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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all I'm struggling to get meets and I don't know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not alone lol ,we get lots offers when we're busy ,but when free little interest other than if we hold parties

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just messaged you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the stuggle too mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy enough to work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add some public pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Howbyou work it out then Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Howbyou work it out then Xx "

No public pics. Minimal profile. One of 1000's on here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's a popular misconception on here that if one is looking for single men we must meet any that turn up.

In fact we can choose the best of the best. And most guys on here are nowhere near being average.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Howbyou work it out then Xx

No public pics. Minimal profile. One of 1000's on here."

This.....you could ask for help on profile....but it's against forum rules to comment on profiles if you haven't asked.....could land someone on naughty step...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What against the rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What against the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving you direct profile advice if you haven't asked for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok can someone give me direct profile advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok can someone give me direct profile advice "

Four sentences and no public photos is not an enticement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok no prob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab.. It's similar to online dating, but a totally different ballgame..

Everyone is after something specific at a very specific moment in time. You must be lucky, but there are tricks to increase your odds.

I'm no guru, but I'll pass them on for free.. In the hope that Fab improves for everyone.

You are the tiniest piece of plankton in the sea of billions of other single men. Half of us are married or with someone else. Half of whose left are weird, wired or bonkers.

Those wierdos and Liars have given every person who owns a Trans, couple, female or exceptionally hung males a negative experience through messaging, most probably in person.

Then you have the messaging system. A profile and a way of contact. Make your profile stand out in the sea of cock the world of Fab is.

That doesn't mean Polish your cock! It means hide it on your profile. Have you forgotten how to flirt? Start remembering, if you don't know, learn (aimed at all of us). It's about the tease for most of us when you boil it down.

But your profile isn't going to be looked at, unless it's by accident. Numbers dictate. The update status is pointless to Single men on Fab swingers as a look at me tool. Good for finding you an opening for a message. Or to find an opportunity meet.

Look at the people in your area, read what THEY want, listen to their demands. If you don't fit the bill, don't bother. Theres a million more plankton cleverer, better looking, hung and witty ones who are. Don't ruin it for us, Bros before Ho's.

When you write everyone a message for the first time. Make it stand out. Here is my greatest ever single guy fab wisdom.. To all who use it afterwards.. You owe me. It's honest, wisdom and a cheat!

The people who wrote those words mean and want your message to pique their interest. But they get bombarded by 100-2000 messages a day. Someone managing an inbox that busy will soon give up or start using filters. Digital filters you can't change unless you lie - then you'll no longer be bro plankton.

You scan an inbox that busy.. So the most important thing is the first two lines, including the name of message.. You have ONE sentance! That is my gift to you guys.. To get your message at least opened.. Your very best shot is ONE sentance. Remember it! You owe me big time.

Then comes your photo, please not a cock, remember the phrase sea of cock ring a bell? Do you want to see loads of cock? All the time? I doubt the male half of the couple reading your message doesn't want to.. Bi or not, not forever. Your best features, nose, eyes, lips, neck any body part. Take about four or five non cock pics that show your body and or style. Styles change. Make them public. Keep your cock pic private till it's asked for.. If it's an issue for them, it'll be said at some point before you meet.

Make your face pic clear or at the worst as clear as you dare to. If you're really that scared or ashamed of being on here.. Then you're either either someone, a politician or probably not being totally honest about something. Remember bad experiences? The wierdos.. Be a bro.. Some people have more than one wierdo.

Only send that face pic IF it's asked for or says so in the profile. Though you'll be surprised how many replies you'll get, if you forgot to attach a copy of photo.. But remembered the ONE sentance.

I've taught you enough to get a fair crack.. Be a bro and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab.. It's similar to online dating, but a totally different ballgame..

Everyone is after something specific at a very specific moment in time. You must be lucky, but there are tricks to increase your odds.

I'm no guru, but I'll pass them on for free.. In the hope that Fab improves for everyone.

