Do you ignore all people who say you hallo in real life? I always do, but i think you do not lol It's not a stupid question, you claim everyone making an effort to contact you deserves a reply that should extend to all walks of life And no I won't answer to everyone, especially in case where I've seen them already hound other people or are too pissed to stand up, i casual hi I will say hi back but generally don't want to get drawn into a conversation as I'm usually on my way somewhere so busy. Which could be a reason why people don't respond to you they're busy conversing to people they're actually interested in" we are in this site i speak of this site. I do with the people in real life who want to speak with me. If i do not want I decline politely. Stop making stupid assumptions about who answers me or not. 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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite well u are rude forcing me to answer stupid questions. We are in this site and I always answer to people in this site. One of the services here is the chance to write to people. If you don't wat people to message you can block messages or better leave the site Nobody will bother you. On the other hand: Do you ignore all people who say you hallo in real life? I always do, but i think you do not lol It's not a stupid question, you claim everyone making an effort to contact you deserves a reply that should extend to all walks of life And no I won't answer to everyone, especially in case where I've seen them already hound other people or are too pissed to stand up, i casual hi I will say hi back but generally don't want to get drawn into a conversation as I'm usually on my way somewhere so busy. Which could be a reason why people don't respond to you they're busy conversing to people they're actually interested in" It's really simple the rules of the site say that it isn't rude not to reply. 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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite well u are rude forcing me to answer stupid questions. We are in this site and I always answer to people in this site. One of the services here is the chance to write to people. If you don't wat people to message you can block messages or better leave the site Nobody will bother you. On the other hand: Do you ignore all people who say you hallo in real life? I always do, but i think you do not lol " So there rude by asking you to answer a question that you don't want to answer. So your being equally rude by asking people to answer messages they don't want to answer. double standards there | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. " well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite well u are rude forcing me to answer stupid questions. We are in this site and I always answer to people in this site. One of the services here is the chance to write to people. If you don't wat people to message you can block messages or better leave the site Nobody will bother you. On the other hand: Do you ignore all people who say you hallo in real life? I always do, but i think you do not lol So there rude by asking you to answer a question that you don't want to answer. So your being equally rude by asking people to answer messages they don't want to answer. double standards there " oh yes of course. an question which has nothing to do with the site lol | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. " You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules. | |||
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"I hide my profile because I choose to. I don't reply to people I don't want to meet, because I don't want to. Assuming that we are not supposed to be on this site is unbelievably arrogant, and rude! You are not entitled to anything on this site. You are not entitled to a view, a friend request, a message, a reply, a meet, or a verification. And for those of you who struggle with why some people won't reply, it allows people to get around filters if I choose to put my message filters on. Not that anyone should have to defend themselves on here. "some people do and are nice some people don't and are rude. end of the story. Then you can do whatever you want- | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules." and i am free to think they are rude and to appreciate the nice people who do. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. " It's a optional service that is given there is nothing that says you have to reply in fact the site clearly states that it is not rude not to reply again it's about choice you choose to email someone they choose if they want to reply or not. If you don't like not getting replays don't send messages and wait for people to message you then it solves the issue | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. " There's a difference between a service offered by a site and the choice of how to behave by its members.. paying a small fee for an upgrade is also a service offered by the site, is that also compulsory? How about chatting with webcams, do we all have to do that too? | |||
