FabSwingers.com forum: I swore to myself I wouldn't....

By *ascade35 OP Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

....but I'm going too.....okay, I'm looking for feedback....I've been on scene before and part of the scene for quite some time.

Have at it ladies and gents.....honest, genuine advice greatly appreciated

Much obliged

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being totally honest, I read through your profile and didn't really come away any the wiser as to who you are, and what you're looking for/can offer as an individual - it reads much the same as many other single male profiles and doesn't really reflect any of your personality.

Your pics are all a bit meh too - either oddly cropped or a bit blurry. Perhaps try and take some teasing and tasteful ones that show off your body.

Brutal I know but am guessing you'd prefer an honest opinion.

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By *ascade35 OP Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

Oddly cropped how? I do prefer the honest opinion so thankyou. Will think on the photo suggestion

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Being totally honest, I read through your profile and didn't really come away any the wiser as to who you are, and what you're looking for/can offer as an individual - it reads much the same as many other single male profiles and doesn't really reflect any of your personality.

Your pics are all a bit meh too - either oddly cropped or a bit blurry. Perhaps try and take some teasing and tasteful ones that show off your body.

Brutal I know but am guessing you'd prefer an honest opinion."

I agree with all that has been said here, there is nothing that catches my attention.

Also there is no point just winking at people, if you like the look of them send a well thought out message instead. A large proportion of people don't even look at whose sent a wink, never mind message them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Oddly cropped how? I do prefer the honest opinion so thankyou. Will think on the photo suggestion"

Maybe "oddly cropped" was the wrong phrase...badly framed might be a bettervway of putting it...for example the top and bottom 4th March ones have more wall/ceiling in above your head than they do you.

Forgpt to mention the wink thing too...most people ignore them to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all the above. You spent time with a write up but it doesn't say anything about you, just where you can meet or who. I'd want to know what you like, your particular preferences or kinks, what you're looking for - even something that gives an idea of your personality.

Definitely need better photos - and not just dick picks, but some semi nude ones, in a towel or a half steamed bathroom mirror etc. Currently your profile is a little 'beige'

Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....but I'm going too.....okay, I'm looking for feedback....I've been on scene before and part of the scene for quite some time.

Have at it ladies and gents.....honest, genuine advice greatly appreciated

Much obliged"

ok..

whatever you did before should have no bearing on a brand new profile unless you are fishing for verifications off past meets?

you don't say what type of people you are looking for or what you are really interested in?

its a bit too generic imo..

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By *ascade35 OP Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

Thankyou all....very helpful and as soon as I get the chance, I'll sit have a re-write...feel free to take a look when it's done....it'd be much appreciated.

Plus ideas for photos would also be good.....I'm a little limited when taking them as it's only me and my camera phone lol.

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By *ascade35 OP Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

"Oddly cropped how? I do prefer the honest opinion so thankyou. Will think on the photo suggestion

Maybe "oddly cropped" was the wrong phrase...badly framed might be a bettervway of putting it...for example the top and bottom 4th March ones have more wall/ceiling in above your head than they do yo

Forgpt to mention the wink thing too...most people ignore them to be honest"

Hmmmm on review, I think I see your point pal. I'm a little limited in where I can take photos though, but I guess I could try to frame them better

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Thankyou all....very helpful and as soon as I get the chance, I'll sit have a re-write...feel free to take a look when it's done....it'd be much appreciated.

Plus ideas for photos would also be good.....I'm a little limited when taking them as it's only me and my camera phone lol."

Take a look round at other single guy profiles for ideas of what might work - not blowing my own trumpet but most of mine were achieved using a camera phone or tablet with the timer set or in selfie mode.

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By *ascade35 OP Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

Camera phones have a timer mode?? But of a technophobe if I'm honest lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Camera phones have a timer mode?? But of a technophobe if I'm honest lol"

Yeah just open the camera app and hit settings it's in there usually...can set it for a 5, 10 and more second delay...prop the phone up against something hit the button to take the picture and then pose...easy

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By *ascade35 OP Man
over a year ago

Alnwick

"Camera phones have a timer mode?? But of a technophobe if I'm honest lol

I'll have a look around and see, thanks for all your advice and tips pal

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