You are the tiniest piece of plankton in the sea of billions of other single men. Half of us are married or with someone else. Half of whose left are weird, wired or bonkers.

Those wierdos and Liars have given every person who owns a Trans, couple, female or exceptionally hung males a negative experience through messaging, most probably in person.

Then you have the messaging system. A profile and a way of contact. Make your profile stand out in the sea of cock the world of Fab is.

That doesn't mean Polish your cock! It means hide it on your profile. Have you forgotten how to flirt? Start remembering, if you don't know, learn (aimed at all of us). It's about the tease for most of us when you boil it down.

But your profile isn't going to be looked at, unless it's by accident. Numbers dictate. The update status is pointless to Single men on Fab swingers as a look at me tool. Good for finding you an opening for a message. Or to find an opportunity meet.

Look at the people in your area, read what THEY want, listen to their demands. If you don't fit the bill, don't bother. Theres a million more plankton cleverer, better looking, hung and witty ones who are. Don't ruin it for us, Bros before Ho's.

When you write everyone a message for the first time. Make it stand out. Here is my greatest ever single guy fab wisdom.. To all who use it afterwards.. You owe me. It's honest, wisdom and a cheat!

The people who wrote those words mean and want your message to pique their interest. But they get bombarded by 100-2000 messages a day. Someone managing an inbox that busy will soon give up or start using filters. Digital filters you can't change unless you lie - then you'll no longer be bro plankton.

You scan an inbox that busy.. So the most important thing is the first two lines, including the name of message.. You have ONE sentance! That is my gift to you guys.. To get your message at least opened.. Your very best shot is ONE sentance. Remember it! You owe me big time.

Then comes your photo, please not a cock, remember the phrase sea of cock ring a bell? Do you want to see loads of cock? All the time? I doubt the male half of the couple reading your message doesn't want to.. Bi or not, not forever. Your best features, nose, eyes, lips, neck any body part. Take about four or five non cock pics that show your body and or style. Styles change. Make them public. Keep your cock pic private till it's asked for.. If it's an issue for them, it'll be said at some point before you meet.

Make your face pic clear or at the worst as clear as you dare to. If you're really that scared or ashamed of being on here.. Then you're either either someone, a politician or probably not being totally honest about something. Remember bad experiences? The wierdos.. Be a bro.. Some people have more than one wierdo.

Only send that face pic IF it's asked for or says so in the profile. Though you'll be surprised how many replies you'll get, if you forgot to attach a copy of photo.. But remembered the ONE sentance.

I've taught you enough to get a fair crack.. Be a bro and

"

Don't judge me by mine.. It's a snapshot of a blip in time.. It doesn't tell half a half story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab.. It's similar to online dating, but a totally different ballgame..

Everyone is after something specific at a very specific moment in time. You must be lucky, but there are tricks to increase your odds.

I'm no guru, but I'll pass them on for free.. In the hope that Fab improves for everyone.

You are the tiniest piece of plankton in the sea of billions of other single men. Half of us are married or with someone else. Half of whose left are weird, wired or bonkers.

Those wierdos and Liars have given every person who owns a Trans, couple, female or exceptionally hung males a negative experience through messaging, most probably in person.

Then you have the messaging system. A profile and a way of contact. Make your profile stand out in the sea of cock the world of Fab is.

That doesn't mean Polish your cock! It means hide it on your profile. Have you forgotten how to flirt? Start remembering, if you don't know, learn (aimed at all of us). It's about the tease for most of us when you boil it down.

But your profile isn't going to be looked at, unless it's by accident. Numbers dictate. The update status is pointless to Single men on Fab swingers as a look at me tool. Good for finding you an opening for a message. Or to find an opportunity meet.

Look at the people in your area, read what THEY want, listen to their demands. If you don't fit the bill, don't bother. Theres a million more plankton cleverer, better looking, hung and witty ones who are. Don't ruin it for us, Bros before Ho's.

When you write everyone a message for the first time. Make it stand out. Here is my greatest ever single guy fab wisdom.. To all who use it afterwards.. You owe me. It's honest, wisdom and a cheat!

