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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both. "

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy? "

She is gone back to Germany

We see each other every 4 weeks or so. I don't drink but I do call this month a dry January in my context. So what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy? "

By posting this three times you will have made yourself look desperate now.

We are sure that wasn't your intention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy?

She is gone back to Germany

We see each other every 4 weeks or so. I don't drink but I do call this month a dry January in my context. So what do you think? "

I think you should specifically ask for profile help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy?

By posting this three times you will have made yourself look desperate now.

We are sure that wasn't your intention."

Thanks pretty lady for your advise.

If I am honest I do need desperate help to improve profile but yes it was not my intention to come across as one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy?

She is gone back to Germany

We see each other every 4 weeks or so. I don't drink but I do call this month a dry January in my context. So what do you think?

I think you should specifically ask for profile help "

I will do. Do you see flaw or flaws, please pm me (if possible) or advise here. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy?

She is gone back to Germany

We see each other every 4 weeks or so. I don't drink but I do call this month a dry January in my context. So what do you think?

I think you should specifically ask for profile help

I will do. Do you see flaw or flaws, please pm me (if possible) or advise here. Thanks "

Your profile text is very basic. It is not written in sentences and therefore comes across as lacking effort. People are in general attracted to others by a combination of looks and personality. I see no personality.

Your public pictures are too similar and don't show you at your best.

You have a brief disclaimer. Any disclaimer is silly and often used as a filter.

You don't say what you bring to the party.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise "

I suggest you always read profiles before sending a message. How can you send an appropriate message if you don't know what their profile says?

Sally

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura

The only public pictures you have are the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys and lovely people

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise from the experience or knowledge they have why this is happening to me? I know people have asked that question before but I don't want my penis to live a miserable life. Lol

Thanks for your help in advance.

Any comments welcome good or bad both.

what happened to the German fb? is she not keeping your penis happy?

She is gone back to Germany

We see each other every 4 weeks or so. I don't drink but I do call this month a dry January in my context. So what do you think?

I think you should specifically ask for profile help

I will do. Do you see flaw or flaws, please pm me (if possible) or advise here. Thanks

Your profile text is very basic. It is not written in sentences and therefore comes across as lacking effort. People are in general attracted to others by a combination of looks and personality. I see no personality.

Your public pictures are too similar and don't show you at your best.

You have a brief disclaimer. Any disclaimer is silly and often used as a filter.

You don't say what you bring to the party."

Thanks very much, I guess this is what I needed. You delivered in one solid punch.

I would work on this and do my best to improve. I belive if I can impress you I guess the entire fab will like me but looking at your pictures you gonna me run a marathon here. You guys have done artistic way presenting yourself. This is first time I actually like the green colored penis. (Just a joke)

But thanks and I will start working on it based on what you said. Cheers guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I am very respectful when it comes to approaching woman or couples online.

I do read their profile sometimes to reply however the chances of replies are none to zero.

Can anyone please advise

I suggest you always read profiles before sending a message. How can you send an appropriate message if you don't know what their profile says?

Sally"

Hi Sally

First of all thanks for taking time out for your feedback.

I guess from now on I will read the profile more carefully and message tailoring the needs however there has been number of occasions very carefully drafted an email yet no response and this could be the fact it was long winded message so sometimes I have read on the forum that it's best of just dropping a one-liner do you think it's a good idea?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only public pictures you have are the same. "

First of all thanks guys for taking time out for your feedback.

I completely agree with you and I guess I need to populate more decent and variable pictures it is a hard work but I will do it thanks once again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you a couple or a single guy? profile is confusing on that one. the avatar and verifications especially.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are you a couple or a single guy? profile is confusing on that one. the avatar and verifications especially."

Thanks for your feedback.

I am single guy but had picture of my partner when she was here. I have been advised to make it precise by stating and displaying picture of me I guess. And verifications are when we both went to parties together.

There is clearly something not write. But yes I am single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you a couple or a single guy? profile is confusing on that one. the avatar and verifications especially.

Thanks for your feedback.

I am single guy but had picture of my partner when she was here. I have been advised to make it precise by stating and displaying picture of me I guess. And verifications are when we both went to parties together.

There is clearly something not write. But yes I am single "

the avatar is usually the first thing people see, whether via their inbox or going to your page. i also advise you to get rid of that.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Saying you're safe, considerate, friendly, approachable is fine but mention that after you've sold yourself!!

Are girls looking for a cuddle on here? No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying you're safe, considerate, friendly, approachable is fine but mention that after you've sold yourself!!

Are girls looking for a cuddle on here? No!

"

i love cuddles. can't stand emotionally dead meets, they're awful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Saying you're safe, considerate, friendly, approachable is fine but mention that after you've sold yourself!!

Are girls looking for a cuddle on here? No!

"

OK..dude that was some awesome piece of advise. You are right, I Need to tailor it. Thanks, I guess i can't pm you

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"

I suggest you always read profiles before sending a message. How can you send an appropriate message if you don't know what their profile says?

Sally

Hi Sally

First of all thanks for taking time out for your feedback.

I guess from now on I will read the profile more carefully and message tailoring the needs however there has been number of occasions very carefully drafted an email yet no response and this could be the fact it was long winded message so sometimes I have read on the forum that it's best of just dropping a one-liner do you think it's a good idea? "

Thanks for your reply. Everyone is different but we are far more likely to reply to a long, well thought out message than a one liner. Wishing you success on Fab.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the other comments...have a few more pictures that show other things and show some of your personality off in your profile text.

Also make it clear you are single xx

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Saying you're safe, considerate, friendly, approachable is fine but mention that after you've sold yourself!!

Are girls looking for a cuddle on here? No!

i love cuddles. can't stand emotionally dead meets, they're awful."

Oh of course, cuddles and kisses in between the hard nasty bitey stuff!

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