FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling for meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I'm struggling for meets and have no idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you implemented any of the suggestions in your previous threads?

It looks to me like you haven't.

You'll get the same advice as before, or possibly not seeing as you're not taking any of it on board.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I have updated my profile haven't had chance to go to social as was working last sat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I'm struggling for meets and have no idea why "

Your on fab. That's why.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

My thought was that we would frighten you to death !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

OP, use some of the advice given on threads you've started before about this topic. Good luck!

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

You want some honesty?

1. Your profile is extremely sparse.

2. You have 1 public photo and 1 profile photo.

3. In the public photo... well, take off the douché bag Oakleys and maybe try smiling?

4. Try and be funny, witty, cheeky or bold, just don't be boring...

5. There's 10 men here for every woman, so you need to stand out, don't be the grey-man..

Also, might want to put a photo that shows your body off, this is a sex-meet site so couples and singles want to see the goods...

Just my 2p, good luck though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right I've got rid of the deuche bag Oakley pic and popped a couple of pic in public pics hope it's better x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Having read all your other threads, it's crystal clear to me.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I just pop to the butcher's, me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi all I'm struggling for meets and have no idea why "

Jesus! How many threads on the same thing?!! You know Einstein's definition of insanity right?!!

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By *mmsiebeeCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Right I've got rid of the deuche bag Oakley pic and popped a couple of pic in public pics hope it's better x"

Yea... ooookkkkayyy..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn fab straight and you might start meeting

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"I have "
op read your profile to yourself and then ask yourself would this attract women

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

The angle in your portrait pictures makes them extremely unflattering.

Have someone who knows how to use camera to shoot you some pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The angle in your portrait pictures makes them extremely unflattering.

Have someone who knows how to shoot you

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

"The angle in your portrait pictures makes them extremely unflattering.

Have someone who knows how to shoot you

Someone is meeeean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The angle in your portrait pictures makes them extremely unflattering.

Have someone who knows how to shoot you

Someone is meeeean

"
Made me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, would you chose to contact or meet a lady with the female equivalent of your profile above any of the others you see? Honestly.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP you have two options:

1. Take the advice given in the countless other threads you have started on the same subject.

2. Keep posting the same question over and over again, annoying the people who have taken the time to help you.

I'd suggest Option 1 is better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't understand what you mean z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club fella , your not alone!

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

[Removed by poster at 30/01/17 16:47:34]

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I don't understand what you mean z"

You've asked exactly the same question as this before. People have replied. Even in those threads people have got frustrated because you've asked the same thing before and not took any of the advice.

Now you are asking again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I'm struggling for meets and have no idea why "

You have 1 in 50 chance of being successful in getting an interested reply to your message never mind an actual meet my old pal.

Your up against 100's of eager willing cocks looking for some pussy to fuck.

So be prepared for a very long wait.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't understand what you mean z

You've asked exactly the same question as this before. People have replied. Even in those threads people have got frustrated because you've asked the same thing before and not took any of the advice.

Now you are asking again.

You should see the facepalm inducing messages he sent me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand what you mean z

You've asked exactly the same question as this before. People have replied. Even in those threads people have got frustrated because you've asked the same thing before and not took any of the advice.

Now you are asking again.

You should see the facepalm inducing messages he sent me."

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By *maxMan
over a year ago

bolton

Happen its because your a numb skull

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I struggle for meets too but only because I'm extremely fussy so don't worry about it pal just roll with the flow

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

You have 1 in 50 chance of being successful in getting an interested reply to your message never mind an actual meet my old pal.

Your up against 100's of eager willing cocks looking for some pussy to fuck.

Bit blunt!

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Your profile text says 18-60, but your preferences say 18-45... That's almost a whole 25% of your profile text that can't or won't message you...

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"Hi all I'm struggling for meets and have no idea why "

Look, I've been on here for several years now, I'm not everyone's cup of tea, however! I've been to socials, I've joined clubs, chatted in forums.

Not once have I post a thread about why I'm not meeting. Put yourself out there as if it were a job interview if you have to, social chit chat, banter & conversation goes a long way. If your talking to a couple include the male, for god sake, it might well be her final decision but he'll sharp get bored if you're ignoring him & I don't mean flatter him, just include him in the conversation.

Try and get a couple of better pics, I'm sure some of smart phones these days have a timer on too now. (Oh & before you start! I know my pics not great, but I'm not the one asking for advice on meets??)

Steve ????

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If this is a thread rerun I'll not bother

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

"If this is a thread rerun I'll not bother

Don't worry. In a week OP will start another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If this is a thread rerun I'll not bother

Certain topics in here are like Groundhog Day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to be helpful and constructive Op. now it's time for bluntness.

GOOD PROFILE TEXT

GOOD PICTURES. It's that simple!

Work it out for yourself. You're a grown adult. If you can't show your best side after the advice you've been given, press the delete account button. Don't bother starting threads every few weeks asking for help when you take nothing on board. The same people will offer the same advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MAYBE BLUNT BUT OH SO RIGHT. Even a 3 legged,101 yr old woman with a beard and one breast, on her back, would get more hits.

That said, I'm sure there is some one out there some where. Wish he got more confidence. Maybe a bit less outspoken about cleanliness till meets. Think he can be a real lovely guy.

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"If this is a thread rerun I'll not bother

Certain topics in here are like Groundhog Day

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