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By *rackinyell OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

I know i havent got the best profile and i know theres like 100 to 1 ratio but i rarely get a reply. Just a not what im looking for reply would be better than none at all. Whats up with that

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

OP taken from the FAQ, dont take it to heart.

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

I'm just going leave this here for you. It came from the FAQ section.

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages?

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know i havent got the best profile and i know theres like 100 to 1 ratio but i rarely get a reply. Just a not what im looking for reply would be better than none at all. Whats up with that"

2 pics of your dick probably aren't helping.

A lot of people look at pics first then profile blurb( those who bother to read it of course), so those 2 pics wouldn't make us want to look any further.

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By *rackinyell OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Thats fair enough its something to change. Thank you for the advice

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By *rackinyell OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Thank you i defo posted this in the wrong place my bad lol

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Your pics are poor both dick pics one of which is blurry. You won't get anywhere with that. You potentially could be someone I would meet or chat to as you say you fit the description I'm looking for , but your profile would put me off and I wouldn't reply .

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

To be honest and Adi say in my profile I wouldn't care to look past the cock pic profile pic

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I know i havent got the best profile and i know theres like 100 to 1 ratio but i rarely get a reply. Just a not what im looking for reply would be better than none at all. Whats up with that"

We try to reply to all our messages but if we send a polite "no thanks" we get a message straight back saying "why not ?" so then we ignore them or it becomes endless.

Sally

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"I know i havent got the best profile and i know theres like 100 to 1 ratio but i rarely get a reply. Just a not what im looking for reply would be better than none at all. Whats up with that

We try to reply to all our messages but if we send a polite "no thanks" we get a message straight back saying "why not ?" so then we ignore them or it becomes endless.

Sally"

Exactly this.

I tried to reply to all messages when I first came on here but it just isn't always feasible. I also got tired of the abuse that often follows. When I send a message I delete it and forget about it. I prefer no reply. I'd hate to log in every day to a soul destroying list of 'no thanks' messages.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Cock avatar would mean instant delete and not even read

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By *rackinyell OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks all duly noted. I do get what you guys are saying and i get the whole people getting replys why not or people being hostile so thanks guys and gals. You all have +1 good guys next your name today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather no reply to be honest, if it bothers you that you're getting no replies then this site will drive you mad and frustrate the hell out of you. As others have said, you could do something to improve your chances of getting a reply or just bitch about it, entirely up to you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think you summed it up nicely in your OP OP, the odds are against you and you've not got a great profile - you can't directly do anything about one of those things, so you need to change the one that you can.

Most ladies on here won't even read your message without havinhg looked at your profile first, and if that's not to their liking you'll be straight in the delete pile without a second glance.

So sort your profile out, do away with the cock pics, replace them with body shots and then perhaps focus on the type of message you are sending.

Failing that get involved more in the forums, you'd be surprised how many conversations spark from being active in them. Or get along to local socials and the like.

Good luck

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