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" we are in this site i speak of this site. I do with the people in real life who want to speak with me. If i do not want I decline politely. Stop making stupid assumptions about who answers me or not. I reply to all who write me and i think who does not reply to people who send a nice not rude message is rude. I think you are rude (as this conversation in my opininon shows) deal with it. " You only think I'm rude because like others you called out for it, we've disagreed with you, as another poster said that's your egos doing no one else's. But it's proved that some guys really don't like when things don't go their way then get arsey about quite aptly You don't want to admit to not replying to every form of contact in all walks of life in the reply to me, because you know the fact you like so many of us don't as answer junk mail does make you a slight hypocrite Oh and in the interest of politeness, to social conformities people should adhere to, from a stand up guy such as yourself. Thanks for the condolences for my loss you never managed to send me, in the two opportunities you could have chose to do so, but instead just carried on going on and on Goes to show people are only polite and reply when it suits their own agenda. And in regards to this site you're actually no different, so maybe give the people you write to a bit more slack they're clearly no better than you in that regard | |||
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" we are in this site i speak of this site. I do with the people in real life who want to speak with me. If i do not want I decline politely. Stop making stupid assumptions about who answers me or not. I reply to all who write me and i think who does not reply to people who send a nice not rude message is rude. I think you are rude (as this conversation in my opininon shows) deal with it. You only think I'm rude because like others you called out for it, we've disagreed with you, as another poster said that's your egos doing no one else's. But it's proved that some guys really don't like when things don't go their way then get arsey about quite aptly You don't want to admit to not replying to every form of contact in all walks of life in the reply to me, because you know the fact you like so many of us don't as answer junk mail does make you a slight hypocrite Oh and in the interest of politeness, to social conformities people should adhere to, from a stand up guy such as yourself. Thanks for the condolences for my loss you never managed to send me, in the two opportunities you could have chose to do so, but instead just carried on going on and on Goes to show people are only polite and reply when it suits their own agenda. And in regards to this site you're actually no different, so maybe give the people you write to a bit more slack they're clearly no better than you in that regard "yes yes my ego lol look i think you are rude. and I am free to think it. if u think is my ego then there you should be no problem with it. end of the story. bye. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules. and i am free to think they are rude and to appreciate the nice people who do. " Yes you are, but you don't have to be rude about it on the forums. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you are coming across as a pompous arse. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. " Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol Still haven't answered my questions. My profiles hidden because my grandads fucking died and last thing I want is guys sleazing onto me, and when not hidden my profile says all it needs to, satisfied. Now answer my question please. Do you reply to all the mail you receive in all walks of life in the interest of politeness? I reply to all the mails i receive here and in other meeting sites. Do you ignore all people who say you hallo on a night out? i suppose yes. I asked in all walks of life not just meeting sites stop being rude and blatantly ignoring answering the question since you're so polite well u are rude forcing me to answer stupid questions. We are in this site and I always answer to people in this site. One of the services here is the chance to write to people. If you don't wat people to message you can block messages or better leave the site Nobody will bother you. On the other hand: Do you ignore all people who say you hallo in real life? I always do, but i think you do not lol So there rude by asking you to answer a question that you don't want to answer. So your being equally rude by asking people to answer messages they don't want to answer. double standards there oh yes of course. an question which has nothing to do with the site lol " Your advice was block messages or better still leave the site so you don't get messages. But we're not moaning about getting messages we just delete them maybe you need to stop sending message or better still leave like I said at least 90% of this site is happy with a no reply means not interested there's only a hand full that want a reply so means the majority of this site are rude so why would you want to stay here. 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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. There's a difference between a service offered by a site and the choice of how to behave by its members.. paying a small fee for an upgrade is also a service offered by the site, is that also compulsory? How about chatting with webcams, do we all have to do that too? " u can do what you want as i am free to distiguish who is polite and who is not | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules. and i am free to think they are rude and to appreciate the nice people who do. Yes you are, but you don't have to be rude about it on the forums. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you are coming across as a pompous arse." sorry?. I expressed my opininon in a forum opened by a guy who complained. I am not the rude here. who is innsulting here? | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules. and i am free to think they are rude and to appreciate the nice people who do. Yes you are, but you don't have to be rude about it on the forums. