FabSwingers.com forum: Why can't I get meets / pull

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

genius

Pure comedy genius bravo

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Aww...bless him!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Hi OP, I would suggest doing a forum search on similar threads - it could be down to a number of reasons including your profile, volume of women, photos etc.

As for pulling women when you're out? Try talking to them and going from there.

I do hope it was a serious post OP, not too sure currently but have tried to answer sensibly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it is serious post

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Okies, well seeing as you asked if it was something to do with your profile I think this is allowed.

Yes, it is to do with your profile. Read it. Read some of the other single males on here. See what could be changed. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

Don't come across as desperate. I have a slight twinkling you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it is serious post"

Oh sorry my bad. Have you tried straight dating sites? Meet for coffee or a drink, with anyone off em, get used to talking to ladies. That might help

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

Q1) It's not your profile.

Q2) Pay for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you special?

What is your USP?

Single males are in low demand on here, so you need to stand out.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

Try talking to women without this objective in mind. Anyone, anywhere, going out on "the pull" is maybe not your best approach.

Maybe a longer term approach would work better for you.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

OK I'll answer.

Your photo looks really young.

Good that it's a face pic and not a cock shot, but no smile and no sex appeal about it.

Your profile text is unimaginative. I have no idea about what you do's and don'ts are. What your experience is so far. Anything really.

You are a single guy so that automatically limits opportunities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow!

I thought my profile was bare but you win the gold/silver and bronze medal here. Definitely update your literal charisma and for goodness sake, you're on a sex site, that means, polish up your words to attract people rather than put them off, add a few pics that entice and provide a little mystery. This is your doorway to advertising yourself man. Maybe add a joke in there or something! Make it pop! ... Your profile reminds me of the type of person who walks into a shop and expects the goods to jump off the shelves and present themselves in an orderly fashion in front of you, just cause you paid a minor entry fee. Good luck with it sir. Think I've given this advice before, this repetition is becoming too familiar

;-)

Just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow!

;-)

Just saying! "

This is the best advice you'll get, use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it is serious post"

Be yourself dude. There's something out there for all of us apparently.

So have patience. Tweek your profile and people will get to know who you are, and your personality.

hope this is if some use.

Oh and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't just look for a shag it's not very appealing? Just be friendly and chat normally with women and I'm sure you will be more successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget that this is a swinging site and treat it as a social site. Spend time in the forums or chat rooms. Get yourself known I'm a positive way. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow!

;-)

Just saying!

This is the best advice you'll get, use it

I try, plus we can only try and lead these horses to water, the rest is about effort and a little common sense.

Shake things up a little OP

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

You look very young and unappealing to be honest. That doesn't mean you need matinee idol good looks, it means working what you have and not appear desperate.

Here and outside, you need to be able to have a conversation with the opposite sex. If you can talk with confidence and charisma you'll be surprised.

Do a forum search, look at other male profiles in your age group. This is your only chance to sell yourself. That this thread is longer than your profile is telling. You really have to make an effort here, more so than outside.

Many join assuming it's wall to wall pussy, nymphos gagging for it. Reality is there are soooo many men the ladies can take their pick: it's tough!

Improve your profile and good luck.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

Changing how you currently act would be a start. Try talking to women to simply enjoy their company, not as a potential shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you look about 14 ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP you look about 14 ffs"

Thanks for the compliment, I'm 23 though

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By *urreyguy34Man
over a year ago

Weybridge

Be yourself mate it's hard for single fellas here but if you keep trying you might have some luck , change your profile pic so you don't look like curly whatts that's a start

Good luck fella

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

Treat every woman you meet as a human being and not someone to pull and shag.

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Coventry/Bedworth

OP. The best thing to do is speak to your friends that are girls.

Sex isn't a given just because you're here. If it was, the sex trade would collapse overnight.

Your prospective partner has to be attracted to you - take more pics. Have a friend do it and have your friend be honest about what looks good

Your profile has to stand out - most the time it won't but yours definitely doesn't.

You have to be engaging - you aren't. All your profile is about what you want, not what you can offer.

I'd leave Fab (temporarily), get some real life experience and then bring that back here.

Same rules apply in real life. This is going to sound weird and it took me a while to figure out. Talk to women normally and not like a potential pull and you'll actually have a chance. Humour beats anything.

Good luck

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

Personally you look very young. That might put a lot of people off.

Also, spell check your profile. It's a little thing but would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile text doesnt scream meet me ie the spelling and lack of, you dont say what type of woman your attracted to. your age may also be another reason also your age range may put people off ie there may be women older then 30 who might like to meet you. your profile pic is not one that would attract me ie not smiling. lack of pics is another possible factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP. The best thing to do is speak to your friends that are girls.

Sex isn't a given just because you're here. If it was, the sex trade would collapse overnight.

Your prospective partner has to be attracted to you - take more pics. Have a friend do it and have your friend be honest about what looks good

Your profile has to stand out - most the time it won't but yours definitely doesn't.

You have to be engaging - you aren't. All your profile is about what you want, not what you can offer.

I'd leave Fab (temporarily), get some real life experience and then bring that back here.

Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I've been on here a while but have never been able to get a meet on here and I don't know why? Is it something to do with my profile?

Also when I go out into town I'm unable to pull a women at all, what's the best way to pull a women to shag?"

Oh dear.. think youve heard some great advice. Personally (no offence) sharpen up your image maybe loose the glasses get a hair restyle.. they say image isnt everything but guess what on here its what attracts 90% of ppl!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, can you guys review my new profile text please

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Hi all, can you guys review my new profile text please"

It still doesn't say much about you or what you'd bring to the table if you had a meet.

And try smiling

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi all, can you guys review my new profile text please"

Your profile text reads like you are a 16 year old and any experience you offer would be like that of a 16 year old but it's honest and at least people will know exactly what you can and can't offer.

How realistic are you about getting a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd like meets but I don't have much look on here, what can I put about what I can offer on here?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

What about your girlfriend from your other thread? Plus, other threads you've mentioned an mmf you've done and another woman you bareback, so you are posting about quite a bit of action??

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd like meets but I don't have much look on here, what can I put about what I can offer on here?"

How do I know what you offer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ex gf and nothing did happen in the end and I've never mentioned mmf that's what I'd like to do. The other women I have bare backed was the first women I had, I haven't seen her in over a year, sex with her got very boring and was always one way,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any surgestions about what I can out about what I can offer, what do you women look for when you look at a single males profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you ever shag that virgin Kev?

Ruby

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Any surgestions about what I can out about what I can offer, what do you women look for when you look at a single males profile"

It's not about what we think you can offer Kev, we don't know you, it's about what YOU think you can offer, what you're looking for etc and that can only come from one person.

You've been offered a lot of advice on this thread and others, you should really take it and act on it.

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