FabSwingers.com forum: advice

By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

Pretty new to this , wondering if should update pics , please tell me if should, keep , delete , add more or delete all n take completely fresh ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try smiling

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Try smiling"

Ty. Believe it or not im quite a happy chap , not used to all the taking pics of myself thing that's all . But I do see your point .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the number of people on the site, have a think about you as an individual and show that in your profile and photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe it would help if your profile was longer than your post on here OP

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

Ok thank you both

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it.

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it."
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Im happily open to constructive criticism off anyone really , but off a man who takes a pic of himself in jean shorts n thinks it looks good ! C'mon pal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it.,

Im happily open to constructive criticism off anyone really , but off a man who takes a pic of himself in jean shorts n thinks it looks good ! C'mon pal lol"

He has something you don't though.......

Lots of meets so wouldn't dismiss the advice totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try smiling"

I tried that once and realised how awful I look smiling, I'm told I have a happy face but in pictures I look a right goon. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try smiling

I tried that once and realised how awful I look smiling, I'm told I have a happy face but in pictures I look a right goon. Lol."

The trick is to get someone else to take the photo when you least expect it, and the smile looks more natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try smiling

I tried that once and realised how awful I look smiling, I'm told I have a happy face but in pictures I look a right goon. Lol.

The trick is to get someone else to take the photo when you least expect it, and the smile looks more natural. "

Yeh, that's the trouble, all my smiling ones that are natural I'm stood with mates or family, you know what ppl think when you have a cropped face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it.,

Im happily open to constructive criticism off anyone really , but off a man who takes a pic of himself in jean shorts n thinks it looks good ! C'mon pal lol"

seriously

good job he also has a couples profile then innit

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it.,

Im happily open to constructive criticism off anyone really , but off a man who takes a pic of himself in jean shorts n thinks it looks good ! C'mon pal lol

seriously

good job he also has a couples profile then innit

Then maybe couples like pics of men in turned up jean shorts

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it.,

Im happily open to constructive criticism off anyone really , but off a man who takes a pic of himself in jean shorts n thinks it looks good ! C'mon pal lol"
He's doing well though op with his pictures, unlike yourself

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Blimey I never for a minute thought my jeans shorts would cause such controversy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well, more wasted advice. People are trying to be helpful and you go on the attack. We'll see you on the next 'why don't I have any luck on here' thread

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

Lmao ppl take things so seriously ! Can't say nothing in these rooms ! Was just having a bit of banter , for gods sake lighten up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say stop deleting your account. I've seen u on at least three

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

Have deleted my account once before because there was just no one on here local enough to me tbh .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have deleted my account once before because there was just no one on here local enough to me tbh . "

You are 5 miles from me and there are over 300 women and couples looking to meet single men in this area.

(Fab only goes up to 300+ but I suspect there to be alot more than that)

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Have deleted my account once before because there was just no one on here local enough to me tbh .

You are 5 miles from me and there are over 300 women and couples looking to meet single men in this area.

(Fab only goes up to 300+ but I suspect there to be alot more than that) "

Thanks , just think I was using the site wrong last time tbh . Was searching women online n gave me women miles away . Should of searched women local to me . Im pretty new to all this , just trying to get the hang of it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it.,

Im happily open to constructive criticism off anyone really , but off a man who takes a pic of himself in jean shorts n thinks it looks good ! C'mon pal lol"
no need for insults you learn quick on here pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try smiling"

Priceless stars u are x

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

Not insulting anyone , was just having a bit of banter , a laugh , was other ppl who took it as an insult that turned it into one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd lose the cock pic with you wearing a bobble hat...and as said above I'd give your profile blurb some serious consideration for adding to it.,

Im happily open to constructive criticism off anyone really , but off a man who takes a pic of himself in jean shorts n thinks it looks good ! C'mon pal lol

seriously

good job he also has a couples profile then innit

Top Draw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not insulting anyone , was just having a bit of banter , a laugh , was other ppl who took it as an insult that turned it into one "

Tbh 'Mr jeans shorts' pictures are good... maybe take his advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have deleted my account once before because there was just no one on here local enough to me tbh .