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you are coming across as a pompous arse. sorry?. I expressed my opininon in a forum opened by a guy who complained. I am not the rude here. who is innsulting here?" You clearly called them rude several times quote I think your rude end of story is what you have wrote to everyone who hasn't agreed with you so again your now complaining about a insult after insulting that person lol | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules. and i am free to think they are rude and to appreciate the nice people who do. Yes you are, but you don't have to be rude about it on the forums. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you are coming across as a pompous arse." Pompous arse is the impression I get as well | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules. and i am free to think they are rude and to appreciate the nice people who do. Yes you are, but you don't have to be rude about it on the forums. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you are coming across as a pompous arse. sorry?. I expressed my opininon in a forum opened by a guy who complained. I am not the rude here. who is innsulting here? You clearly called them rude several times quote I think your rude end of story is what you have wrote to everyone who hasn't agreed with you so again your now complaining about a insult after insulting that person lol " | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. well is a service given by the site. If the messages is not rude. Nice people give a polite answer. As they do in real life. if they dont i think they are rude like in real life. You use the site the way you want to, and leave others to use it the way they want to. People who don't reply are not doing anything against site rules. and i am free to think they are rude and to appreciate the nice people who do. Yes you are, but you don't have to be rude about it on the forums. Two wrongs don't make a right, and you are coming across as a pompous arse. sorry?. I expressed my opininon in a forum opened by a guy who complained. I am not the rude here. who is innsulting here?" All of your posts replying to people trying to explain their and the sites stance have been aggressive. How about just saying 'well I disagree but that's OK' instead of banging on about how horrible all the women are for not replying. And how very dare someone who has just had a death in the family hide her profile to prevent messages? You come across as relatively new, both to the site and to the forums. You should read the FAQs and familiarise yourself with how people use the site. Its not always going to be the same way as you. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same " I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. " We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol. " | |||
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"i do get it,but you have just completely ignored the reasons women are sometimes wary of saying 'no thank you'...you must acknowledge that,while maybe you don't come back to them asking why, or being abusive, many do...it's obviously a waste of time trying to explain this to someone who seems to think they are so superior to other men on here. Good luck. ah and this is a good reason not to distiguish between nice men and rude men? sorry can you understand what i write? if u are rude I am not as many people here aren't so deal with it. Behave as you wish and accept the consequences. i can understand what you are writing but it makes no sense. There is no way of telling, obviously, from a message, whether someone is going to be rude or not when they are turned down...but if there is a chance they might well be, then why ask for abuse,or a string of stupid questions?..that would make no sense at all. You can argue all you like, but you have had it explained exactly what the site FAQs are, and i have tried to explain, as have others, why some women do not reply to messages they are not interested in. And just so you know, I actually always reply,each time i come on here, until i get a why? or rudeness,then i stop bothering for the rest of that period of time on here..it usually only takes 4 or 5 messages for the the first stupid reply. so,ignore it all you like, but if it's not working for you, which it's clearly not, then maybe stop wasting so much of your time. i simply make distinction between rude people and nice people. Something you choose not to do putting yself in the former. your choice. That would depend on where you draw the line at being rude Some would say having a total disregard for the opinion of others and the sense of entitlement in that your way is the only way, is quite rude. It was a simple point if you don't like how the site works in regards to replies then you can leave no ones forcing you to stay, I certainly wouldn't be here if I didn't like something like that about the site I'd go find one that better suits my needs/requirements The simple fact is every mail on here is unsolicited just because a person as a profile doesn't mean they are automatically inviting every single member to message them. Unless someone as specifically said "Dr Mario please message me" you weren't specifically invited to do so ergo its unsolicited mail, junk mail basically and what do you do with junk mail through your letter box, do you phone them up saying "thankyou for posting your leaflet to me today, but sorry I'm not interested" or do you think to yourself "that's no good to me and just stick it on the bin".? being polite costs nothing, only the few seconds u need to give a polite answer to an elaborated message of someone who took time to read y profile and think about what to write. you prefer to be rude. your choice. do not complain if others are. I always asked you specific questions in there that you haven't seen fit to answer How terribly rude of you have you any idea that we are in a site where people meet each other and get in touch with eachother? are you aware that you are applying to all the site y idea that you do not want to receve