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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sigh. Getting fed up.

Doesn't matter what I put in my profile text or my messages. Trust me, I've tried it all.

Chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem.

I get more pussy on pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your profile as sparse on POF?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My profile wasn't always sparse, I'm trying the short and sweet approach, that seems to work for other guys on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sigh. Getting fed up.

Doesn't matter what I put in my profile text or my messages. Trust me, I've tried it all.

Chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem.

I get more pussy on pof"

One week in single guy on fab terms is nothing. If you've tried it all in that time you haven't given any of it a chance.

Your "chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem" comment is telling. It implies to me that you thought the site would be row upon row of women with no discrimination who would just have sex with the first guy to contact them, as you've discovered it isn't like that.

The most successful man we know on here has a well written profile with quite a few pictures. He socialises, goes to clubs and advertises a meet when he's available, he joins in the forum and messages people where he recognises compatibility. He's positive and never rude. It works very well for him.

Good luck.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

OP, Best you look at your filters if you want to meet couples.

Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user

Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


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The most successful man we know on here has a well written profile with quite a few pictures. He socialises, goes to clubs and advertises a meet when he's available, he joins in the forum and messages people where he recognises compatibility. He's positive and never rude. It works very well for him.

Good luck."

The same philosophy works well for me too. I've no complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sigh. Getting fed up.

Doesn't matter what I put in my profile text or my messages. Trust me, I've tried it all.

Chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem.

I get more pussy on pof"

Then stick to using pof!

You've been here a week.

Most single guys don't get their first meet until they've been here for around six months. What, really, were your expectations of the site.

You do know that men outnumber women on here at around 100 to 1 don't you?

I would also agree with an earlier comment regarding 'chicks'

I would suggest that if you're moaning about your lack of success on here in your first week, and how you refer to women, perhaps fab isn't the place for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does ABDN stand for?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What does ABDN stand for?"

Am guessing Aberdeen from his location...a long way from Reading!!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well, you've spent time uploading a fuzzy picture, plus written a three line profile, detailing that you're not a druggy.

And still after doing all that, and giving it a full week, still no pussy has turned up!

I honestly don't know what more you could be expected to do.

MrB

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids


"Sigh. Getting fed up.

Doesn't matter what I put in my profile text or my messages. Trust me, I've tried it all.

Chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem.

I get more pussy on pof"

Get out there! Socials and clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't worry I've not been here to long and things happen when they happen ,so many men on here I'll just wait til a woman finds interest in me saves being a message pest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sigh. Getting fed up.

Doesn't matter what I put in my profile text or my messages. Trust me, I've tried it all.

Chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem.

I get more pussy on pof

One week in single guy on fab terms is nothing. If you've tried it all in that time you haven't given any of it a chance.

Your "chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem" comment is telling. It implies to me that you thought the site would be row upon row of women with no discrimination who would just have sex with the first guy to contact them, as you've discovered it isn't like that.

The most successful man we know on here has a well written profile with quite a few pictures. He socialises, goes to clubs and advertises a meet when he's available, he joins in the forum and messages people where he recognises compatibility. He's positive and never rude. It works very well for him.

Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sigh. Getting fed up.

Doesn't matter what I put in my profile text or my messages. Trust me, I've tried it all.

Chicks on here know what they're looking for and that's the problem.

I get more pussy on pof"

You have been here two weeks!

Your profile is crap tbf ...

Best you get back on POF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put such little effort into getting a dream job would you be surprised when you didn't get it??

Too many make the assumption that as its an adult site, they'll get sex easily. If another site works better for you then continue using that.

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