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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No real surprise. No profile and nothing but cock pics. Come on up your game

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By *ddyfortyMan
over a year ago

rushden

ah your not the only one. im having the same problem

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets "

Bit of advice, remove all cock pics from your profile, then write something good about yourself, miracles don't happen overnight, all people take some woo'ing. I took the advice and I'm loving it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets "

I know the feeling... Just try and be yourself

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

As above and just be patient..

You just gotta get yourself out there and make friends..

Good luck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some effort in

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Decent club in your neck of the woods. I'd be down there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have e a lot of competition, your profile is your shop window, you need to make it appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets "

If you were a woman, scrolling through hundreds of profiles, would you stop at yours? Looking at your avatar, what do you think?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets

Bit of advice, remove all cock pics from your profile, then write something good about yourself, miracles don't happen overnight, all people take some woo'ing. I took the advice and I'm loving it now."

You've got a pretty decent body and a friendly, attractive face though! That certainly helps!

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets

Bit of advice, remove all cock pics from your profile, then write something good about yourself, miracles don't happen overnight, all people take some woo'ing. I took the advice and I'm loving it now.

You've got a pretty decent body and a friendly, attractive face though! That certainly helps! "

Thanks, still out of your age range though xx

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets

Bit of advice, remove all cock pics from your profile, then write something good about yourself, miracles don't happen overnight, all people take some woo'ing. I took the advice and I'm loving it now."

Couldn't have put it better myself however I feel the need to say get rid of that status wtf!!!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets

Bit of advice, remove all cock pics from your profile, then write something good about yourself, miracles don't happen overnight, all people take some woo'ing. I took the advice and I'm loving it now.

You've got a pretty decent body and a friendly, attractive face though! That certainly helps!

Thanks, still out of your age range though xx"

Only by a year!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I can't quite make out what your second photo is.

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"I can't quite make out what your second photo is."

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get ignored too mate...chin up

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Flamin eck, you wonder why???

Profile - almost non-existant!

Pics - Cock cock and more cocks!

General effort - must do better!!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets "

Make your profile appealing - see posts above and search for profile advice... There's plenty of it.

On the rare occasions we are looking for single men, anyone with a cock as their avatar gets ignored.

I, and most other women, are interested in the man not simply your cock.

That won't guarantee meets but increases your chances.

Nita

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I can't quite make out what your second photo is."

Its got 5 fabs, it may be the angle of dangle

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets "

Take a look at the profiles of the successful guys on here. Lots of effort put in and some gorgeous photos. Who would I choose and who would I ignore......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't quite make out what your second photo is.

Its got 5 fabs, it may be the angle of dangle "

Probably all from other men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to see you've not bothered taking any of this good and valuable advice

Ruby

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Good to see you've not bothered taking any of this good and valuable advice

Ruby"

I thought that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ignore you too, you look like a cock and hardly have any profile info. sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets

If you were a woman, scrolling through hundreds of profiles, would you stop at yours? Looking at your avatar, what do you think?"

Needs a bit of tidying like a forest at moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all... Lose those fucking nasty flaccid cock-pics!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

You've been ignored, now you're ignoring everyone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No real surprise. No profile and nothing but cock pics. Come on up your game "

And can not accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No real surprise. No profile and nothing but cock pics. Come on up your game "

Was going to say the same

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond

OMFG, all this advice and you haven't changed a thing, read and take heed, do something or you'll end up with nothing. Finished..

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets "

What are you doing wrong?

Pretty much everything.

Like others have said, the cock pics look awful and, for us at least, trim that bush. YUCK.

Add to that a one line profile and I think you have more chance of being the pilot of the next Mars mission than you will ever have of getting a meet on here.

Your profile is your shop window, use it properly or go out of business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No real surprise. No profile and nothing but cock pics. Come on up your game "

And your inability to accommodate at your age will lead people to assume you are married/attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish I knew what im doing wrong, no matter how I write a message, I get ignored or if I get replies, they chat a bit then wont meet up, frustrated with it all, thought Liverpool would be better than this

Please advice how to up my chances to get regular meets

What are you doing wrong?

Pretty much everything.

Like others have said, the cock pics look awful and, for us at least, trim that bush. YUCK.

Add to that a one line profile and I think you have more chance of being the pilot of the next Mars mission than you will ever have of getting a meet on here.

Your profile is your shop window, use it properly or go out of business."

'Comment of the Day' award goes to ....

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Photos on profile are vile.. I would delete without replying too

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"OMFG, all this advice and you haven't changed a thing, read and take heed, do something or you'll end up with nothing. Finished.."

Give him a chance - he's not been back online since he posted the OP.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

If you messaged me... I would 100% delete

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By *norksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington and beyond


"OMFG, all this advice and you haven't changed a thing, read and take heed, do something or you'll end up with nothing. Finished..

Give him a chance - he's not been back online since he posted the OP. "

Sorry, my bad, hopefully he has a look and skips past mine, ooops..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are bad

You have no age range

The interests you list are of an acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you messaged me... I would 100% delete "

I would delete and block to prevent further unwanted messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although everyone may not approve of your profile there must be more to it, if your getting conversations your already getting the foot in the door so to speak and having more success than others with just that.

Possibly your chatting with incompatible people and/or not being enticing enough or captivating enough to consolidate to more meets, however don't let any or that dissuade you, confidence, positivity and carry on eventually you will get there

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"I get ignored too mate...chin up"
shame your not local,the wife would not be ignoring you lol.

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