messages? Write it on your profile instead of keeping it hidden lol you don't like messages and you are here with a hidden profile lol It's her choice to have it hidden, she obviously has her reasons for it which is nobody elses business but here! Why would she open it up to be inundated with messages??!! lol then nobody will read her profile and nobody will send an interesting message. I think that those messages who show the efford of reading profile and thinking about something nice shuld deserve a polite no answer. not doing it is rude. end of the story. " There is no real way of determining who will or who won't be rude. Most of us have just had to learn that they'll never know. What is comforting is the knowledge that those of us who aren't or won't be are not rude and whether they know it or not won't change that fact. Don't go and prove them right and let it be justified. Let it go and move on to those who do respond nicely. There are many on here. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol. "And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately. "Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately. "They may but I really don't see how an inbox full of no thanks you'd would be anything but confidence and soul destroying where the majority of men especially are concerned as they're a hell of a lot more of you so you'll just suffer rejection after rejection in black and white, surely for be it's better those guys thing to themselves well age was a rude butch than I don't understand why these nice people constantly don't like me what's wrong with me? Which I'd say would be the likely outcome | |||
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"I wonder why I bother sometimes writing long messages to just see them get deleted "I wonder why people bother starting a thread before they decide to leave.
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"And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately. " If I get a well written message, where the guy has obviously read my profile (when its visible) and the only reason I'd not meet him was no attraction, I would reply. It's the one liners (or one worders!), with no pics, or the messages that are crude, or the copy and paste messages that get a delete. They haven't bothered reading my profile, I won't bother replying. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ."lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently "Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread? | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread? "oh yes that's the right attitude. congrats. | |||
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"He's not all that wrong no doubt some will read this and block you without caring to know anymore about you. "wow like preventing me to se a hidden profile? lol I think i can deal with it lol | |||
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"He's not all that wrong no doubt some will read this and block you without caring to know anymore about you.
wow like preventing me to se a hidden profile? lol I think i can deal with it lol "What's the point in having a profile able to view and message if you can't temporarily meet?That's just wasting people's time do you not think? No point deleting the profile and loosing verifications and contacts when I will be meeting again asap is there? But bLess your little cotton socks for enjoying the attention on this thread you evidentially don't get otherwise | |||
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"He's not all that wrong no doubt some will read this and block you without caring to know anymore about you.
wow like preventing me to se a hidden profile? lol I think i can deal with it lol
What's the point in having a profile able to view and message if you can't temporarily meet?That's just wasting people's time do you not think? No point deleting the profile and loosing verifications and contacts when I will be meeting again asap is there?
But bLess your little cotton socks for enjoying the attention on this thread you evidentially don't get otherwise"whatever... | |||
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"He's not all that wrong no doubt some will read this and block you without caring to know anymore about you.
wow like preventing me to se a hidden profile? lol I think i can deal with it lol
What's the point in having a profile able to view and message if you can't temporarily meet?That's just wasting people's time do you not think? No point deleting the profile and loosing verifications and contacts when I will be meeting again asap is there?
But bLess your little cotton socks for enjoying the attention on this thread you evidentially don't get otherwise
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ."Not really as there are many on here who do. I've had polite no thank you messages. I may add that just because you can quote what FAQ may say it doesn't mean it's not rude...It just means you like to take that and feel it's not rude because FAQ may say it. I can repackage a Lada and put a BMW badge on it but it'll still be a Lada. It may be accepted by many...but doesn't mean it's not rude. Many don't like others thinking they're rude. Wouldn't worry about it. Can't please everyone. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread?
oh yes that's the right attitude. congrats. "I believe the 'attitude' is firmly in your court. Would you say that after this people would expect a positive or polite response to sending you a message of rejection based upon your responses here? I actually hoped you'd realise you had already, and were continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole, but alas no. Good luck | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread?
oh yes that's the right attitude. congrats.
