FabSwingers.com forum: Do girls really like muscley hung guys?

By *packguy07 OP Man
over a year ago

ask me

I seem to have trouble getting messages,i travel the uk and no luck

any suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go to a few swingers clubs, chat to people, some might play some might not.....

join in the forums, allow your personality and opinions to be heard.....muscles are good but muscles plus personality are even better! m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the comments above but personally like medium build guys with muscles and ....the most important muscle...a brain that can stimulate others

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I seem to have trouble getting messages,i travel the uk and no luck

any suggestions?"

If you only define yourself by the way you look you're going to be disappointed.

There are plenty of people who are looking for young, hung, and muscley. They might not be your type however.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not for me....I like slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently most like a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bods are not my ideal.

I love a strong hung guy but if his muscle definition is his only defining feature that'll put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would probably worry you would spend more time in front of the mirror than them!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I seem to have trouble getting messages,i travel the uk and no luck

any suggestions?"

It might be the fact your profile says you've never had a meet in 6 years - one cam veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're relying on just your body to get meets then you're likely to be disappointed. Try using other traits to attract as well as the body.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

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By *packguy07 OP Man
over a year ago

ask me

Im not vain at all but i find it catches peoples attention is all

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Im not vain at all but i find it catches peoples attention is all"

Your op would suggest otherwise.

Personality is a huge factor in whether to meet someone.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Yes indeedy

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By *ecs2die4Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Start a new profile mate. Like me you are in catch 22 land. Cant get a meet without a verification, can't get a verification without a meet.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Start a new profile mate. Like me you are in catch 22 land. Cant get a meet without a verification, can't get a verification without a meet. "

If you can't get a meet without a verification, then at some point all of us were new on here - so how did we get our first verification? Obviously, people can get meets without verifications.

My opinion is that single men who rely on their body appearance don't do as well on here than those who have other things to offer.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Start a new profile mate. Like me you are in catch 22 land. Cant get a meet without a verification, can't get a verification without a meet.

If you can't get a meet without a verification, then at some point all of us were new on here - so how did we get our first verification? Obviously, people can get meets without verifications.

My opinion is that single men who rely on their body appearance don't do as well on here than those who have other things to offer.

So true

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not vain at all but i find it catches peoples attention is all"

It might catch the initial attention of those women for whom your physique is the key factor but as this and countless other threads and advice suggest for the majority of women it takes more than a good physique to progress things beyond looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't but everyone is different

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

To me a 'dad bod' is one that isn't muscly, but still fairly, naturally toned, but slightly on the bigger built side, as in broad shoulders...mmmm..

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

To me a 'dad bod' is one that isn't muscly, but still fairly, naturally toned, but slightly on the bigger built side, as in broad shoulders...mmmm..

My shulders are tick then hehe. I see so many in fit kids now and the dads should be a role model. Fit dads = fits kids.

Plus we have better stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to have trouble getting messages,i travel the uk and no luck

any suggestions?"

I find it off putting but I am sure others will like it.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

To me a 'dad bod' is one that isn't muscly, but still fairly, naturally toned, but slightly on the bigger built side, as in broad shoulders...mmmm..

My shulders are tick then hehe. I see so many in fit kids now and the dads should be a role model. Fit dads = fits kids.

Plus we have better stamina

You are right, both my stepsons are naturally toned and fit and our grandsons are the same, all achieved through sport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

To me a 'dad bod' is one that isn't muscly, but still fairly, naturally toned, but slightly on the bigger built side, as in broad shoulders...mmmm..

My shulders are tick then hehe. I see so many in fit kids now and the dads should be a role model. Fit dads = fits kids.

Plus we have better stamina

You are right, both my stepsons are naturally toned and fit and our grandsons are the same, all achieved through sport.

I know dads who are fit and have overweight children and wives. It doesn't always equate.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

To me a 'dad bod' is one that isn't muscly, but still fairly, naturally toned, but slightly on the bigger built side, as in broad shoulders...mmmm..

My shulders are tick then hehe. I see so many in fit kids now and the dads should be a role model. Fit dads = fits kids.

Plus we have better stamina

You are right, both my stepsons are naturally toned and fit and our grandsons are the same, all achieved through sport.

I know dads who are fit and have overweight children and wives. It doesn't always equate.

No, it doesn't always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

To me a 'dad bod' is one that isn't muscly, but still fairly, naturally toned, but slightly on the bigger built side, as in broad shoulders...mmmm..

Mmmmmm yes, love a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

Does it for us x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

What's not to like ? But charm, wit and brain helps to get your foot in the door so to speak too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

Humour and intelligence are a better start

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Start a new profile mate. Like me you are in catch 22 land. Cant get a meet without a verification, can't get a verification without a meet. "

I recently met someone in person who didn't have any verifications. It has to start somewhere.

Jumping into sex with someone you've never met is a no no for a lot of single women. So why not go out in public (good old Costa is a favourite for people of fab), for a coffee? Most places are open later in the day. A lot of cinemas have a Costa these days....so no reason to have a early evening coffee there if you're working daytimes.

Social drinks are fab. Provides verifications from meeting in person. That's most important I'd say....it is for me anyway.

OP you're lack of in person verifications would put me off. No matter how pretty you look

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We've never met anyone based upon muscles, yes in physical shape to have sex but never have we looked at a physique and thought let's meet him. Commonality, grounded and respectful first; then we're on our way to a potential meet. What's going on upstairs is key for us op.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Start a new profile mate. Like me you are in catch 22 land. Cant get a meet without a verification, can't get a verification without a meet. "

Plenty of social events are advertised here on the forum. Go to one and bingo, very easy way to get verified and get yourself started.