The people who wrote those words mean and want your message to pique their interest. But they get bombarded by 100-2000 messages a day. Someone managing an inbox that busy will soon give up or start using filters. Digital filters you can't change unless you lie - then you'll no longer be bro plankton.

You scan an inbox that busy.. So the most important thing is the first two lines, including the name of message.. You have ONE sentance! That is my gift to you guys.. To get your message at least opened.. Your very best shot is ONE sentance. Remember it! You owe me big time.

Then comes your photo, please not a cock, remember the phrase sea of cock ring a bell? Do you want to see loads of cock? All the time? I doubt the male half of the couple reading your message doesn't want to.. Bi or not, not forever. Your best features, nose, eyes, lips, neck any body part. Take about four or five non cock pics that show your body and or style. Styles change. Make them public. Keep your cock pic private till it's asked for.. If it's an issue for them, it'll be said at some point before you meet.

Make your face pic clear or at the worst as clear as you dare to. If you're really that scared or ashamed of being on here.. Then you're either either someone, a politician or probably not being totally honest about something. Remember bad experiences? The wierdos.. Be a bro.. Some people have more than one wierdo.

Only send that face pic IF it's asked for or says so in the profile. Though you'll be surprised how many replies you'll get, if you forgot to attach a copy of photo.. But remembered the ONE sentance.

I've taught you enough to get a fair crack.. Be a bro and

Don't judge me by mine.. It's a snapshot of a blip in time.. It doesn't tell half a half story. "

Don't tell me ONE sentance is getting lost in a dead thread.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Welcome to Fab.. It's similar to online dating, but a totally different ballgame..

Everyone is after something specific at a very specific moment in time. You must be lucky, but there are tricks to increase your odds.

I'm no guru, but I'll pass them on for free.. In the hope that Fab improves for everyone.

You are the tiniest piece of plankton in the sea of billions of other single men. Half of us are married or with someone else. Half of whose left are weird, wired or bonkers.

Those wierdos and Liars have given every person who owns a Trans, couple, female or exceptionally hung males a negative experience through messaging, most probably in person.

Then you have the messaging system. A profile and a way of contact. Make your profile stand out in the sea of cock the world of Fab is.

That doesn't mean Polish your cock! It means hide it on your profile. Have you forgotten how to flirt? Start remembering, if you don't know, learn (aimed at all of us). It's about the tease for most of us when you boil it down.

But your profile isn't going to be looked at, unless it's by accident. Numbers dictate. The update status is pointless to Single men on Fab swingers as a look at me tool. Good for finding you an opening for a message. Or to find an opportunity meet.

Look at the people in your area, read what THEY want, listen to their demands. If you don't fit the bill, don't bother. Theres a million more plankton cleverer, better looking, hung and witty ones who are. Don't ruin it for us, Bros before Ho's.

When you write everyone a message for the first time. Make it stand out. Here is my greatest ever single guy fab wisdom.. To all who use it afterwards.. You owe me. It's honest, wisdom and a cheat!

The people who wrote those words mean and want your message to pique their interest. But they get bombarded by 100-2000 messages a day. Someone managing an inbox that busy will soon give up or start using filters. Digital filters you can't change unless you lie - then you'll no longer be bro plankton.

You scan an inbox that busy.. So the most important thing is the first two lines, including the name of message.. You have ONE sentance! That is my gift to you guys.. To get your message at least opened.. Your very best shot is ONE sentance. Remember it! You owe me big time.

Then comes your photo, please not a cock, remember the phrase sea of cock ring a bell? Do you want to see loads of cock? All the time? I doubt the male half of the couple reading your message doesn't want to.. Bi or not, not forever. Your best features, nose, eyes, lips, neck any body part. Take about four or five non cock pics that show your body and or style. Styles change. Make them public. Keep your cock pic private till it's asked for.. If it's an issue for them, it'll be said at some point before you meet.

