FabSwingers.com forum: Hi there

By *anthers OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very new to swinging only had one meet just thought i would say hi

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome and congratulations on getting a meet so quickly xx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,all am quite new myself and had two very nice meets but get loads of peeps tell me no way straight away when I IM them I only IM peeps that I think I would get on with or meet there requirements.

I am not rude or pushy so is this normal?? as I like to think I can hold a conversation and am polite and courteous.

Or is there things in my profile putting people of???

Any advice??? many thanks

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,all am quite new myself and had two very nice meets but get loads of peeps tell me no way straight away when I IM them I only IM peeps that I think I would get on with or meet there requirements.

I am not rude or pushy so is this normal?? as I like to think I can hold a conversation and am polite and courteous.

Patience and persistence. Find out where local socials and clubs are and attend. Have a read of the forums. Good luck x

Or is there things in my profile putting people of???

Any advice??? many thanks

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solo guys are plentiful, so ladies and cpls are likely to be inundated with messages.

Please dont take it personally, try and be imaginitive, witty and original in your message.

Make EVERY message an individual one to the lady or cpl in question.

Above all, be yourself, and be respectful of the wishes of others.

Good luck!!