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WHERE AM I GOING WRONG! !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would some kind soul out there, come to my rescue and give me some tips on how I'm going wrong on here! ! Although still pretty new on here, I have made the effort to msge people who's profile I like. And I'm also trying to write something that doesn't sound like a hundred other msge's they've probably received. I have only had a few replies and then nothing more.

I would really appreciate some advice and guidance from anyone who has an opinion.and I would especially like to hear from anyone that has had success on here.

And to everybody else, the best of luck and I hope you find what you're looking for

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Shouting is a really bad place to start.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have made the effort to msge people who's profile I like. "

That's the mistake. You're messaging the people you like the look of. So they're supposed to meet you because you like the look of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your thread post is longer than your profile text OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please explain to me what you mean? I never intended to look like I was shouting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try filling your profile out in more detail. "Looking for fun times and up for anything" is very vague and might put a lot of people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please explain to me what you mean? I never intended to look like I was shouting! "

Typing entirely in capitals is considered SHOUTING!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Look at the guy called jar who has started a similar thread called 'profile tips?'. He is new as well, but see what he's done and compare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would some kind soul out there, come to my rescue and give me some tips on how I'm going wrong on here! ! Although still pretty new on here, I have made the effort to msge people who's profile I like. And I'm also trying to write something that doesn't sound like a hundred other msge's they've probably received. I have only had a few replies and then nothing more.

I would really appreciate some advice and guidance from anyone who has an opinion.and I would especially like to hear from anyone that has had success on here.

And to everybody else, the best of luck and I hope you find what you're looking for "

You must learn patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dear me.I clearly have a lot to learn! It looks like I might be better off. Totally rewiring my profile.

Is that where I'm going wrong the most?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Dear me.I clearly have a lot to learn! It looks like I might be better off. Totally rewiring my profile.

Is that where I'm going wrong the most? "

In a word - yes.

On fab its the profile that does a lot of the work for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would some kind soul out there, come to my rescue and give me some tips on how I'm going wrong on here! ! Although still pretty new on here, I have made the effort to msge people who's profile I like. And I'm also trying to write something that doesn't sound like a hundred other msge's they've probably received. I have only had a few replies and then nothing more.

I would really appreciate some advice and guidance from anyone who has an opinion.and I would especially like to hear from anyone that has had success on here.

And to everybody else, the best of luck and I hope you find what you're looking for "

It may just be us, but your profile doesn't actually say anything.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Also having a grumpy face pic puts people off. This is meant to be fun

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've got a question!!!

Would you fuck a woman aged 87 with a cucumber rammed up her arse as her husband wanks over your head with a huge moustachioed leather clad gay guy lubing his cock up with wasabi paste?

I think you would because 'you're up for anything'

See what I mean? Definitely a rewrite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a question!!!

Would you fuck a woman aged 87 with a cucumber rammed up her arse as her husband wanks over your head with a huge moustachioed leather clad gay guy lubing his cock up with wasabi paste?

I think you would because 'you're up for anything'

See what I mean? Definitely a rewrite "

We see what you mean

Does 'up for everything' mean that a guy will take one up the arse as a trooper??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've got a question!!!

Would you fuck a woman aged 87 with a cucumber rammed up her arse as her husband wanks over your head with a huge moustachioed leather clad gay guy lubing his cock up with wasabi paste?

I think you would because 'you're up for anything'

See what I mean? Definitely a rewrite "

What if she was 100? How would that work on here??

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By *astendblokeMan
over a year ago

Romford

Just keep plugging away and stay patient. Lots of time wasters on here but there are some genuine people.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure you can claim to be very new when you have been here for 5 months.

Take some time to read other guys profiles and see what they have, look for guys who have a few veris and that way you know it's obviously working for them .

Try taking some pics that stand out a bit, you don't need to be naked, just think outside the box and stand out a wee bit .

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I hope you take on board the constructive advice that has been offered to you here

Sally

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