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By *andDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Been on for over a year with no verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who says there genuine stay well away from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications."

Unable to accommodate?? What rubbish. I'm not having randoms off the net in my house.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Funny that I had one yesterday. ..even chatted on the phone was meant to meet today lol guess what !!!! He had other stuff to do. Time waster! !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications."

We have been on here over a year. We don't accomodate as we don;t want our home address known, and prefer meeting on neutral ground , i.e. a hotel. We don't have veris because each and every single man we have made contact with on here has let us down. We do enjoy having fun with others that we meet elsewhere. I guess according to your thoughts we would be categorised as timewasters !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found that every time a guy says "I won't let you down"... they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unable to accommodate?? What rubbish. I'm not having randoms off the net in my house."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. "

For me it's a crap idea. Let's tell time wasters how to hide themselves even better

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By *andDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

Understandable for single female for safety reasons. That is more aimed at so called single men. You've got verifications so that we'll and truly overrides the issue of genuine or fake.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Understandable for single female for safety reasons. That is more aimed at so called single men. You've got verifications so that we'll and truly overrides the issue of genuine or fake. "

Nothing to do with safety and the people I get messages from don't have my veri's so I think it is a bad idea to give them any clues.

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By *andDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"We have found that every time a guy says "I won't let you down"... they do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of chat does not help and asking for a fuck on the first message is off putting. There also seems to be allot of aggression if you don't give the right answer.

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By *andDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"Understandable for single female for safety reasons. That is more aimed at so called single men. You've got verifications so that we'll and truly overrides the issue of genuine or fake.

Nothing to do with safety and the people I get messages from don't have my veri's so I think it is a bad idea to give them any clues. "

True, but as those that have been here long enough to suspect typical traits of a timewaster, they have a good idea who is and who is not ringing alarm bells.

Appreciate everyones comments. If you prefer, I will remove this post? Was just trying to help those who can be as gullible as we were when we first signed up on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when you think you can spot a timewaster, it's still possible to get caught out - as I discovered this afternoon.

Bugger!

Mind you, I did suspect that the person I was meeting wouldn't show up, but I decided to go anyway as knowing my luck, if I hadn't have gone, they would have been there and then I would have become the time waster.

Sometimes you just can't win, lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications."

No, that's not true. I'm 'genuine' but I don't accommodate. Why would not being able to accommodate male someone a timewaster?

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By *andDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

It doesn't make them a timewaster. I was just trying to help others to be aware of possible signs. Some have genuine personal reasons. Others can't accommodate because they are married/have a partner. you we

No verifications.

No, that's not true. I'm 'genuine' but I don't accommodate. Why would not being able to accommodate male someone a timewaster? "

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By *andDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

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By *andDee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

I'm saying possible traits.

Some have genuine reasons for not be able/not wishing to accommodate. But there's also those that can't because they have a wife and kids at home/in a relationship.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"If you prefer, I will remove this post? Was just trying to help those who can be as gullible as we were when we first signed up on here. "

To remove it just because I disagree would be a touch OTT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh spoke for a week with a time wasting TWAT from the Malverns .Even gave his number to arrange the meet when we phned him pure bullshit rolled from his mouth.Twat ,Knob .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that my gut instinct works very well. Maybe because I've been doing this for some time now I can just tell who is full of shit and who isn't. Any doubt in my mind then I leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm most wary of couples. Often just hubby getting his rocks off.

Verifications aren't really much help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet"

What else should they talk on?

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I can't accommodate because I don't want people at my place and I have veris which I don't show......... guess I'm a time waster too!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm saying possible traits.

Some have genuine reasons for not be able/not wishing to accommodate. But there's also those that can't because they have a wife and kids at home/in a relationship. "

Even if they have a wife and kids at home they may be one of the reliable meets who always turns up. The failure to accomodation means nothing.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As a single mother I get one meet every few months if I'm lucky most people say they understand and rarely do so after a while of chatting I'm all of a sudden a time waster.

To some time waster is just a label they like to throw around when people can't do things their way when they want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell everyone you don't engage in sex talk or send naked pics. That gets rid of the wankers. For everyone else, I go with gut instinct and it's worked for me every time, so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm most wary of couples. Often just hubby getting his rocks off.

Verifications aren't really much help.

"

I see what you did there....

*doffs bowler.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It's easy

A woman profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a woman

A couples profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a couple

#simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who says there genuine stay well away from "

Any use of the 'g' word sets off alarms here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a simple way of meeting and it has not let me down.

I send face pics with in the first 3 messages. I send my number

We have a quick chat , then arrange a meet.

No sex chat or naked pics or videos.....

If a person can't chat on the phone or has face pics. I don't meet them

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on for over a year with no verifications "
same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications."

