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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

I have been on fab a while now but not actively been involved with forum etc. I don't seem to be getting any luck with anyone and was wondering if any females would have a look at my profile and give me some advice as to where I'm going wrong.

Thanks in advance to anyone willing to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos. "

I agree

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I know I'm not a lady, but for wha it's worth OP, all your pics are cock pics, I'd lose those for starters and replace them with some well considered body shots.

Your profile blurb should be about who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer and to be honest yours isn't overly enticing currently, is mainly about what you want and not put in the best of terms either. Your blurb should be like a shop window to entice people in.

Good luck

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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"I know I'm not a lady, but for wha it's worth OP, all your pics are cock pics, I'd lose those for starters and replace them with some well considered body shots.

Your profile blurb should be about who you are, what you're looking for and what you can offer and to be honest yours isn't overly enticing currently, is mainly about what you want and not put in the best of terms either. Your blurb should be like a shop window to entice people in.

Good luck "

Thanks. Will look at changing that

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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos. "

In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos.

In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics?"

Too many cock pics.

Lose them all!

Ruby

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

The username made me think you like cock. The photos are what a man would like.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The username made me think you like cock. The photos are what a man would like."

Not this one!! I'm Bi but endless cock pics do nothing for me either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One cock pic is more than enough. You need more body shots.

Plus the profile blurb needs to say more about you and what you're into..and check your spelling too xx

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP You say you are "masturbating on way home most days". Are you doing this whilst walking, driving or on public transport? Sally

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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"OP You say you are "masturbating on way home most days". Are you doing this whilst walking, driving or on public transport? Sally"

In the car pulled up in a quiet spot

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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

OK guys thanks for your feedback. I have removed the pics like suggested, well put the to private anyway. And have changed the content. Is this any better in ur opinion. I'm rubbish at this stuff.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As you have been on here over a year with no verifications, why not start a new profile with a new name and see if that helps?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos.

In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics?"

You've written your profile from a man's perspective, and that's fair enough as you are a man. But when you do something from a man's perspective the only people you are going to attract are men. I suspect if you were to chat a woman up in a bar, you would know how to say things that appeal to the female mind. I bet you wouldn't dream of telling a lady about your masterbation habits, or showing her a selection of cock pictures. In a face to face situation you would be showing the lady who YOU are. Its no different on Fab. And a good picture for sexual purposes is a picture that makes the person look sexy. And a sexy picture doesn't necessarily have to be naked - it's just has to be sexy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read you're updated profile. Yes you will struggle as a married man, but not much you can do about that. Also not sure that it will do you any favours by saying that you've never played with a couple before. Obviously everybody has to start somewhere, but it would take a very confident couple who would be willing to take on a newby who may not understand the potentially complex dynamics of playing with an MF couple.

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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"Read you're updated profile. Yes you will struggle as a married man, but not much you can do about that. Also not sure that it will do you any favours by saying that you've never played with a couple before. Obviously everybody has to start somewhere, but it would take a very confident couple who would be willing to take on a newby who may not understand the potentially complex dynamics of playing with an MF couple. "

I understand what u are saying. But want to be honest. I'm bloody rubbish at this stuff. I'm OK face to face but rubbish at writing things down ??

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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"I think your profile will appeal more to a man than a woman, both with regards to profile text and photos.

In what why would u say it appeals to a man? With regards to pics what type should I put on, more body pics?

You've written your profile from a man's perspective, and that's fair enough as you are a man. But when you do something from a man's perspective the only people you are going to attract are men. I suspect if you were to chat a woman up in a bar, you would know how to say things that appeal to the female mind. I bet you wouldn't dream of telling a lady about your masterbation habits, or showing her a selection of cock pictures. In a face to face situation you would be showing the lady who YOU are. Its no different on Fab. And a good picture for sexual purposes is a picture that makes the person look sexy. And a sexy picture doesn't necessarily have to be naked - it's just has to be sexy.

Mrs"

No ur quite right I would go straight in with stuff like that. I have taken things out about my habits etc.I'm going to be putting some different pics up soon.

Thanks

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

All this advice yet the avatar remains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this advice yet the avatar remains."

Same old Polemic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did it say he was married before?

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By *olosuck OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"All this advice yet the avatar remains."

I'm trying to change things but it's not letting me in my phone. Atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd delete your profile and start a fresh with your newly gleaned profile knowledge.

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