FabSwingers.com forum: new to using this site!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

chat rooms are filled with people chatting to each other who seem to know each other, pretty much just get ignored in there so started browsing and sent a couple of emails

didnt hear anything for a few weeks so came back on, and decided to just message a couple of people explaining my situation and asked for advice on how to get along in the site etc

had one reply about 2 weeks later saying:

'sorry, i dont speak to people unless they are verififed!'

i appreciated the reply, but surely if everyone had that view, then no one on here would ever be verified, and no one on here would ever speak!!

come on guys, someone help me out here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For most of us this is just a hobby, we lead busy lives and our play time limited. When we're browsing or receive mail, the first thing we do is check the profile.

Now, be honest. Look at your profile. With the hundreds of men to choose from do you think busy horny people will stop at your profile and say "hmmmmm, what an interesting profile! He's into the same things as us, smashing pics: he's hot!" Honestly?!!

You need to make an effort: you haven't so far. No one is here to "help you out", they're here to meet hot, horny, confident people.

Not everyone takes notice of verifications, but they do of profiles. Sell yourself!

This is just my opinion: take it or leave it, but as it stands, no one's beating a path to your door, are they?!!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just something ur gonna have to stick with it, especially in chat...try conversing(outwith asking for sex), join in general chatting.Join in forum postings give personality to urself.Attend clubs and introduce urself in a friendly manner to people.Too many cock pics on one page, one angle should be fine...of course the addition of a female in cock pics can be an advantage.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of your profile as a shop window, at the moment its shut. You need to put something about your likes/dislikes, what you are looking for, whether you can accommodate and if not why not, whether you are prepared to travel, use hotels, socials and clubs. You also need to read profiles, not everyone is interested in your age group

Good luck

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

The people in chat do often know each other,but guess what,they didnt before they joined the site! i started using chat in december,and have now met quite a few fab people in real life from the chat room.

An analogy i have used before...

You move to a new village and decide to check out the local pub.You go in,say hi,the regulars nod and return to their conversation.You have a pint,chat to the barman and leave.

Do you leave thinking "Bloody rude ppl,they didnt instantly drop everything to get to know me " or "Seems like a nice place,i will try to get to know them better"?

As for mailing for advice...why should ppl respond,tyhey don't know you and it's not like they are sitting waiting to dispense wisdom.Thats what the forums are for!

As others have said,look at your profile,and think would i meet me based on this?

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