Make your face pic clear or at the worst as clear as you dare to. If you're really that scared or ashamed of being on here.. Then you're either either someone, a politician or probably not being totally honest about something. Remember bad experiences? The wierdos.. Be a bro.. Some people have more than one wierdo.

Only send that face pic IF it's asked for or says so in the profile. Though you'll be surprised how many replies you'll get, if you forgot to attach a copy of photo.. But remembered the ONE sentance.

I've taught you enough to get a fair crack.. Be a bro and

Don't judge me by mine.. It's a snapshot of a blip in time.. It doesn't tell half a half story.

Don't tell me ONE sentance is getting lost in a dead thread. "

Not all - very sage advice!

Only trouble I have found is looking at some ladies and couples profiles is they are very sparse so incredibly difficult to find something to link to in a sentance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab.. It's similar to online dating, but a totally different ballgame..

Everyone is after something specific at a very specific moment in time. You must be lucky, but there are tricks to increase your odds.

I'm no guru, but I'll pass them on for free.. In the hope that Fab improves for everyone.

You are the tiniest piece of plankton in the sea of billions of other single men. Half of us are married or with someone else. Half of whose left are weird, wired or bonkers.

Those wierdos and Liars have given every person who owns a Trans, couple, female or exceptionally hung males a negative experience through messaging, most probably in person.

Then you have the messaging system. A profile and a way of contact. Make your profile stand out in the sea of cock the world of Fab is.

That doesn't mean Polish your cock! It means hide it on your profile. Have you forgotten how to flirt? Start remembering, if you don't know, learn (aimed at all of us). It's about the tease for most of us when you boil it down.

But your profile isn't going to be looked at, unless it's by accident. Numbers dictate. The update status is pointless to Single men on Fab swingers as a look at me tool. Good for finding you an opening for a message. Or to find an opportunity meet.

Look at the people in your area, read what THEY want, listen to their demands. If you don't fit the bill, don't bother. Theres a million more plankton cleverer, better looking, hung and witty ones who are. Don't ruin it for us, Bros before Ho's.

When you write everyone a message for the first time. Make it stand out. Here is my greatest ever single guy fab wisdom.. To all who use it afterwards.. You owe me. It's honest, wisdom and a cheat!

The people who wrote those words mean and want your message to pique their interest. But they get bombarded by 100-2000 messages a day. Someone managing an inbox that busy will soon give up or start using filters. Digital filters you can't change unless you lie - then you'll no longer be bro plankton.

You scan an inbox that busy.. So the most important thing is the first two lines, including the name of message.. You have ONE sentance! That is my gift to you guys.. To get your message at least opened.. Your very best shot is ONE sentance. Remember it! You owe me big time.

Then comes your photo, please not a cock, remember the phrase sea of cock ring a bell? Do you want to see loads of cock? All the time? I doubt the male half of the couple reading your message doesn't want to.. Bi or not, not forever. Your best features, nose, eyes, lips, neck any body part. Take about four or five non cock pics that show your body and or style. Styles change. Make them public. Keep your cock pic private till it's asked for.. If it's an issue for them, it'll be said at some point before you meet.

Make your face pic clear or at the worst as clear as you dare to. If you're really that scared or ashamed of being on here.. Then you're either either someone, a politician or probably not being totally honest about something. Remember bad experiences? The wierdos.. Be a bro.. Some people have more than one wierdo.

Only send that face pic IF it's asked for or says so in the profile. Though you'll be surprised how many replies you'll get, if you forgot to attach a copy of photo.. But remembered the ONE sentance.

I've taught you enough to get a fair crack.. Be a bro and

Don't judge me by mine.. It's a snapshot of a blip in time.. It doesn't tell half a half story.

Don't tell me ONE sentance is getting lost in a dead thread.

Not all - very sage advice!

Only trouble I have found is looking at some ladies and couples profiles is they are very sparse so incredibly difficult to find something to link to in a sentance."

True. Forums is a good place to find openings to chat privately.

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