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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok this may not be a self help site (though it is if you get my drift lol) but what on my profile makes me a no no? Not having the most luck...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the negativity?

H x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As it would appear...lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Your profile comes across as angry, and your pics look grumpy. You're a good looking guy - smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience. Have patience.

Or a ten inch cock.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Your text needs work - it's so angry and grumpy and quite poorly written. Your pictures are not that flattering either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile comes across as moany

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Try adding a happy item in the background of one of your pictures? Something like a penguin, a banana or plunger wearing a moustache!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im actually a very positive person in the real world. I seem to talk to many people with dramas... when im lookong for some fun and a social/laugh

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You could do with some positive things about you and what you like.

Paragraphs are helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im gonna try that... lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry but there is nothing there to entice anybody, you say this is meant to be fun but your profile is a complete contradiction to that and I would give a wide berth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics are nice but I guess a smile might make it better.

You can block men from messaging you in your preferences.

You sound in your profile...extremely disheartened...and maybe a bit angry. What do you mean by monsters?

One of your preferences might put people off but many are into dogging but you a absolutely should put it if you go and do it.

I'm just being straightforward with you. Hope it helps to see how it looked to me.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

You're cute but your profile is about what you don't want rather than what you're looking for and offering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats bad i know because i do actually write quite well in real life..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm one of those monsters you mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines probably worse but as others have said remove the negativity, put in stuff about you. Remove the whole then move on etc.

Few torso pics, maybe even clothed Ines full length. Not too much cock!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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OP, there are ways of putting things that will make it sound better.

I dont care about silly rules or demands. Move on if thats your style - I'm interested in exploring swinging with free thinking, easy going people.

Delete the monster crap.

Fellas, if i give you a polite no its because i have respect and does not mean i like cock as i really do not - Block men so you can just delete this part.

Im all about ladies and curves -I'm looking to meet curvy women, they're a bit of a weakness of mine.

Anyway is this not just meant to be fun. Feeling like a chore already - delete this moan and think of a positive ending.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Im actually a very positive person in the real world. I seem to talk to many people with dramas... when im lookong for some fun and a social/laugh"

Ignore the people with dramas and present the positive side of yourself. You are attractive so be attractive.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thats bad i know because i do actually write quite well in real life..lol"

If you use reply and quote we know which post you are responding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok this may not be a self help site (though it is if you get my drift lol) but what on my profile makes me a no no? Not having the most luck...lol"

Needs body pictures and the entire profile text is negative and pointless

ok you dont meet men so jist block them from messaging you dont whine about it.

Dont whine about demands just ignore those profiles

dont whine about monsters just ignore those messages.

Basicaly your profile tells a person about yoi and yours currently says you whine a lot.

So change it to be what you like, what youre into, ehat youre specifically looking for.

And a few funny things to interest people.

Or just get really good pictures and then your profile text can say pretty much anything

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Text is a bit jumbled

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point very much taken. Ive never been known for saying the correct stuff... in person its fine as im quite funny with it. In text it comes accross rude..ouch..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not much happy stuff in there -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the points. I can honestly say i sort of thought that i was being a bit lazy. Also i can write very well so theres no excuse. But thanks all the same. Happy fabbing.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Your profile sounds defeatist and negative.I'm sure that wasn't your intention. Have a complete 're write OP. Good luck to you!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

A single woman here with a profile like yours would get to meet 10 guys every week, if she wanted to

A single guy wouldn't stand a chance. If you really want to meet women here, you'd need to appear a lot happier in your text and in your photographs

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"A single woman here with a profile like yours would get to meet 10 guys every week, if she wanted to

A single guy wouldn't stand a chance. If you really want to meet women here, you'd need to appear a lot happier in your text and in your photographs"

OK, I see you have just changed the text; much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant monsters like scary people but hey...ive taken it on board and changed it all...and pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant monsters like scary people but hey...ive taken it on board and changed it all...and pics"

Nice hat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive updated it. I realise i was just very lazy. When it matters i most certainly am not buti wasnt trying enough..lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers mate. That was in blackpool of all places..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the sombrero pic!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant monsters like scary people but hey...ive taken it on board and changed it all...and pics"

How can your photos be approved on a single male profile clearly showing 2 females faces?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could do with a nice body pic. Also how did you get the girls past the photo mods?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could do with a nice body pic. Also how did you get the girls past the photo mods?!?"

I've seen worse! I've seen males profiles where half their pics are just of women and no man in sight yet they still pass the mods!

H x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I meant monsters like scary people but hey...ive taken it on board and changed it all...and pics"

Well credit to you for taking advice on board!

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