FabSwingers.com forum: Another New Couple Introduction.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello Everyone....from finally been on the site long enough to post here in the forum.

We are totally new to the scene and the site so thought we would use this to say hello.

Also want to take it as a chance to ask you all if you have any advice for a new couple taking their first steps - especially things to watch out for and things you wish you knew when you first started out.

Thank you very much!

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By *jleedsCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Hello and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Everyone....from finally been on the site long enough to post here in the forum.

We are totally new to the scene and the site so thought we would use this to say hello.

Thank you very much!"

Hello I know I'm not a couple but I was part of a couple a few yrs ago and we got caught out by a few fakes who said they would want to meet at a place and the sounded very genuine but they wouldn't give us a mobile number as they say they have a small family so we understood that and it turned out they was fakes and if people seem to too true maybe they are, hope that answer's some of your questions and hope I can help you with anything else ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome!

Our advice is to take things slow and be patient. Go to clubs when you feel confident enough as it's a great way to meet people and learn about the lifestyle. We have only ever met in clubs.

If a ridiculously hot and single woman messages you and has no verifications, she is probably fake

we have had too many of those lol

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Welcome!

Our advice would be to take things at the pace you are both happy with. Do what YOU want, not what you think others want / expect.

Always remember you are here to have fun. If it is ever anything different to fun and exciting, then take a step back and change things to make sure it is.

If one of you isn't happy with something, then then means you both support that feeling 100%.

If you do what makes you both happy, then you will have a marvelous time!

Have fun xx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Well we got caught a couple of times by fakes in the early days so I'd say. Try to detect the sex of the person sending the message, some are so obviously single guys posing as women/couples its laughable.

Do not agree to more pics etc via other services like kik. They are better for chat but after a bit of banter on here first I'd say.

Don't use whatsapp unless you've changed privacy settings in there so its not linked to facebook.

Lastly and sorry to say this to newbies, but treat every newbie with a high level of suspicion & don't invest too much time chatting to them as they have a habit of dissapearing once they realise this place isn't shagcentral or they get caught by their partners

Outside of that, have fun

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Hiya guys, well everyone above as given brilliant advice, so all we can do is add to that really,

Firstly have fun, it's all about the fun

Take everything at your own pace and don't be talked into anything your not happy with

Use your filters, they are your biggest tool to avoid a tool

Don't accept every friend request you're sent because you don't want offend( we did this at the beginning

) just wait until you've chatted lots,maybe met, at least feel happy they are not fakes

Whilst we realise they are not for everyone, we have found clubs to be fantastic, no pressure and really social

Use the forums, even if you just read, you will learn lots about how to spot fakes, why is your fanny so wet

, etc etc, but seriously they can be so helpful

I could go on but I think you'll be overwhelmed as it is, so just have a great time, talk lots with each other and laugh lots, good luck

Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all very much for your advice.

We have already started picking up on some of the points you've all made.

As a few of you mentioned clubs, that is one of the things that really interests the both of us - but will no doubt be asking for advice relating to those another time!

Thanks again.

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