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By *lstander4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shrewbury

Hi, i'm Adam.

I've been on the site before for quite a while but have always struggled when it comes to getting verified. I have a feeling that because i'm not verified it's unlikely that i'd be able to get one from a meet in person.

I would love to cam with someone that is verified to prove i am who i say i am. I'm also open to suggestions. thanks for reading

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hi, i'm Adam.

I've been on the site before for quite a while but have always struggled when it comes to getting verified. I have a feeling that because i'm not verified it's unlikely that i'd be able to get one from a meet in person.

I would love to cam with someone that is verified to prove i am who i say i am. I'm also open to suggestions. thanks for reading "
two words op, pictures and profile

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By *lstander4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shrewbury


"Hi, i'm Adam.

I've been on the site before for quite a while but have always struggled when it comes to getting verified. I have a feeling that because i'm not verified it's unlikely that i'd be able to get one from a meet in person.

I would love to cam with someone that is verified to prove i am who i say i am. I'm also open to suggestions. thanks for reading two words op, pictures and profile "

What is wrong with my pictures? i should probably state on my profile that i have face pictures set to private but i send them out pretty regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, i'm Adam.

I've been on the site before for quite a while but have always struggled when it comes to getting verified. I have a feeling that because i'm not verified it's unlikely that i'd be able to get one from a meet in person.

I would love to cam with someone that is verified to prove i am who i say i am. I'm also open to suggestions. thanks for reading two words op, pictures and profile "

This totally agree! Look at your profile and pictures and think? Would a woman like my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest you have a read through some of the numerous forum threads that are asking the same question.

You say that you have been here before and for quite a while - so you will have had plenty of opportunity to have seen such threads pop up on the forum.

From these threads you will notice a theme. You need more than just a couple of lines of text on your profile. You will also have picked up on the fact that a cock avatar and nothing but pics of your cock on your profile is going to get you absolutely nowhere.

What any visitor to your profile, as it currently stands, is going to see a total lack of effort on your part and simply move on to the next profile.

The impression one gets of you from your profile is that you are of the opinion that sticking a few pics of your tool and a couple of lines of text will have you fighting the ladies off with a shitty stick inside a fortnight.

I'm afraid that the reality is that the majority of those that see a profile such as this will be of the opinion that the owner of the profile is exactly what they can see in the pictures - i.e. a cock.

You need to put in far more effort.

Effort in = rewards out.

Change your approach or change your expectations.

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By *lstander4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shrewbury

i put some more effort into my profile and hopefully it's a little more pleasing to look at. thanks all for the criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still too many cock pics. Think about it proportionately. 3 would be fine, if you had 20 others of other things. As your profile stands, 75% of your pics are of your cock.

Lose the disclaimer at the end. It's completely meaningless - you have, after all, posted information and images in the public domain - and if you read the site FAQ's, the site owners don't like people adding it to their profiles as it takes up valuable server space.

I would also avoid criticising others in your profile - it's very unattractive. Your profile is supposed to be about you, not other men.

Perhaps you might want to do a bit of research about what being a Dom is all about - as I can't help thinking that many will pull you up on this.

Just because you know what you like and want, does not make you a Dom.

After all, what about someone who 'want's' to give in to someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 public pictures all of cocks that is pretty off putting. And your text is just awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly would a cam veri prove? That you are a male, with a cock ......oookkaaayy.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"What exactly would a cam veri prove? That you are a male, with a cock ......oookkaaayy. "
...good comment and good sense .. ... take the hints re. Cock pix .. 3 out of 3 ... .. nothing of note ... try stand out ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself to an organised social !!

3 cock pics? Nothing else ?

Would you be interested in you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 weeks isn't that long.

It's not all about cock pictures taken pictures of all different parts of your body.

A headless shot in a good suit or white shirt is a great picture.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"i put some more effort into my profile and hopefully it's a little more pleasing to look at. thanks all for the criticism. "

Three cock shots does not a profile make.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"i put some more effort into my profile and hopefully it's a little more pleasing to look at. thanks all for the criticism. "

Effort? Come on, that's not effort!

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By *Brothers4uCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Cricklade


"Hi, i'm Adam.

I've been on the site before for quite a while but have always struggled when it comes to getting verified. I have a feeling that because i'm not verified it's unlikely that i'd be able to get one from a meet in person.

I would love to cam with someone that is verified to prove i am who i say i am. I'm also open to suggestions. thanks for reading two words op, pictures and profile "

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By *Brothers4uCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Cricklade


"3 public pictures all of cocks that is pretty off putting. And your text is just awful. "

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By *Brothers4uCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Cricklade


"What exactly would a cam veri prove? That you are a male, with a cock ......oookkaaayy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take note of all the ladies comments. We want more than just cock pics to interest us. I didn't even read the rest of the profile after looking at them

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By *Brothers4uCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Cricklade


"Get yourself to an organised social !!

3 cock pics? Nothing else ?

Would you be interested in you ? "

100% agree... Visit a social and/or club.

A single man, rightly or wrongly, needs to make the extra effort because soooooo many are complete nobs that make fabs worse by the day.

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