Same old shite.

People give reasons. Other people believe these reasons or don't believe these reasons.

Neither of these positions is conclusive proof either way.

Nor is it the rule in every situation......

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Understandable for single female for safety reasons. That is more aimed at so called single men. You've got verifications so that we'll and truly overrides the issue of genuine or fake. "

I only have 2 veris am i classed as a timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on for over a year with no verifications same here"

Same here too ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am unfortunately in the no veri department after a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish I lived in the Midlands. I'm totally genuine and have never let anyone down I agreed to meet, problem is there are naff all people interested in meeting me around here.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I am unfortunately in the no veri department after a year "

If you've ever wondered why - what conclusions did you come to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am unfortunately in the no veri department after a year

If you've ever wondered why - what conclusions did you come to?"

Too many blokes not enough females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of things I suppose but I'll be patient someone will give me that first veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet

What else should they talk on? "

Few messages on here first at least

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Had a couples profile message me for the last few days, thay only had two cam veri's from 4 years ago, them messages i got just so sounded like a man. Pretending to be the fem, i said ok hun will you ring me now then to chat about a meet, lol the b.s i got as to why she(he) wont ring, anyway long and short it was a couples profile at the start but the fems left the nest and his still useing it

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By *nky pinky ponkyWoman
over a year ago

lincoln


"As a single mother I get one meet every few months if I'm lucky most people say they understand and rarely do so after a while of chatting I'm all of a sudden a time waster.

To some time waster is just a label they like to throw around when people can't do things their way when they want it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who says there genuine stay well away from "

Second that

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet

What else should they talk on? "
on a phone ?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet

What else should they talk on?

Few messages on here first at least "

Well yeah for sure.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet

What else should they talk on? on a phone ?"

Not for me I don't like talking on the phone to people I know let alone people I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am unfortunately in the no veri department after a year

If you've ever wondered why - what conclusions did you come to?

Too many blokes not enough females"

You do know that every time a man says there's too many men on Fab, another kitten dies don't you.

Admin; can we have an irony emoji please.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad people are careful

Lots of dodgy Profiles about

Plenty of dodgy couples ones when really there blokes pretending they got a partner

Stay safe people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I am unfortunately in the no veri department after a year

If you've ever wondered why - what conclusions did you come to?

Too many blokes not enough females"

Suits me. The more men there are with poor profiles, the better I stand out and get more sex. More desperate men, I say!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Build up your expertise by speaking with meets, more than using pic swapping apps.

Its better not to post your best tips in the forum imo. Dont forewarn, so that theyre not fore-armed.

Dont go shopping when youre hungry, the experts state that you purchase food poorly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sporadic messaging... forgetting shit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't accommodate because I don't want people at my place and I have veris which I don't show......... guess I'm a time waster too!!!!"

want to waste sometime, that's a male one liner hoping for a reply can accom with a few days notice , billy

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Verifications, pictures, profile content and the way they converse and how open they are.

Lots of clues if you read between the lines.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Rather than "Spot the fake" play "Why do they want to contact me/us?".

Then remove the reasons.

Don't cam, don't send pics/vids on kik etc., don't have one or two public pics but a hundred friend only ones..don't accept unsolicited friend requests.

Genuine people will still want to chat without all the add ons..fakes & timewasters won't usually.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi peeps, been on the site now since April and not had a meet yet. Not had any replies just to go for a drink lol must be me! Anyways there is some people that are new to this and they may feel "out of their depth".

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you proposing to offer them some advice ?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a minefield, been caught out so often, you just got to keep trying but it does get tiresome.

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications.

We have been on here over a year. We don't accomodate as we don;t want our home address known, and prefer meeting on neutral ground , i.e. a hotel. We don't have veris because each and every single man we have made contact with on here has let us down. We do enjoy having fun with others that we meet elsewhere. I guess according to your thoughts we would be categorised as timewasters !"

ive been 10 years in scene

and can confirm 9 out of 10 times anyone that says they are genuine on profile or not like rest are genuinely players or wasters.

i agree with the above view on no verifications .. majority of guys that go to cougarsandcubs havent verifications mainly because they cant get meets or blown out.. ive had more liars and let downs from verified accounts than not verified!! If you use this ideal you ll miss out on some crackers..

I ve never accommodated and its been difficult to get meets . why i dont bother anymore but i m certainly no fake..0) xx

I go on gut intinct and someones log in patterns and

I never ever bother with anyone that just uses kik.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications.

We have been on here over a year. We don't accomodate as we don;t want our home address known, and prefer meeting on neutral ground , i.e. a hotel. We don't have veris because each and every single man we have made contact with on here has let us down. We do enjoy having fun with others that we meet elsewhere. I guess according to your thoughts we would be categorised as timewasters !

ive been 10 years in scene

and can confirm 9 out of 10 times anyone that says they are genuine on profile or not like rest are genuinely players or wasters."