I believe the 'attitude' is firmly in your court.
Would you say that after this people would expect a positive or polite response to sending you a message of rejection based upon your responses here?
I actually hoped you'd realise you had already, and were continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole, but alas no.
Good luck"thanks for the nice advice. Can you please ignore me now? because i will do. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread?
oh yes that's the right attitude. congrats.
I believe the 'attitude' is firmly in your court.
Would you say that after this people would expect a positive or polite response to sending you a message of rejection based upon your responses here?
I actually hoped you'd realise you had already, and were continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole, but alas no.
Good luck
thanks for the nice advice. Can you please ignore me now? because i will do. "Its difficult when you're attempting to antagonise people but they're talking sense isn't it? | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread?
oh yes that's the right attitude. congrats.
I believe the 'attitude' is firmly in your court.
Would you say that after this people would expect a positive or polite response to sending you a message of rejection based upon your responses here?
I actually hoped you'd realise you had already, and were continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole, but alas no.
Good luck"I'd say the only thing they'd expect is negative butt hurt response from someone acting no better than a whiny teenager | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread?
oh yes that's the right attitude. congrats.
I believe the 'attitude' is firmly in your court.
Would you say that after this people would expect a positive or polite response to sending you a message of rejection based upon your responses here?
I actually hoped you'd realise you had already, and were continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole, but alas no.
Good luck
I'd say the only thing they'd expect is negative butt hurt response from someone acting no better than a whiny teenager "oh insults. these really prove me wrong. Can you please ignore me? thanks. I will do. | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Has it occurred to you how few replies you are likely to get after this thread?
oh yes that's the right attitude. congrats.
I believe the 'attitude' is firmly in your court.
Would you say that after this people would expect a positive or polite response to sending you a message of rejection based upon your responses here?
I actually hoped you'd realise you had already, and were continuing to dig yourself into a deep hole, but alas no.
Good luck
I'd say the only thing they'd expect is negative butt hurt response from someone acting no better than a whiny teenager
oh insults. these really prove me wrong. Can you please ignore me? thanks. I will do. "It was my opinion based on the responses you've given on this thread you've chose to take it as an insult Nothing you've said as offended me despite your best efforts to because you're a faceless bloke online I'm never gonna meet | |||
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"well a lot of people do not write anything you can use to taylor a nice message on them. and honestly the work is rarely rewarded by an answer so better a more neutral opening Why would you even message someone if they haven't written anything on their profile?
Anyone with the gift of the gab can write what they want others to read...Doesn't mean it'll be of much help when one arranges a meet....Just saying. 1st rule of fab, don't believe a word of it ... "That's why you read veris first so you know they are not all talk and no action | |||
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"well a lot of people do not write anything you can use to taylor a nice message on them. and honestly the work is rarely rewarded by an answer so better a more neutral opening Why would you even message someone if they haven't written anything on their profile?
Anyone with the gift of the gab can write what they want others to read...Doesn't mean it'll be of much help when one arranges a meet....Just saying. 1st rule of fab, don't believe a word of it ... That's why you read veris first so you know they are not all talk and no action "A verification sometimes isn't always what it seems either | |||
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"well a lot of people do not write anything you can use to taylor a nice message on them. and honestly the work is rarely rewarded by an answer so better a more neutral opening Why would you even message someone if they haven't written anything on their profile?
Anyone with the gift of the gab can write what they want others to read...Doesn't mean it'll be of much help when one arranges a meet....Just saying. 1st rule of fab, don't believe a word of it ... That's why you read veris first so you know they are not all talk and no action
A verification sometimes isn't always what it seems either "Depens if they have multiple saying the same thing | |||
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"fuck me ! i wish i'd never answered him in the first place! just got in from work and he's still refusing to listen to a single word anyone says...which, actually...is quite rude.." oh sorry If i do not change my opinion simply because you say so. sooo rude from me | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently "Absolutely! Just as I have the right to not give a flying fuck about how people who know jack squat about me judge me. Yep I'll lose sleep over that one. | |||
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"well a lot of people do not write anything you can use to taylor a nice message on them. and honestly the work is rarely rewarded by an answer so better a more neutral opening Why would you even message someone if they haven't written anything on their profile?
