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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been using Fabswingers for about 4 years on and off now. When I first signed up I seemed to get meets all the time. I have kept my profile and my pictures up to date, but yet I don't hardly ever get a response. Is there a certain way to send a first message without putting people off. I usually get the *To young excuse* my response usually is I'm 27 in the prime of my life, I know where everything goes! any help / advice would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be the sunglasses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just trying to be discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to be discreet "

I got you , but the motorcycle hit man look might not go over so well with some people....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lousy photos combined with poor text combined with lack of respect for your employer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your assuming my emploey demands respect. My text is short and straight to the point. So what pictures would you consider to be not lousy

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Your profile and photos are just dull..... sorry. Try better pics and fill out your profile x

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You say you have kept your pictures up to date but one is two years old and the other almost four years.

I think with your name being mr47 people might assume you are 47 and are then suprised when they see you are 27.

Sally

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I don't meet smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lousy photos combined with poor text combined with lack of respect for your employer. "

This ^^^

Bad photos, bad text. If you're in the prime of you life as you say, then you should be able to think about what photos would be good and how best to sell yourself(not literally) in your bio. We shouldn't have to do it for you.

Poppy

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Just trying to be discreet "

If someone knows you, they will be able to tell from that photo anyway

Better to use higher quality body pics.

Club in Blackpool too, quick, fun and easy way to meet new people.

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