FabSwingers.com forum: First time swingers club advice

By *imAndHer0718 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

Evening guys, I'm Kieran, me and my partner have been in a relationship for 10yr and wanna try some new things, now we have spoke and she has no interest in sleeping with other men but is eager to try more with females, she's done the basics etc.

Anyways we have spoke about a swingers club called chams or charms (can't remember but I'm sure most know where I mean), but we have no idea what to expect, do random people try it on with you, do you have to wait on private rooms if you met someone there or book etc etc

We are eager as said, but want some insight before taking the plunge

We aiming to go there around the 4th Feb if that helps.

Thankyou guys

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Would be better if she posts and leads, if it is for ff meets.

MrB

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Look at the club reviews for Chams (Chameleons) on here and also look at their website to find out about the club.

Sally

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By *ollydesireCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Hiya, we also only play with fems. Hubby gets involved too. We to go to Secrets and find it relaxed and fun. No one will take advantage. I get hit on more in a vinila club lol sure most clubs work the same way. We always get to play with some gorgeous girls. Be respectful, listen to what they want as they are on their own. You have to make both ladies feel safe and adored. Happy fabbing xx

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By *imAndHer0718 OP Couple
over a year ago

telford

Thanks for replying folks, glad to see there's support here if it's needed

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Here you go

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/First%2btime%2bclub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi im a fairly regular visitor to chams .. saturday night would be your best night to visit its couples and single ladies only

People dont randomly try it on it would lose them thwre membership if a complaint was made ..

There a few lockable private rooms so if its busy yes you would need to wait etc but plenty of other places to play

If its your first visit make sure you both take photo id with you .. there are lockers available and it is a wet club so you will need to dress down when arriving. Men its a towel or shorts and ladies its a towel or sexy undies .. all towels are provided . And all drinks and food purchases are paid for on leaving the club a tab is opened on your locker number .. hope this helps any othee question please message me .

Maria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Evening guys, I'm Kieran, me and my partner have been in a relationship for 10yr and wanna try some new things, now we have spoke and she has no interest in sleeping with other men but is eager to try more with females, she's done the basics etc.

We are eager as said, but want some insight before taking the plunge

We aiming to go there around the 4th Feb if that helps.

Thankyou guys

I've recently been to chams, going again on Saturday. Any preconceived ideas you have about it, I would say forget them all. I thought it would be scary, judgmental and just people fucking in every spare space. But it was relaxed, friendly and respectful. The bar area literally felt like I was at a pub but just sitting in my underwear. Once you start to wonder around there's plenty to see. If you want to join another couple then be brave and go talk to them, everyone is there for the sane reasons after all. Private rooms tend to get occupied very quickly so unlikely you'll actually manage to get one, but there are plenty of other rooms. You may end up sharing but no one will join in unless you invite them and you won't be groped or touched unless they are invited to.

Go in with an open mind, relax, and you'll love it x

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

If it's your first time at a club we recommend going to xtasia,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be better if she posts and leads, if it is for ff meets.

MrB"

Deffo f post/lead for f meets or ff, and if a couple have the same, both fs messaging leading, or both ms messaging leading. Communication and respect being key at all times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi if your new and never been to a club chams is by far the best in the area,if it's your first time,Saturday night could get really busy Sunday afternoon is really good still get a lot in but not like a Saturday,if you are new to club just ask for a tour that will gladly show you around and don't drink to much as there are plenty of stairs to clime hope you have a good time xx

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