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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone!

I have been here a few weeks and exchanged a few messages here and there but seemingly lost the ladies somewhere along the way.

It seems the main thing holding me back is verification from another user. Lots of people seem to be only willing to meet users verified by other users, which in turns makes it hard to ever get verified by someone...Any tips on this?

Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sometimes organize socials where you can get verified by just meeting and talking to people. Look on Meets/Events.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply, I had a look just now but don't seem to see any upcoming events...It's just somewhat frustrating paying for gold membership, verifying my photo and actually putting effort into messages only to be blanked becausd of verification...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of luck I ain't had fun since December...

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hey everyone!

I have been here a few weeks and exchanged a few messages here and there but seemingly lost the ladies somewhere along the way.

It seems the main thing holding me back is verification from another user. Lots of people seem to be only willing to meet users verified by other users, which in turns makes it hard to ever get verified by someone...Any tips on this?

Many thanks "
you'll find most look at the profile and pictures first op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is my profile that bad?

Although I have had people respond saying they won't meet because I'm not verified....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So is my profile that bad?

Although I have had people respond saying they won't meet because I'm not verified...."

Could be a polite excuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it is a possibility, I have though also seen many people update their status stating they only want to be contacted by verified users...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I guess it is a possibility, I have though also seen many people update their status stating they only want to be contacted by verified users..."

It will affect your chances a bit but it's probably not just that.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

So you're genuinely single & can accommodate that's in your favour, but as others have said you need work on your profile. Plus would you really meet someone whose 99!! Have a look at some other profiles & do a forum search for the zillions of threads looking for advice. As a single guy you're massively outnumbered & you really have to stand out. You've been here 5 minutes compared to many did you think it was Instashag!!

If you have veri's it will help, but it's not the be all and end all.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Thanks for the reply, I had a look just now but don't seem to see any upcoming events...It's just somewhat frustrating paying for gold membership, verifying my photo and actually putting effort into messages only to be blanked becausd of verification..."

You haven't paid for membership, you've paid to use more facilities on the site.

Nobody cares if someone is a site supporter or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets be honest and. Il be frank about it So basically if you have a big cock, pretty with it! you will be ok oh and have muscles plus the verified bit will help a bit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. 1. You've only been here for 3 weeks. Most single guys don't get their first meet until they've been here for around 6 months. What were your expectations of the site?

No. 2. Don't focus too much on getting your first verification. It is not the be all and end all of everything, and you run the risk of putting people off as they will often think that you are less interested in them and more concerned about getting that little green tick.

No. 3. You haven't specifically asked for profile advice, so I can't give any, but you need to ask yourself if your profile is really the best that it can be. Is it working for you or against you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All you men who can't get meets! I'm a middle aged bisexual man who doesn't accommodate and it's not difficult to find a lady or couple to have sex with!

Paying extra on here doesn't entitle you to sex.

Effort in = results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of effort for little rewards

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A lot of effort for little rewards "

That's what women say to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up mate...

I've been on for four years and haven't had a meet

If I get to five years I'm hoping for a sympathy meet at the very least

Or an award

I'm sure I've read that in the fab small print..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of effort for little rewards

That's what women say to me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chin up mate...

I've been on for four years and haven't had a meet

If I get to five years I'm hoping for a sympathy meet at the very least

Or an award

I'm sure I've read that in the fab small print.. "
your here only for cam fun and chatting????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chin up mate...

I've been on for four years and haven't had a meet

If I get to five years I'm hoping for a sympathy meet at the very least

Or an award

I'm sure I've read that in the fab small print.. your here only for cam fun and chatting????"

Nope.... Never been on cam, come on to the chat every now and again...

It's just nobody ever wants to meet me!

Boo hoo

My luck will change one.............. Year

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Read your profile out loud and think about how a woman reading it might feel.

I am willing to meet single fellas for a cuppa, to get them verified. There are other people like me. But since your profile is all about SEX, I would be hesitant to help with a social veri, in case you expected more. Plus I might not be attractive enough for you to meet.

Just my personal opinion. Keep your messages friendly, polite and personal. Be patient.

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