You are 5 miles from me and there are over 300 women and couples looking to meet single men in this area.

(Fab only goes up to 300+ but I suspect there to be alot more than that)

Try a club Meet

Lose your Focus

Find your Match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not insulting anyone , was just having a bit of banter , a laugh , was other ppl who took it as an insult that turned it into one "
I got so much shit I got blocked for banter just saying mate sense of humour is difficult on here definitely defences to be had lol

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

Maybe I will . Lol the jean short thing was meant in banter anyway , was no offence meant watsoever . Seems ppl just like jumping all over something tht they don't like tbh . Thought more ppl on here would be up for a laugh n a bit of banter . Seems one person objects to something n it fetches all the drones out , very clicky it seems . Maybe im wrong , hope I am tbh .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose any pics with the beany hat. Take some body shots. Smile, resting bitch face on a guy is hard to pull off.

Actually write somthing in your profile. What are you after, what can you offer etc etc.

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Lose any pics with the beany hat. Take some body shots. Smile, resting bitch face on a guy is hard to pull off.

Actually write somthing in your profile. What are you after, what can you offer etc etc."

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As owner of said "jeans shorts" pic and the body inside it can I just say no offence was taken..

...although whether it was just "bants" (as I believe the young people say, or at least do on The Inbetweeners) is open to debate

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"As owner of said "jeans shorts" pic and the body inside it can I just say no offence was taken..

...although whether it was just "bants" (as I believe the young people say, or at least do on The Inbetweeners) is open to debate

Glad no offence was taken CZ thts all it was , banter. Seemed to offend others tho .

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Omg why you ppl so argumentative! If I say something n try n Av a laugh get slated . If im polite n say nothing get slated . Lmfao unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think the hat brings to your pics OP? Personally, I don't think it adds anything to your photos apart from looking mildly ridiculous - this is a site for grown-ups after all (for the most part!).

In answer to your question I think you should delete and start again, maybe look at some of the male profiles and get some ideas or read a few of the many threads circulating on the topic of men's photos.

You could also drop the attacking comments, you may see it as banter but it obviously isn't coming across that way generally.

And the text speak .... keep it for texting

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"What do you think the hat brings to your pics OP? Personally, I don't think it adds anything to your photos apart from looking mildly ridiculous - this is a site for grown-ups after all (for the most part!).

You could also drop the attacking comments, you may see it as banter but it obviously isn't coming across that way generally.

And the text speak .... keep it for texting

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

You could also drop the attacking comments, you may see it as banter but it obviously isn't coming across that way generally.

And the text speak .... keep it for texting

I take constructive criticism well , as I said earlier , shut I think ur the one with the attacking comments there , and as for Tt speak , ill txt however I like , or do u make the rules and forbid it ? I attacked no body . Like I said I was just having a lark . Seems a lot of keyboard bullies on here ain't there , most would probably hide from their shadow in the real world . But then it is what it is ain't it "
and you attack me for looking ridiculous In my pics , fair enough if you don't like that's your choice , but I got pics with my face up ! Not just my legs , or eating a grape , or a toe wrapped in beads !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Omg why you ppl so argumentative! If I say something n try n Av a laugh get slated . If im polite n say nothing get slated . Lmfao unreal "

are you really for real? you go on saying your comments were just a joke then you take offence at another comment that WAS clearly a joke (you can differentiate that by the

used)

Lighten up OP, you are taking things way too seriously

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Omg why you ppl so argumentative! If I say something n try n Av a laugh get slated . If im polite n say nothing get slated . Lmfao unreal

are you really for real? you go on saying your comments were just a joke then you take offence at another comment that WAS clearly a joke (you can differentiate that by the

used)

Lighten up OP, you are taking things way too seriously

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was no joke in the last comments at all . Saying I look ridiculous ? If id said that would of been crucified ! Lmao you ppl !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Omg why you ppl so argumentative! If I say something n try n Av a laugh get slated . If im polite n say nothing get slated . Lmfao unreal "
pal I thought it was just me some think there above others they love arguments ignore the negative do what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like you are checking for spinach in your teeth in the mirror in most of your pics. Didn't bother looking further than that