I'm guessing I should change my name with that theory?

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford

There's no science on detecting time wasters. It is what it is. It comes with the package. Every where there are time wasters. You just have to deal with it, accept it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on for over a year with no verifications "

i too have been on a long time with only 1 verification. i have met others but i feel quality is better than quantity and some folk don't like posting verifications as the stalkers come out of the woodwork

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By *iceguy81Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I'm relatively new so haven't got a verification yet due to all the fake, time wasters and scammers, I pride myself in being an honest and nice gentleman but I just get treated like shit by some women because of all the idiots ruining it for us.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications."

Why does unable to accommodate make you a time waster, I can't accommodate often but have still managed 4 meets in less than a month

Do I have to have a meet on a daily basis to not be considered a time waster?!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

No 'photo-verified' green flag on their profile

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"There's no science on detecting time wasters. It is what it is. It comes with the package. Every where there are time wasters. You just have to deal with it, accept it and move on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good idea is to attend some socials so that you can get verified through them. Then people will see that you're genuine

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

From the make point of view the time wasters make it difficult but unfortunately that's life. I've got decent verifications so hopefully that shows I'm not here to waste anyone's time

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I dont accom but not a timewaster just not having strangers around my kid and yes mist guys who say there genuine aint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i have no luck im honest can accommodate not a timewaster and get nowhere so good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont accom but not a timewaster just not having strangers around my kid and yes mist guys who say there genuine aint"

Men lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm relatively new so haven't got a verification yet due to all the fake, time wasters and scammers, I pride myself in being an honest and nice gentleman but I just get treated like shit by some women because of all the idiots ruining it for us. "

I'm confused, how do the fakes, time wasters and scammers stop you getting verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont accom but not a timewaster just not having strangers around my kid and yes mist guys who say there genuine aint

Men lie "

Women lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications.

No, that's not true. I'm 'genuine' but I don't accommodate. Why would not being able to accommodate male someone a timewaster? "

It doesn't make you a timewaster, it just makes meeting and therefore getting verified more difficult.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I dont accom but not a timewaster just not having strangers around my kid and yes mist guys who say there genuine aint"
I used to accommodate but no longer do with new people due to a few guys on here that I had trouble with (a stalker and two guys trying to get into my house at two am) my partner doesn't live with me and I don't feel safe having random guys here even if he is present during meets, there's nothing to stop them coming back when he's not here. Does this make us timewasters? Delia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont accom but not a timewaster just not having strangers around my kid and yes mist guys who say there genuine aint I used to accommodate but no longer do with new people due to a few guys on here that I had trouble with (a stalker and two guys trying to get into my house at two am) my partner doesn't live with me and I don't feel safe having random guys here even if he is present during meets, there's nothing to stop them coming back when he's not here. Does this make us timewasters? Delia"

Can't think of a better reason than that, women especially need to and have the right to feel safe at all times.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I dont accom but not a timewaster just not having strangers around my kid and yes mist guys who say there genuine aint I used to accommodate but no longer do with new people due to a few guys on here that I had trouble with (a stalker and two guys trying to get into my house at two am) my partner doesn't live with me and I don't feel safe having random guys here even if he is present during meets, there's nothing to stop them coming back when he's not here. Does this make us timewasters? Delia

Can't think of a better reason than that, women especially need to and have the right to feel safe at all times."

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been asked why I'm even on here if I can't meet....cos when we can sunshine, we will...just because we are online doesn't mean we are available to hop on a cock or mash some boobies. There is life outside of fab yanno

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them.

For me it's a crap idea. Let's tell time wasters how to hide themselves even better "

Taking notes on how to waste time, as going by the Op thoughts that's what I would be / am as I would have no verifications . Gosh it's getting tough on here.. Someone veri me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that my gut instinct works very well. Maybe because I've been doing this for some time now I can just tell who is full of shit and who isn't. Any doubt in my mind then I leave them to it. "

Bizarre logic....I haven't been hit by a car since I stopped crossing roads?..You decide someone is full of shit before finding out....That is a highly bankable skill that is wasted on the mere selection of sexual partners.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet

What else should they talk on? "

Ive wondered about this,why is everyone so concerned or negative towards encrypted,fast and efficient messaging systems on fab?....As slick as this website is and all?..Is there something nefarious going on?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One liner or one word replies. Some women on here its like trying to get blood from a stone. That is if they are women. Sometimes i suspect its guys looking for a cheap sad thrill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not foolproof .... But we're not into endless chat or emails . Exchange face pics when requested. Arrange to meet sooner rather than later . The longer it goes on....the less chance of a meet happening . But above all gut feeling about people !. But as we said ...not foolproof and we still get 'caught out' occasionally even after 9 years playing the game .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who says there genuine stay well away from "

Thats not right im genuine with and no luck upto now expect one couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet"

Soooooo true!!!!

