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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I need help? I think I've got an ok profile with ok photos?

Been here before but those people I've met are no longer on the site, which means I can't get verified!

What's a guy to do to get noticed again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start a thread about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start a thread about it? "

Ah you stole my post

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start a thread about it? "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then. "

What would you have as the header? Something generic like fun single guy?

Well yes I was successful but it seems to have got a lot harder to just meet people and have fun, especially with out Veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then. "

That header tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as above...the heading...instant delete from me..

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Patience is the key lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be put off by the aggressive sounding 'rough hard sex' comment.

I know others wouldn't.

I think most guys would stress patience is the best virtue to have on here.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

You're quite specific in what you want, so you are restricting your pool of suitable people.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then.

What would you have as the header? Something generic like fun single guy?

Well yes I was successful but it seems to have got a lot harder to just meet people and have fun, especially with out Veris "

If you want to just meet people, go to clubs. Go to socials. Don't waste your time chatting to them on here, get out and meet them. No one is going to tell you you can't stick your cock in their orifice in a club because a person hasn't written a few words about you.

Keep that header if you want. Be aware of the fact that those who don't just think sex is that may well be put off. You don't have to be generic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave the header. Tells people all they need to know about how you play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then. "

I think he should keep it- that way people that are into the same will want to meet him.

Bit shit of him to lie/ conceal things he likes just to get a shag. People are always saying they hate being lied to just to get a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Leave the header. Tells people all they need to know about how you play."

Changed it slightly softer but I agree with keeping a similar header!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on cam x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go on cam x"

Wanna join me?

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

s_mac
"... What's a guy to do to get noticed again? "

Have you considered becoming a transvestite?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then.

I think he should keep it- that way people that are into the same will want to meet him.

Bit shit of him to lie/ conceal things he likes just to get a shag. People are always saying they hate being lied to just to get a shag. "

People say they hate being lied to about physicality or life situations. Or if after a couple of messages a must do wasn't revealed.

Not because Bob didn't tell them on the header that he likes to play more roughly (not sure why I've gone with Bob but fuck it, I'm keeping Bob).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then.

I think he should keep it- that way people that are into the same will want to meet him.

Bit shit of him to lie/ conceal things he likes just to get a shag. People are always saying they hate being lied to just to get a shag.

People say they hate being lied to about physicality or life situations. Or if after a couple of messages a must do wasn't revealed.

Not because Bob didn't tell them on the header that he likes to play more roughly (not sure why I've gone with Bob but fuck it, I'm keeping Bob)."

I'd be irate if I met someone called Bob.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remove that header on your profile for a start.

If you've been here before and were presumably successful - just carry on with what you were doing then.

I think he should keep it- that way people that are into the same will want to meet him.

Bit shit of him to lie/ conceal things he likes just to get a shag. People are always saying they hate being lied to just to get a shag.

People say they hate being lied to about physicality or life situations. Or if after a couple of messages a must do wasn't revealed.

Not because Bob didn't tell them on the header that he likes to play more roughly (not sure why I've gone with Bob but fuck it, I'm keeping Bob)."

Can we move to Scott?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Patience is the key lol"

Thank god I didn't need to pm you this time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking a whole lot better now in my opinion.

You can always mention your likes in your first messages.

Good luck X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

Thank god I didn't need to pm you this time lol"

PM ME?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

Thank god I didn't need to pm you this time lol"
Yes. I was quick there lol.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd be irate if I met someone called Bob.

x"

I'd gush if their name was Bob. OP, go for Bob!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Patience is the key lol

Thank god I didn't need to pm you this time lol

PM ME? "

Hmmmmm let me think about that.......... no, I'm old enough to be your mother!!

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By *ulu99Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Learning to spell would be a good start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Learning to spell would be a good start. "

Why not point out where the mistake Is?

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Patience is the key lol

Thank god I didn't need to pm you this time lol

PM ME?

Hmmmmm let me think about that.......... no, I'm old enough to be your mother!! "

Your not old enough to be my mother, feel free to pm me instead

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

A guy who sure as hell doesn't skip leg day! I'll verify that!

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

hun lov to see your gluteus maximus muscle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need help? I think I've got an ok profile with ok photos?

Been here before but those people I've met are no longer on the site, which means I can't get verified!

What's a guy to do to get noticed again? "

what on earth does 'well kept' mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need help? I think I've got an ok profile with ok photos?

Been here before but those people I've met are no longer on the site, which means I can't get verified!

What's a guy to do to get noticed again?

what on earth does 'well kept' mean?

"

sounds like gardening speak...'well kept lawn etc...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we go a single day without one of these whiny threads? It really isn't that hard if you're a sociable person and have something interesting to say. Don't waste time with one line profiles or those with a laundry list of demands, they're no fun. I can get vibes off the good profiles and people here and just message those ones.

The scene is social first and sex second for the most part, if you want persistent quality anyway. It's been ages (2 days) since I had a meet though, but then again fab isn't my life (although I do check a lot lol).

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