Anyone with the gift of the gab can write what they want others to read...Doesn't mean it'll be of much help when one arranges a meet....Just saying. 1st rule of fab, don't believe a word of it ... That's why you read veris first so you know they are not all talk and no action
A verification sometimes isn't always what it seems either Depens if they have multiple saying the same thing "Not really as I highly doubt people would publish a negative verification if they receive one you'd never see "This guy is a total cunt avoid him at all costs" even though it may have been written | |||
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"Banging on about people having a sense of entitlement whilst feeling as though you are entitled a reply to an unsolicited message? Without even a hint of irony. If you choose to speak to someone uninvited then do they not, equally have the choice of whether to respond or not? I think there's a strong argument that the expectation of a response is rude in itself. Depends where you draw the line I don't expect anyone to reply to me and I have had it happened it's fine they aren't interested and their time is spent better elsewhere it's cool by me in fact an inbox full of no thank you'd is pretty pointless in my view as the results the same I totally agree, I choose to not reply to people and equally, they choose to not respond.. this is, for me, more about choice than anything else in life. Why blokes get uppity about it is totally beyond me. We would rather have a empty inbox not one full of no thank yous lol.
And some single guys would prefer a nice reply even if no thanks as it shows that their initial message was read and the no thanks at least reflects an appreciation for the time taken to read their profile and message appropriately.
Well msybe they need to join a site that that response is 'the norn'. On here it isnt and clearly states so in the FAQ.
lol you do what you want. people have the right the judge you consequently
Absolutely! Just as I have the right to not give a flying fuck about how people who know jack squat about me judge me. Yep I'll lose sleep over that one."exactly. | |||
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"fuck me ! i wish i'd never answered him in the first place! just got in from work and he's still refusing to listen to a single word anyone says...which, actually...is quite rude.." I don't know whether I want this thread to continue for the sheer amusement of how stubborn some people can be, or wishing it would hit 175 so I stop feeling compelled to check back. | |||
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"well a lot of people do not write anything you can use to taylor a nice message on them. and honestly the work is rarely rewarded by an answer so better a more neutral opening Why would you even message someone if they haven't written anything on their profile?
Anyone with the gift of the gab can write what they want others to read...Doesn't mean it'll be of much help when one arranges a meet....Just saying. 1st rule of fab, don't believe a word of it ... That's why you read veris first so you know they are not all talk and no action "
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"How would you ever no if you just presume that I plain profile isn't interesting though woman just automatically think that all men on here are pestering creeps lol" So we're not allowed to assume that a boring profile means you're a boring guy But it's ok for you to presume all women think all men are creeps Yep makes loadsa sense that does if you're an hypocrite | |||
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"How would you ever no if you just presume that I plain profile isn't interesting though woman just automatically think that all men on here are pestering creeps lol" No info = no effort, why would we make the effort to respond | |||
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"How would you ever no if you just presume that I plain profile isn't interesting though woman just automatically think that all men on here are pestering creeps lol" Something tells me you're not getting on too well with the ladies....I can't imagine why..... | |||
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"Tbh. I'd delete your message too. You've nothing on your profile that makes me think you're interesting!! " whats my profile like? | |||
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I thought you wanted to end the conversation, my bad . Will cake make up for it?"cake and a beer sounds a deal! | |||
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"How would you ever no if you just presume that I plain profile isn't interesting though woman just automatically think that all men on here are pestering creeps lol So we're not allowed to assume that a boring profile means you're a boring guy Good points you made all the way through with that idiot lol and sorry for your loss x But it's ok for you to presume all women think all men are creeps Yep makes loadsa sense that does if you're an hypocrite " | |||
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