FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Introductions

Stand out

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey ppl looking at advice on how to stand out on here. Take a look at my profile and any tips will be much appreciated

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Have a look at the few hundreds previous threads from single males asking for profile advice. One thing you will almost certainly need to be a success on here is patience, 3 weeks is no time at all for a single male on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a look at the few hundreds previous threads from single males asking for profile advice. One thing you will almost certainly need to be a success on here is patience, 3 weeks is no time at all for a single male on here. "

Yer I've looked at a few but most say put a face pic on which I don't really want to do as don't want the town knowing lol

But thanks for your advice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at the few hundreds previous threads from single males asking for profile advice. One thing you will almost certainly need to be a success on here is patience, 3 weeks is no time at all for a single male on here.

Yer I've looked at a few but most say put a face pic on which I don't really want to do as don't want the town knowing lol

But thanks for your advice

"

You think that everyone from your town is on here then?

I think this is just a lame excuse.

Think about it. If somebody were to recognise you and said something like 'Oh, I've seen you on fab', then they would be telling everyone that they are also on here - not to mention, of course, the assumption that people in the vanilla world know what fab is and what it's all about.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need a face pic, but u do need less cock pics and clear pics. Use the timer, to take pics further away, and your imagination.

Sort out your age range, would u really meet a 99 year old? It's screams lazy...lazy profile, lazy lover. People will judge you on your profile, as unfair as that may seem, that's the way of fab. Put work in, get meets out (in theory)

Good luck

Poppy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a look at the few hundreds previous threads from single males asking for profile advice. One thing you will almost certainly need to be a success on here is patience, 3 weeks is no time at all for a single male on here.

Yer I've looked at a few but most say put a face pic on which I don't really want to do as don't want the town knowing lol

But thanks for your advice

You think that everyone from your town is on here then?

I think this is just a lame excuse.

Think about it. If somebody were to recognise you and said something like 'Oh, I've seen you on fab', then they would be telling everyone that they are also on here - not to mention, of course, the assumption that people in the vanilla world know what fab is and what it's all about."

No not everyone is on it but ppl are and they talk.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More variety in photos; I'm sure you're jolly proud of your penis, but I'm equally sure you have more to offer the world. Having a knob really isn't a USP.

The profile text is pretty bland to be honest.

It's bad luck that you're one of lots of chaps on here, but you do need to stand out from the crowd and that takes effort.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Put your cock away is a good start! Men seems to think that's the be all and end all! The bigger the better the more pics of it !

Last thing women want to see! They might ask about it at some point but it's not first on the list!

This is coming from a guy who loves getting his cock out too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Have a look at the few hundreds previous threads from single males asking for profile advice. One thing you will almost certainly need to be a success on here is patience, 3 weeks is no time at all for a single male on here.

Yer I've looked at a few but most say put a face pic on which I don't really want to do as don't want the town knowing lol

But thanks for your advice

"

Read them again. Most don't say that, but give loads of useful advice that applies to your profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at the few hundreds previous threads from single males asking for profile advice. One thing you will almost certainly need to be a success on here is patience, 3 weeks is no time at all for a single male on here.

Yer I've looked at a few but most say put a face pic on which I don't really want to do as don't want the town knowing lol

But thanks for your advice

Read them again. Most don't say that, but give loads of useful advice that applies to your profile."

You can lead the horse to water.........

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP read through your profile again and you will spot spelling and punctuation errors.

Sally

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton


"Hey ppl looking at advice on how to stand out on here. Take a look at my profile and any tips will be much appreciated "

Well lots and lots of guys with similar profiles so sorry you don't stand out right now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile thing is subjective. Some with very little in it a few pics do well.

My take on it is join in the forums...watch and read carefully... see who to avoid see who to respond to. Don't respond to get in their pants...they're not that dumb they can't tell. Be respectful, be lighthearted and serious, don't take things personally and don't come across as you know it all.

There are only 4% at best who use the forums...but maybe upwards of 25% who just read.... they are your target and they will message you directly often based on what you have said that strikes accord. They're a good starting point for conversations that may Leeds to coffee meets etc.

And it takes time.

Enjoy yourself firstly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some interesting points here. Im not sure im comfortable with face pics as anyone can see thing. I have them but they're private i would send to one i'd meet, same goes for cock pics too. As my face is on most of those. Though maybe just maybe i'll upload a nice body shot. I have some good ones definately.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"You don't need a face pic, but u do need less cock pics and clear pics. Use the timer, to take pics further away, and your imagination.

Sort out your age range, would u really meet a 99 year old? It's screams lazy...lazy profile, lazy lover. People will judge you on your profile, as unfair as that may seem, that's the way of fab. Put work in, get meets out (in theory)

Good luck

Poppy"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well done for listening and changing. Many don't, so you are going in the right direction

MrB

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top