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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

hi all ive been here over a year and still not had a meet is there something im doing wrong i messaged people locally and im located in cumbria but will to travel ive had my pictures hidden as found people that know my family on here can anyone help with some tips thanks in advance do message me advice would be nice to here from you with tips and advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well putting as much effort into your profile as the university warning may be a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile would help, 12 words is not inviting, thats less than the first line of your post here

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm sure if you posted some photos of your back or torso the family friends wouldn't instantly recognise you.

Sally

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Look at other profiles and see how yours compares. Would you meet someone with a profile like yours? It needs LOTS of work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your disclaimer is bigger than your personality you need a rethink mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do know that those disclaimers aren't worth jack shit, don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by blocking the people you think you know then you can show the pictures. They can't see your profile. It won't come up in searches.

Then sort a profile out, you'll get what you put in around here which, at the moment is nothing. More effort needed.

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

thanks for the feedback guys

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 08/04/17 01:01:48]"

were you gonna come back and ask how your profile looked now?

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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago

streatham

And no one likes a moody face- smile

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria

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By *oggingdillema OP   Man
over a year ago

west cumbria


"And no one likes a moody face- smile "

due to having bells palsy a few years ago in my left hand side i struggle to be able to smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not selling it at all, you can't accommodate you can't travel?? How's that work? Your profile is boring it needs some umph in it sounds like a 90 year old guys not a 23 year old? Sellyourself !!

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I suggest removing the 2014 photo as it shows how old your profile is without a verification. Or better still, why not start a new profile with a new name ?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggest removing the 2014 photo as it shows how old your profile is without a verification. Or better still, why not start a new profile with a new name ?

Sally"

this might not be the worst idea, go do a forum search for profile advice, figure out what you can put together, start a fresh new profile, new pics (again, there's loads of threads on the forum already on picture ideas) and make a fresh start, a spring clean of sorts once you re join, i'd recommend travelling to a social near you too, gets the ice broken, you'll pick up a verification or two and you never know, you might leave with a number or two if you click with someone

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm going to offer a bit of a reality check, don't shoot the messenger!

You smoke, you are short, your profile is bad and you are young, all of which make it difficult for you to get attention. You'd be better off going to clubs and socials.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The profile is covered in pics, including cock pics. What happened to the secrecy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well putting as much effort into your profile as the university warning may be a good start."

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all ive been here over a year and still not had a meet is there something im doing wrong i messaged people locally and im located in cumbria but will to travel ive had my pictures hidden as found people that know my family on here can anyone help with some tips thanks in advance do message me advice would be nice to here from you with tips and advice "

Profile is now ok

But Your worried about people knowing u or family but you have your whole face as picture.

I jane am red head so i wouldn't meet fellow red head is all.

But is it the way ur messaging are u being pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're worried about secrecy I wouldn't have cock and face pics on the same profile. Set face pics to private and send if someone asks to see them. If someone asks to see them, and you have a legitimate concern they might recognize you, ask to see their face pic first. If you DO recognize them just block them, and don't mention their use of the site to anyone to protect their identity.

Put some more info about yourself, likes and dislikes, bedroom skills etc. Sell yourself like you would on a job interview, only sexier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun.. you've been here since 2014. Whatever you're doing isn't Working!

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