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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. I am Paul. new here I have been very truthful in my profile I send mails but 95% have been just deleted Am I that bad? or just not hitting there soft spot?? any advice please from any one male Female couples One lady did reply and she was positive but as I was married she did not want to get involved. ( Wife no longer has any sex drive due to stroke ) all the best and happy Fabing

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Being attached will put many off. There is little you can do about that. Just find those that are happy to meet married men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry dude but it's just the way it is here, men far out number women, so the rules of supply and demand apply.

What you put in a first message is pretty much irrelevant. A woman usually looks at a man's profile in stealth mode before reading a message. If she isn't interested she'll delete the message without reading.

There are loads of threads about profile advice that you can do a search on. Just make sure your profile best sells you, has an individual flair about it, and isn't a wooden 'also ran'. Look at other men's profiles too to gauge what not to put in yours. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people. I also note that I have sent some messages that have not been read yet the person/couple has been online since I sent it .

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Thanks people. I also note that I have sent some messages that have not been read yet the person/couple has been online since I sent it .

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Many couples and especially the single ladies get an enormous amount of messages so don't be surprised if your message is unread or deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks people. I also note that I have sent some messages that have not been read yet the person/couple has been online since I sent it .

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Possibly they looked at your profile and decided not to respond..

No reply = not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks people. I also note that I have sent some messages that have not been read yet the person/couple has been online since I sent it .

Many couples and especially the single ladies get an enormous amount of messages so don't be surprised if your message is unread or deleted"

Not all of them do

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Thanks people. I also note that I have sent some messages that have not been read yet the person/couple has been online since I sent it .

Many couples and especially the single ladies get an enormous amount of messages so don't be surprised if your message is unread or deleted

Not all of them do "

I'd message you if you were closer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Started to get the message . have adjusted my profile. removed any dick pics so just a clean pic. lets see where it takes me. every thing crossed. Thanks people.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Started to get the message . have adjusted my profile. removed any dick pics so just a clean pic. lets see where it takes me. every thing crossed. Thanks people. "

You have now taken down that your attached, so lying is not a good start. Being honest and open gives women and couples the choice to meet you even before chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Started to get the message . have adjusted my profile. removed any dick pics so just a clean pic. lets see where it takes me. every thing crossed. Thanks people.

You have now taken down that your attached, so lying is not a good start. Being honest and open gives women and couples the choice to meet you even before chatting.

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He's not lying by removing that statement. He's just removing a barrier that may prevent him from being dismissed out of hand. If he gets into conversation with someone he will have the opportunity to say he's married once the other party sees him as a human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Started to get the message . have adjusted my profile. removed any dick pics so just a clean pic. lets see where it takes me. every thing crossed. Thanks people. "

Good luck let's see how that goes for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 2 meetings with ladies, just a coffee and a drink, but they seemed to reluctant to verify me when I asked them. It is near on impossible to meet someone without a verification. I am getting a bit bored of the constant chatting to people then suddenly they disapppear.

Any advice would be great

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