FabSwingers.com forum: Trying to get meets

By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

Been on here a few months, have uploaded pics and got verified by going on video but what do I actually need to do to get a meet

Any advice from men, women or couples really appreciated

Mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all are buddy.

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"We all are buddy."

I would meet a couple if you're keen

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

Should add I can travel with work to most U.K. Cities so will always have a hotel

Will be couples and women

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Try visiting a club, it helps once people know you.

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"Try visiting a club, it helps once people know you."

Are there any good ones that are open to single guys going

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

I would also be happy to have Skype cam sessions if anyone is keen for those

Am more open to who those are with

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By *its and BeardCouple
over a year ago

west Brom

"Try visiting a club, it helps once people know you.

Are there any good ones that are open to single guys going"

All of them

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By *its and BeardCouple
over a year ago

west Brom

"Try visiting a club, it helps once people know you.

Are there any good ones that are open to single guys going

All of them

Just depends on what night

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"Try visiting a club, it helps once people know you.

Are there any good ones that are open to single guys going

All of them

Just depends on what night"

Could I tag along with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not coming across as desperate is always good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 Jan get yourself to the Heathrow social

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"Not coming across as desperate is always good

Point taken, was more looking for advice as what I'm doing isn't working

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women hear the same things over and over again from men, most likely a hundred times a day. Put a little time and effort into messages. Stand out. Or accept your not everyone's cup of tea. I'm more of a whisky shot anyway

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Did you think that by just being here you'd get fucked?

It's down to preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club or a social event. It's much easier to connect with people face to face than across a keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no public pictures

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"Did you think that by just being here you'd get fucked?

It's down to preferences. "

That's a good point thanks

What works with you?

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"Go to a club or a social event. It's much easier to connect with people face to face than across a keyboard. "

Good advice thanks

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"You have no public pictures "

Ok thanks I'll change my profile to public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you think that by just being here you'd get fucked?

It's down to preferences.

That's a good point thanks

What works with you?"

What works with most people, and is especially needed for single guys, are good pics and an excellent profile with lots of effort.

You need to make sure both are the best that you are capable of if you want any type of success.

Got to ask, what is your your profile pic all about?

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"Did you think that by just being here you'd get fucked?

It's down to preferences.

That's a good point thanks

What works with you?

What works with most people, and is especially needed for single guys, are good pics and an excellent profile with lots of effort.

You need to make sure both are the best that you are capable of if you want any type of success.

Got to ask, what is your your profile pic all about?"

You don't like it? What would you recommend

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By *its and BeardCouple
over a year ago

west Brom

"Try visiting a club, it helps once people know you.

Are there any good ones that are open to single guys going

All of them

Just depends on what night

Could I tag along with you?"

Yeah you can

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By *its and BeardCouple
over a year ago

west Brom

"Did you think that by just being here you'd get fucked?

It's down to preferences.

That's a good point thanks

What works with you?

What works with most people, and is especially needed for single guys, are good pics and an excellent profile with lots of effort.

You need to make sure both are the best that you are capable of if you want any type of success.

Got to ask, what is your your profile pic all about?

You don't like it? What would you recommend"

Most women not all but most dont like to see your cock until you are gonna actually use it myself included. I've never asked to see their cock and never will unless they claim it's huge then I need to see it for health & safety reasons.

So having one as your profile pic and only pic isn't a great start at all.

But like I say not to all women.

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"Try visiting a club, it helps once people know you.

Are there any good ones that are open to single guys going

All of them

Just depends on what night

Could I tag along with you?

Yeah you can

I've sent you a pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone with a cock avatar but that's just me.

I wouldn't even read the message, just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you think that by just being here you'd get fucked?

It's down to preferences.

That's a good point thanks

What works with you?

What works with most people, and is especially needed for single guys, are good pics and an excellent profile with lots of effort.

You need to make sure both are the best that you are capable of if you want any type of success.

Got to ask, what is your your profile pic all about?

You don't like it? What would you recommend"

It was even worse before, wasn't it a photo of a woman?

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"I wouldn't meet anyone with a cock avatar but that's just me.

I wouldn't even read the message, just delete."

Thanks will change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet anyone with a cock avatar but that's just me.

I wouldn't even read the message, just delete."

It wasn't when this started

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You are completely missing the point OP.

