Hi Mike, welcome to Fab, and it's good that you've got the sense to be asking for advice.
My main advice - and some of this echoes what others say - is to
add more information about you, especially in the written profile section. Whilst I now know that you're single, open to do what you want etc, it would be ideal to know more specifically what you'd like.
As this is a swinging site, then state whether you're open to meeting couples etc, as you're potentially excluding them, if your omission of saying this might be inferred as meaning lack of intention.
Consider adding whether you will travel, and how far. State if/when you can accomodate, or would use hotels too.
If you've had some group experiences, state this, as it does deter some if they think they may be dealing with a complete newbie.
Do whatever you can to put the message out, and meet up. As you've got friends on here, maybe they could help somehow?
I really believe that we shouldn't give up easily on things in life and I have enormous tenacity to see things through. IF something doesn't work, consider changing your tactics, inc your profile/photos etc.
Getting verified is important for many members, so - if you're not verified - achieving this will probably help.
Check out some single male profiles, and see what you think works/doesn't work about them. Use this feedback to improve upon your own. You're now a product/brand that you are marketing, so ensure that you become best in breed out there.
As said, tenacity really helps. If you don't expect too much, then it's hard to get disappointed, but wonderful when things are successful for you. New members usually find it takes some time, so be determined to hang in there, whilst things are going to work more in your favour after some time.
Overall, experiment and get to know others - there are some wonderful people on here. Wishing you the best of luck! Sophie x |
Good luck
