FabSwingers.com forum: Couples swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I've been a member for five weeks and am really enjoying Fab. I'd like to enjoy it more, but am finding that being a single guy is limiting. 121 is good, MMF is good, but generally couples swinging is precluded. Any advice would be good. I'd like to meet up with a single woman to form a "couple" and together look at swinging with other couples. Do you think that its a reasonable way forward? Appreciate any help. Mike

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's certainly an option OP - the trick is finding a swinging partner in the first place. So would suggest that getting some meets under your belt would be the best first step. Who knows what might then develop from that.

Although your profile suggests you're looking for MMF meets with couples so that might cause you problems finding what you seek.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, thanks for the advice. I've already had some great meets, but to date with couples for MMF. No problems there at all. Its just that I'd love to get involved with couples who are just couple swinging, who are looking for MMFF meets and into same room / separate room scenarios. It was terrific when I had an ex .... brilliant sex. I guess the way forward is to find a lady who's a single and like me is looking to pursue MMFF. So far, no success

Thanks for the profile advice ... I'll change it as you suggested. Mike

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm looking forward to seeing your updated profile Mike.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is still a problem even if you do find a FB. We've met FB couples and our comment is we find the lack of lurve between the FBs means the meet can be very mechanical and not terribly social between all 4 of us as the 2 peeps don't really know each other terribly well.

Usually the bloke has just got together with the woman for convenience and opportunity to advertise as a couple. Just my opinion but it might not be quite what you think as there are probably quite a few couples out there that think the same.

It is an issue where people like us like to get together with other couples for more than sex, but there again we're getting too old for it just to be about sex I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More chance of winning the lottery. Tho if your profile is changed to attract what you are looking for then there maybe someone out there for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm looking forward to seeing your updated profile Mike.

Sally"

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Hi Sally, many thanks. I'll update it shortly to reflect everyones' great advice. xxx, Mike

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is still a problem even if you do find a FB. We've met FB couples and our comment is we find the lack of lurve between the FBs means the meet can be very mechanical and not terribly social between all 4 of us as the 2 peeps don't really know each other terribly well.

It is an issue where people like us like to get together with other couples for more than sex, but there again we're getting too old for it just to be about sex I guess.

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Hi, thank you for the advice. I hadn't thought about the dynamic, so I am very appreciative. My first thought had been about finding a lady to FB with, with the view to us then engaging in couples' meets. Something to consider. And also your observation that couples' meets are more than just about sex. Again, very interesting. I am a romantic guy, and had assumed that whoever I'd end up with teaming with would be the same as me, and that we'd gel as a romantic FB couple .... and become a romantic couple. Mmmm ... more complex than I thought. Another adjustment in my view. Thank you again. Mike.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More chance of winning the lottery. Tho if your profile is changed to attract what you are looking for then there maybe someone out there for you."

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Many thanks, and I'll definitely have to re-work my profile. And also top up on my Lottery tickets ... just in case I fail in finding my ideal FB to team with

xxxx, Mike

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile re-worked. Amazing, I've had lots of messages in one day. Thank you to all the couples and singles who helped. xxx, Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I've been a member for five weeks and am really enjoying Fab. I'd like to enjoy it more, but am finding that being a single guy is limiting. 121 is good, MMF is good, but generally couples swinging is precluded. Any advice would be good. I'd like to meet up with a single woman to form a "couple" and together look at swinging with other couples. Do you think that its a reasonable way forward? Appreciate any help. Mike"

This is what im trying to do also. It's not that easy to find, but im just carrying on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not sure how easy it is find a woman to team up with but I do know someone who has done it and had successful couple meets as a result .

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i only play with couples with my fwb's that i already know pretty well 121. it depends on the dynamic as people are all different.

my suggestion is that you hone your searches to women who actually enjoy the lifestyle.

i have found my fwb's at clubs..

be clear about what message you are sending out.and if really serious, then stick to it. if its not on your profile, put it somewhere and get out and be met face to face...

good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i only play with couples with my fwb's that i already know pretty well 121. it depends on the dynamic as people are all different.

my suggestion is that you hone your searches to women who actually enjoy the lifestyle.

i have found my fwb's at clubs..

be clear about what message you are sending out.and if really serious, then stick to it. if its not on your profile, put it somewhere and get out and be met face to face...

good luck xx"

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i only play with couples with my fwb's that i already know pretty well 121. it depends on the dynamic as people are all different.

my suggestion is that you hone your searches to women who actually enjoy the lifestyle.

i have found my fwb's at clubs..

be clear about what message you are sending out.and if really serious, then stick to it. if its not on your profile, put it somewhere and get out and be met face to face...

good luck xx

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Hi, thank you for the feedback. It's very sensible and a good approach. I love MMF and have had terrific MMF relationships. There is a new couple who I'm very interested in at the moment for my next MMF relationship .... so, I'll go back to my previous profile focus of MMF alone. Thanks again for your advice. xxx, Mike"
it takes a certain something to turn a fwb into a couple profile, meeting other couples. im not sure why you cant look for both, at same time, but maybe im missing the point...i meet couples on my own too..maybe im just lucky x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Suzy, I guess its a time and commitment thing. Also my personal performance on Fab (6 weeks now) shows most "success" in MMF scenarios with confident couples who are actively wanting a second guy in their existing relationship. They've already decided on a 3some relationship and are actively looking for the man to satisfy it. I'd love to claim credit for my MMF relationships ... but to be honest its always been the couples wanting me. Their decision is already made between them ... and I'm the lucky winner. xxx, Mike

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Hi Suzy, I guess its a time and commitment thing. Also my personal performance on Fab (6 weeks now) shows most "success" in MMF scenarios with confident couples who are actively wanting a second guy in their existing relationship. They've already decided on a 3some relationship and are actively looking for the man to satisfy it. I'd love to claim credit for my MMF relationships ... but to be honest its always been the couples wanting me. Their decision is already made between them ... and I'm the lucky winner. xxx, Mike"
then it seems you are not wanting what you were asking for..maybe thats why you didnt experience it..but glad you are happy with your choices x

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