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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Having major problems achieving this goal....what am I doing wrong.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Major problems in what way? Lack of interest from couples you're contacting I am guessing?

First thing would be to take a look at your profile and ask yourself if it sells you well? Does it make you stand out from the crowd? Do your pics show you in the best possible light? Does your profile blurb clearly lay out who you are, what you're looking for, and most importantly what you think you can offer? Does it reflect your personality a little?

If the answer to any of those is "no" then that's where you need to focus first.

You could always try getting along to clubs and socials or being more active on the forums.

Good luck

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men, "

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Not bi.....so good to hear...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx"

I think what he's referring to is that MMF usually signifies a threesome with two bi males, whereas MFM signifies two straight males...all semantics to me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx "

MMF 2Bi men one Lady

MFM 2 straight men and a lady

simples and it will matter to plenty of people

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By *umumCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS

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By *umumCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx

MMF 2Bi men one Lady

MFM 2 straight men and a lady

simples and it will matter to plenty of people

"

Well you learn something everyday!

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By *ushandlickWoman
over a year ago

cambs

So do i! Why why bi men? I would love mmf but with straight men myself !

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By *ushandlickWoman
over a year ago

cambs

I thought mmf ment male male female lol ok i get it or wished lol .

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx

MMF 2Bi men one Lady

MFM 2 straight men and a lady

simples and it will matter to plenty of people

Well you learn something everyday! "

This is used by some people but not an accepted rule. Lots just say bi mmf if that's what they mean.

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

Yeah, I put my hand up too, didn't appreciate the extra meaning in mmf and mfm, but now it looks obvious. Duuuuuuu!

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I never realised there was a difference. My partner is straight and we have often played as a threesome with single males but I have always described it as MMF.

Sally

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I never realised there was a difference. My partner is straight and we have often played as a threesome with single males but I have always described it as MMF.

Sally"

Don't think it's a hard and fast rule - have played both straight and bi that way and describe it as MMF regardless, or might add "bi" to it to distinguish where appropriate.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


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Don't think it's a hard and fast rule - have played both straight and bi that way and describe it as MMF regardless, or might add "bi" to it to distinguish where appropriate."

I think that is an excellent solution. Bi MMF makes it very clear.

Sally

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Was news to me to...in that case definately looking for MFM...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men, "

Since when??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx

MMF 2Bi men one Lady

MFM 2 straight men and a lady

simples and it will matter to plenty of people

"

I don't think this is a generally-known rule to be honest, looking at local updates, veris on here and my own experience.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx

MMF 2Bi men one Lady

MFM 2 straight men and a lady

simples and it will matter to plenty of people

Well you learn something everyday! "

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Cocks will collide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We largely see MMF and MFM used interchangeably, wouldn't worry too much.

As a couple looking for single guys your profile, with the heading you have in particular, makes me think you're really interested in meeting women, would take an MFM as second best and are the kind of guy who's not considerate of how an MFM is going to work. My husband sounds like he'd be a spare part. To me that could be a wider perception and what you said in a message wouldn't really change my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men, "

Personally this statement is well wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We largely see MMF and MFM used interchangeably, wouldn't worry too much.

As a couple looking for single guys your profile, with the heading you have in particular, makes me think you're really interested in meeting women, would take an MFM as second best and are the kind of guy who's not considerate of how an MFM is going to work. My husband sounds like he'd be a spare part. To me that could be a wider perception and what you said in a message wouldn't really change my mind. "

Yes the dynamics of mmf or mfm are not always appreciated. I've learned through experience that it's as much about the husband as it is the wife having fun. I always try to keep him involved unless he chooses to sit out for a while. Even sometimes going for a bathroom break or a drink of water so they get private moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male female couple looking for male....male male couple looking for female..... female looking for male male couple....and so on ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men, "

It's like they say,99% of 'facts' are male up on the spot !

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Seems to be massed confusion...

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By *ustme6 OP   Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Not sure what in my profile leads to this conclusion...but all opinions welcome..

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By *iMMFirsttimeCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham & London


"

Don't think it's a hard and fast rule - have played both straight and bi that way and describe it as MMF regardless, or might add "bi" to it to distinguish where appropriate.

I think that is an excellent solution. Bi MMF makes it very clear.

Sally"

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife


"Could it be as your straight, as a MMF is normally two Bi men,

I think that statement may be a little inaccurate lol xx

I think what he's referring to is that MMF usually signifies a threesome with two bi males, whereas MFM signifies two straight males...all semantics to me though "
I never knew that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure what in my profile leads to this conclusion...but all opinions welcome.."

If you mean my post I told you the main thing is that the header says Looking for sexy intelligent women - no mention of couples, and there's nothing in the body of text that mentions threesomes or couples. And from past conversations that sort of profile often treats the other guy as to be tolerated and a means to an end rather than really looking for a threesome experience.

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