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By *K-cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

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We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"

Hello x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, I am also into chatting. If people can't put up with my endless nonsense chat, I don't put out.

For us and especially for me I have to really have a mental connection before I meet to play.

Surely all that flirtation only leads to a better meet..

S xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"

For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat.

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By *K-cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

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"Hello, I am also into chatting. If people can't put up with my endless nonsense chat, I don't put out.

For us and especially for me I have to really have a mental connection before I meet to play.

Surely all that flirtation only leads to a better meet..

S xx"

This is exactly it. Seems hard to find here though.

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By *K-cpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

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"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?

For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat."

Totally fair enough. We just find it hard to find those people!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?

For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat.

Totally fair enough. We just find it hard to find those people!"

Yes it is difficult and you'll encounter people who believe chatting means exchanging three "how are you?" messages . We've been lucky to have come across quite a few people who genuinely want the same thing though...don't lose heart.

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By *sher dMan
over a year ago

west midlands

I like chatting to new people,it helps separate the messers from the genuine people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?

For the vast majority it is about now. There are however people willing to take the time to chat.

Totally fair enough. We just find it hard to find those people!"

Id love just to chat but never seems to happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello! Is it me your looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"

We like a bit of chat, we've 'gone in cold' with meets and it's generally not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a very strange place. I love to chat to people, but it happens rarely on here, because everyone is always on their guard. We are here for sex, the most natural thing we do, next to breathing, eating, shitting and pissing.

Yet we're always wary of one another.

And it results in deletes, blocks, timewasting, etc...

Meh.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I waffle for Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough talking just get fuked enough said lol joking

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"

I love chatting with people first. I chatted to a lady for about a year before I met her and when we met it was like I'd known her for years and my kit was off in seconds. Fantastic fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always chat first. We like to make sure there is plenty of chemistry between us all before we take it further. Plenty of people on here who do like the social side of things.

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"

Yo!

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"

For me a lot of the fun on here is chatting, sharing sexy experiences and fantasies. I love to that and if it is with local folks and moves onto a meet then great but if not then it can still lead to a steamy experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An initial message can give an insight into the person. Once past the pleasantries it's nice to get to know the other person.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

If they're feeling "horny" best to wait 'til they're not-unfortunately chances are the next time you chat they'll be horny again. Which is a bit of a vicious circle then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always want to get to know people first. Does anyone want to just say hello and see how it goes? Or is it all about now?"

I don't see how people can have a physical connection before chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to chat n build the suspense. Seeing my wife messaging in a group chat is si exotic and a turn on. This then leaves the meets to be about fucking.. Less words more actions then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love chatting , I'm a shy kinda guy and would like to chat and see if there is a "spark" first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat first and then meet socially. Weirdly it's quite important that I like the person I'm having sex with. It's also establishes that the other person can put themselves out a bit which I also like. Quite often you can be chatting with a woman and you can just tell she can't be arsed. To me that doesn't bode well for if you ever meet...

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Most definitely chat and some flirting for a while, before a possible social.

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

whiteley


"Most definitely chat and some flirting for a while, before a possible social."

Agree with this - if I am messaging someone I would like to try and start a bit of a converstion to be carried on at a social to see if there is any physical interest as well and mentally - makes the fun much better!!!

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By *ear norwichMan
over a year ago

"Are we there yet"

Guess thats why we like the ... If were out in a pub and you see us, say hi and chat on ..... Approch ?

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

whiteley


"Guess thats why we like the ... If were out in a pub and you see us, say hi and chat on ..... Approch ?"

A great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of the sending fancy a fuck messages with unsolicited cock pics , kinda guy

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon


"Hello, I am also into chatting. If people can't put up with my endless nonsense chat, I don't put out.

For us and especially for me I have to really have a mental connection before I meet to play.

Surely all that flirtation only leads to a better meet..

S xx"

My thoughts exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am all ways up for a chat with a nice female or couple if anyone fancies it

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

whiteley


"I'm more of the sending fancy a fuck messages with unsolicited cock pics , kinda guy "

Damn that must be why I'm not getting many replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a good chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more of the sending fancy a fuck messages with unsolicited cock pics , kinda guy

Damn that must be why I'm not getting many replies "

I have 3 words for you..... location, location, location

The most successful guys I have seen. Would travel anywhere for sex

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By *arvin35Man
over a year ago

penrith

Always up for a chinwag, can't imagine trying to meet someone without a good long chat first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy a good chat "

So do I

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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago

london

Always say hello and polite but get little response,apart from one time after watching IT crowd and the all women love bastards and for fun I wrote a ruder one and seem to work more

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Im a chatter, but infortunetly Im not someone worth chstting too

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By *aughty4tiesCouple
over a year ago

reading

Thank god I'm not the only one!

X

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