Do you really think that women will want to fuck you when all they have to judge you on is one badly taken pic of your cock and another with your thumb up another woman's arse?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I wouldn't meet anyone with a cock avatar but that's just me.

I wouldn't even read the message, just delete.

It wasn't when this started "

No, it was worse.

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By *rit10 OP Man
over a year ago

South

"You are completely missing the point OP.

Do you really think that women will want to fuck you when all they have to judge you on is one badly taken pic of your cock and another with your thumb up another woman's arse?

I have agreed to take some new photos. Thank you for the advice. I guess I was a little forward in my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet anyone with a cock avatar but that's just me.

I wouldn't even read the message, just delete.

It wasn't when this started

No, it was worse."

I know I motioned that, why it was changed but not an improvement he's working on it

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. It is a cases of there being too many guys all looking for the same thing, so you have to make an effort to "sell" yourself and to make yourself stand out!

Pics are always subjective but a facial one is key to how you are appreciated by those you wish to meet.

As said by others, getting to Socials is a good way. There's a regular one in the Heathrow area; I knew of a regular one in Reading, but I moved away for 8 months and have lost touch.

Clubs wise, look on the clubs link page here; Abfabs at Heathrow or the Hellfire Club near Sunbury would be your nearest. There are others in London and the South East.

But it won't be easy; it takes time, patience, more patience, and perseverance but it will pay off eventually.

For any more advice, look at similar threads on the Forum pages.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say half if not 75% of the single males who sign up to this site, will never get meets...for the simple fact they cannot work out the winning formulae.

You can tell them until you're blue in the face but for most it's a case of 'input nothing, expect everything'.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd say half if not 75% of the single males who sign up to this site, will never get meets...for the simple fact they cannot work out the winning formulae.

You can tell them until you're blue in the face but for most it's a case of 'input nothing, expect everything'."

Yep, I've no idea why I even contribute as little as I do to these sort of posts.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

No pics so wouldn't even consider answering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say half if not 75% of the single males who sign up to this site, will never get meets...for the simple fact they cannot work out the winning formulae.

You can tell them until you're blue in the face but for most it's a case of 'input nothing, expect everything'.

Yep, I've no idea why I even contribute as little as I do to these sort of posts. "

Me neither?

Would love an influx of decent, respectful, remotely intelligent single males to the site!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd say half if not 75% of the single males who sign up to this site, will never get meets...for the simple fact they cannot work out the winning formulae.

You can tell them until you're blue in the face but for most it's a case of 'input nothing, expect everything'.

Yep, I've no idea why I even contribute as little as I do to these sort of posts.

Me neither?

Would love an influx of decent, respectful, remotely intelligent single males to the site!

Sorry, they are all in my cellar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the waiting game mate, just got be pleasant and patient and keep your fingers crossed lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are completely missing the point OP.

Do you really think that women will want to fuck you when all they have to judge you on is one badly taken pic of your cock and another with your thumb up another woman's arse?

I have agreed to take some new photos. Thank you for the advice. I guess I was a little forward in my pics"

Good luck, OP. Put some effort into your text and pictures and you will improve your chances.

Otherwise, go to socials and clubs - though that too requires effort.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Been on here a few months, have uploaded pics and got verified by going on video but what do I actually need to do to get a meet

Any advice from men, women or couples really appreciated

Mark"

You'll get nowhere without public photos. The number of public photos directly corresponds with and is dependant on the number of photos one has in public. FACT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say half if not 75% of the single males who sign up to this site, will never get meets...for the simple fact they cannot work out the winning formulae.

You can tell them until you're blue in the face but for most it's a case of 'input nothing, expect everything'.

Yep, I've no idea why I even contribute as little as I do to these sort of posts.

Me neither?

Would love an influx of decent, respectful, remotely intelligent single males to the site!

Sorry, they are all in my cellar."

Can hardly hold it against you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are completely missing the point OP.

Do you really think that women will want to fuck you when all they have to judge you on is one badly taken pic of your cock and another with your thumb up another woman's arse

I have agreed to take some new photos. Thank you for the advice. I guess I was a little forward in my pics"

Another piece of advice OP.

Please do not carry on thinking that just because someone comments on your thread that they want a friends invite, as you did to us.

Most people on this site would at least like to speak to someone before they decide if they want to be friends or not, and we clearly say so on our profile.

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