Ruby

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Omg why you ppl so argumentative! If I say something n try n Av a laugh get slated . If im polite n say nothing get slated . Lmfao unreal pal I thought it was just me some think there above others they love arguments ignore the negative do what you think "

Well said mate. Your absolutely right . A lot they're above or better than others on here. But were all on the same site in the end ain't we

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"You look like you are checking for spinach in your teeth in the mirror in most of your pics. Didn't bother looking further than that

Ruby"

Why thank you . Wish I could say same about you but can't see your face , only your tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Well said mate. Your absolutely right . A lot they're above or better than others on here. But were all on the same site in the end ain't we "
exactly how it is we all want naughty fun not a fucking lecture

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Well said mate. Your absolutely right . A lot they're above or better than others on here. But were all on the same site in the end ain't we exactly how it is we all want naughty fun not a fucking lecture "

Bang on mate .some Ppl just love the right to insult and think they are something special in their virtual world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Bang on mate .some Ppl just love the right to insult and think they are something special in their virtual world "
I could insult everyone on here but I'm not like that issues with there self gotta love them lol

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Amazing the difference in response to a woman offering the same advice as a guy.

Bang on mate .some Ppl just love the right to insult and think they are something special in their virtual world I could insult everyone on here but I'm not like that issues with there self gotta love them lol"

I don't insult anyone tbh . I only stand my ground , if someone insults me I will reply with an insult . Way of the world . Maybe not the virtual one tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a room you two

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Get a room you two

Lol. Putting the fab world to rights .

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP let me remind you of your original post which read:

"Pretty new to this , wondering if should update pics , please tell me if should, keep , delete , add more or delete all n take completely fresh ones"

You asked for advice, you were given it and because you didn't like the answers you got - you chose to go down the route of biting back. Now you can dress it up as "banter" as much as you like but remember the kind of site this is, and that's definitely not the playground or with the boys down the pub. I said I took no offence at your comment about my jeans pics, and I genuinely didn't, did I think it was a little off when all I'd done was offer you genuine advice as someone who's been here a lot longer than you? You betcha I did, and it's obvious others did too.

Now remember through all this that YOU are the one asked for advice and have been given it in a mostly constructive way - your choice as to whether to take that advice and act on it or not, but perhaps changing the attitude and not taking offence from people who have been around the site and the scene a lot longer than you, and therefore know what works and what doesn't, would be a good place to start. It may well make the difference between you getting any success out of this site and being back here bemoaning your lack of meets in another few weeks/months.

On that note I'll leave you to it.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty new to this , wondering if should update pics , please tell me if should, keep , delete , add more or delete all n take completely fresh ones "

You look scared to death in your pic

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"Pretty new to this , wondering if should update pics , please tell me if should, keep , delete , add more or delete all n take completely fresh ones

You look scared to death in your pic "

Lol so you blame me with this place ! I know what you mean though . Not the best pic is it . Time I took some fresh ones soon I think

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By *angerman85 OP Man
over a year ago

preston

"OP let me remind you of your original post which read:

"Pretty new to this , wondering if should update pics , please tell me if should, keep , delete , add more or delete all n take completely fresh ones"

On that note I'll leave you to it.

Good luck

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Thanks for the advice and I genuinely mean that . But some of the comments weren't just advice , I can take constructive criticism as I've said before, welcome it in fact . But some of the comments were just argumentative n plain rude tbh , which is why I bit back . I was genuinely trying to have a bit of a laugh earlier n the comment I made wasn't meant with any malice at all. I know ppl been on here longer than me ani respect that , but doesn't give them or anyone the right to be offensive n want to argue . I definitely don't want to argue with anyone , but if im being set about by ppl who only find a voice behind a keyboard then I will say my piece too. Thanks for the good luck gesture , n good luck to you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a room you two

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you blocked me I'm hurting but I think I will get over it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a room you two

you blocked me I'm hurting but I think I will get over it lol

Glad to hear it

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