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By *hill2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool (Bootle)

What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How many times have you left?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving."

It takes a good message and a good profile.

If your approach is not working, change your approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did u calculate that a third should reply?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving."
why should you get a response op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving."

You need to ask yourself what is it about your profile that makes people want to reply to you.

A lot of people get many messages, you need to make sure that your profile stands out among the hundreds of others.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are you sending all these messages too, are they obliged to reply because you have deigned to write to them?

If you are so disenchanted that you keep leaving it begs the question ... why do you keep coming back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did u calculate that a third should reply?"
Wishful thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the FAQ's OP.

No one is owed a response, and No, it is not considered rude on fab not to reply to a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving."

Leave again then ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving."

You should have? who says?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When sending cv's for jobs the going ratio is for every 25 you send, it might give you 1 reply. As with a cv you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd and see yourself so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times have to left

I keep an eye on my local updates generally can't take yo-yo profilers seriously so I personally avoid them.

Why do seem to think you should have had a 1/3 message you back did you read profile to see if they were looking for someone like you ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When sending cv's for jobs the going ratio is for every 25 you send, it might give you 1 reply. As with a cv you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd and see yourself so to speak."

I liked that one first time I've seen CV's used as a reference. better than my flyer through the door one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving."

It's not you... it's mostly men pretending to be females and couples behind most of these profiles.

If it was real women, they would have answered. Chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring it down to 10% Op

Less disappointing more realistic,

It's about right for me 10-1

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By *umpty dumptyMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Don't give in someone will reply just persevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving."

What does it take for a forum poster to respond to questions aimed to help him on his own thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When sending cv's for jobs the going ratio is for every 25 you send, it might give you 1 reply. As with a cv you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd and see yourself so to speak."
well putted there!The only thing is we do not phone the company with abusive language or insults! We take on chin and go to the next! Here you get it just because you not interested!

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By *hill2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool (Bootle)

no but its like you throwing 100 pennys in the air 100 times and all of them turning up heads everytime. You would freak out and wonder where all the tails were.

I keep coming back in the same way a gambler keeps going back to the track "THIS TIME I'm going to get lucky"

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By *hill2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool (Bootle)

3 or 4

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By *hill2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool (Bootle)

Thank you

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By *hill2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool (Bootle)

oh i know. But its like you throwing 100 pennys in the air and them all coming up heads. you'd be wondering where all the tails were

and I am fully aware that women on here can get over 250 messages in a 10 minute time span and after about 5 minutes my message is buried on page 3.

I do have the emotional mentality of an adult and don't take it out on anyone. It's just curiosity that makes me ask.

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By *hill2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool (Bootle)

ha ha i have as much luck with jobs as i do on here

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"ha ha i have as much luck with jobs as i do on here "

You make your own luck.

Meanwhile don't bother messaging; edit for them to message you.

Works a lot better.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Edit= wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When sending cv's for jobs the going ratio is for every 25 you send, it might give you 1 reply. As with a cv you have to make yourself stand out from the crowd and see yourself so to speak.


"well putted there!The only thing is we do not phone the company with abusive language or insults! We take on chin and go to the next! Here you get it just because you not interested! "

There are spineless people on here, no doesn't mean no, it means give abuse!

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"How did u calculate that a third should reply?"

He's an optimistic fellow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it take to get a reply on here? with the number of messages ive sent i should have got at least a 1/3rd to respond back. It's also the main reason for me always leaving.

What does it take for a forum poster to respond to questions aimed to help him on his own thread? "

A bacon sandwich would do it for me right now.

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