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Apparently most like a dad bod

Mmmm.....dad bods

I'm a dad so do I count as having a dad bod? If so still no luck

To me a 'dad bod' is one that isn't muscly, but still fairly, naturally toned, but slightly on the bigger built side, as in broad shoulders...mmmm..

Mmmmmm yes, love a dad bod"

Dads just finished the gym lol

There's ladies I've met on fab who I speak to and have met but don't leave or do veri so that can make it hard. But ladies it's some times hard to break the ice and show what we're like if it's to frosty

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"We've never met anyone based upon muscles, yes in physical shape to have sex but never have we looked at a physique and thought let's meet him. Commonality, grounded and respectful first; then we're on our way to a potential meet. What's going on upstairs is key for us op."

Agree it should be on what the individual is like, I've found that people disbelieve your real, are in to other types of shape or lifestyle because of shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're doing wrong, as a "really muscular and hung" guy I actually find that that I have become to picky as the inbox always has some kind of activity. You're in great shape so you have no excuse.

Invest in a better profile. Bodybuilding has become the "in" thing due to people paying more attention to various aspects of female sexual desire. But, muscles dont maketh a man. I have seen plenty of "swole" dudes who dont have an ounce of sexiness. Same way I see women with huge knockers who dont really have any wow factor.

STOP doing bodybuilding poses. They're unattractive to everyone. ACTUALLY write something worthwhile or semi interesting in your profile which delves into what your sexual desires are and what you have on offer.

Buff bodies and big dicks are hot...but what makes them hot is the perception of masculinity they give off. You can have all the muscles in the world, but if you're a timid shrew then its likely none of that will manifest in sexual appeal and will actually work against you as you begin to appear to be compensating. This is something that many of the gym going instagram generation (men and women) still dont understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality counts bundles it must do I am slim bordering on skinny really but have great meets in clubs and loads of fab friends so think it has to be my personality as its not my pecks ??

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Anyone who is obsessed with their body is an instant turn off for me ..... means they are more into themselves than anyone else. One guy I met as a single fem couldn't resist looking into every mirror, luckily he was a fun guy (we broke his bed) and we had a laugh about it .... I think body obsession is a sad state to be in ...

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Anyone who is obsessed with their body is an instant turn off for me ..... means they are more into themselves than anyone else. One guy I met as a single fem couldn't resist looking into every mirror, luckily he was a fun guy (we broke his bed) and we had a laugh about it .... I think body obsession is a sad state to be in ..."

What if it comes with the line of work that person dose?! There a lot of people who work out for diffferent reasons just as people who don't work out. Fun people are like boring people they all come in different shapes and sizes. There just a lot of judgemental dickheads out there.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm a former plus size model, looking good/maintaining a certain look was my line of work but I wasn't obsessed with my looks, it's a fine line to walk, but some can do it confidently yet humbly

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We were not having a go at you op with this post it was only highlighting that other qualities are important too. It appears we've upset you, lol. Good luck!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

People can 'need' a certain type of body for a certain type of job without being obsessed by their body??

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

People can 'need' a certain type of body for a certain type of job without being obsessed by their body??"

100%

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By *ichs slut wifeWoman
over a year ago

sarasota

I am very interested n being a hot gf. N e 1 interested?

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By *ichs slut wifeWoman
over a year ago

sarasota

I am very interested n being a hot gf. N e 1 interested?

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"I am very interested n being a hot gf. N e 1 interested?"

Yep

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Some great guys in this thread

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Some great guys in this thread

And women too

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Some great guys in this thread

And women too

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some great guys in this thread

Some stunning ladies aswell

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Some great guys in this thread

And women too

True

I'm enjoying what I'm seeing..

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Some great guys in this thread

And women too

True

I'm enjoying what I'm seeing..

Took the words out of my mouth

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By *gentlovedayWoman
over a year ago

Tranmere

I worry when men who are too gorgeous contact me to be honest I think either they aren't real or they are taking the Micky

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Some great guys in this thread

And women too

True

I'm enjoying what I'm seeing..

Took the words out of my mouth

And what a fantastic mouth I took it from.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Some great guys in this thread

And women too

True

I'm enjoying what I'm seeing..

Took the words out of my mouth

And what a fantastic mouth I took it from.

Haha touché

actually made me blush

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

"Some great guys in this thread

And women too

True

I'm enjoying what I'm seeing..

Took the words out of my mouth

And what a fantastic mouth I took it from.

Haha touché

actually made me blush

Not sure I believe that but if so things could really get fun

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Do guys like muscly girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have i missed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What have i missed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What have i missed

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Can people please keep any issues you have with others away from the forum please.If you have had a spat in private, carry it on there instead of here.

To clarify the "contacting people on the forum when blocked rule" Anyone can answer anothers posts whether you have been blocked or not. What you can't do is ask them to unblock you or put them on the spot about blocks or filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Riggers is it just me or do you have a certain back for condensing threads?

Im sure it was longer than this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops. Auto carrot. Ruggers, although that could be a new career for the new year

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

lol @ riggers...yeah twas longer than this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're doing wrong, as a "really muscular and hung" guy I actually find that that I have become to picky as the inbox always has some kind of activity. You're in great shape so you have no excuse.

This!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As a muscle guy myself, I find it difficult to constantly fight off the women who want a tweak and muscle lick.

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