Instant turn off for me is when someone mentions Kik.

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Girls and couples on here get literally hundreds of replies and can get fun 24 hours a day non stop if they wanted yet there are profiles on here who have been on over a year and they've met no one! Unfortunately that's the downside of any free site, lots of fakes and timewasters......and what's all this "only the male half playing today" all about? Oh and he usually turns out to be bi!lol.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Girls and couples on here get literally hundreds of replies and can get fun 24 hours a day non stop if they wanted yet there are profiles on here who have been on over a year and they've met no one! Unfortunately that's the downside of any free site, lots of fakes and timewasters......and what's all this "only the male half playing today" all about? Oh and he usually turns out to be bi!lol."

The male only here today is about getting round the block single guys filter pure and simple

Many couples have single and couples profiles for when they're playing as a couple or a single so it's perfectly open and allows people's filters to do their job depending on what they're looking for

Some guys think it's a good way around the filter system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy

A woman profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a woman

A couples profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a couple

I happily message guys first if I see something I want to molest and last time I checked I've defo got no cock!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who just seem to want to talk on kik...something about them lot that i haven't worked out yet

What else should they talk on? on a phone ?

Not for me I don't like talking on the phone to people I know let alone people I don't know. "

I'm exactly the same. Just something about the telephone that I've never like. Much prefer face to face.

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Been on for over a year with no verifications "

I have been on for a year with no verification, but dose that meen i don't want to meet? What can i do if people aren't interested it's there lose at the end of the day!

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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We are a cpl who often just have mr dee playing alone due to health problems for me, he also has his own single profile which shows he can accommodate on and he is able to do so if I'm at home or not as it's all in the open, so not all cpls who have only one half playing are fake.

We tend to think it's like finding a needle in a haystack trying to filter out fakes most of the time.

But like someone says that's a problem with it being a free site we often see people remove a profile then inside a hour they are back on with another one with same pics on,

So that shows how hard it is to filter fakes out

Merry Christmas to all none fakes

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By *XMandMXxCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We find that we exchange a few messages on here, share face pics, move to kik chat (because it's easier) and try to arrange a social. It's at that point that we find out who's serious because they can never commit to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications.

Unable to accommodate?? What rubbish. I'm not having randoms off the net in my house."

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By *i-shoptonMan
over a year ago

bishopton

Sorry..... but if a girl as gorgeous as you gets let down regularly then I'm afraid there's absolutely no chance of us mere mortals getting good meets!!!!!

Happy xmas


"Be a good idea to pass on everyone's gained knowledge of detecting them. Sadly there are some unverified newbies that can't actually get a meet due to the amount of timewasters on here. Here's a couple of clues to make those who genuinely are looking to meet others. Please add your knowledge and experience to save couples/singles getting all dressed up and excited for a no show.

Unable to accommodate.

No verifications.

We have been on here over a year. We don't accomodate as we don;t want our home address known, and prefer meeting on neutral ground , i.e. a hotel. We don't have veris because each and every single man we have made contact with on here has let us down. We do enjoy having fun with others that we meet elsewhere. I guess according to your thoughts we would be categorised as timewasters !"

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yet fab does supply you with the tools to block.

If you think we are time wasters don't message us block and move on.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy

A woman profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a woman

A couples profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a couple

#simples

"

Frequently true.....but I've had several excellent and repeated meets from both who contacted me first..... so nothing is set in stone!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"It's easy

A woman profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a woman

A couples profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a couple

#simples

Frequently true.....but I've had several excellent and repeated meets from both who contacted me first..... so nothing is set in stone!"

True, but it's a good general rule...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was let down by a well verified person,no show but yet a unverified newbie show up ,15 early and we had fun! Not able to accommodate is not an issue for me either because people's living arrangements differs! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy

A woman profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a woman

A couples profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a couple

#simples

"

I sometimes message first and last time I looked, I was a female. Not everyone only responds to their inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our experience they're usually the people who get very dirty talking straight away,with no verifications...usually a guy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy

A woman profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a woman

A couples profile pm's me first = it's a bloke pretending to be a couple

#simples

I sometimes message first and last time I looked, I was a female. Not everyone only responds to their inbox. "

Same I'm the girl half and I use this as much as my husband so generally pm first as he's not great at sending them lol

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I don't bother detecting fakes anymore,it's so much more simpler to block everybody

Go to a club/party and meet genuine people

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