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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok i been on here a month and met 2 guys 1 woman and cam with 1 guy so far and yes i'm bi, but i would like to meet more women/couples.

Without sounding a wanker i know i topped fabbed male 4 times now but the only women/couples send me message are mostly are miles away and i don't want to travel that far.

Why do local London girls/couples ignore me or make excuse when i ask if they would like a social or meet its real odd chatting to me then go cold when i ask.?

Thanks guys and i'm not a cry baby so you can be honest.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Decent and varied pictures that aren't cock pics, so that's not the problem.

I'd suggest perhaps your profile blurb is where you need to sell yourself better - you need to get across more of your personality, what you're looking for, what you think you can offer that kind of thing. Spend some time looking at others profiles to see what works for them and then adapt it to you.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women and couples are put off by bi men.

You can't accommodate.

Other than that, I don't know what puts women and couples off you. You seem like a nice enough person, to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as many women and couples on here who look after themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Decent and varied pictures that aren't cock pics, so that's not the problem.

I'd suggest perhaps your profile blurb is where you need to sell yourself better - you need to get across more of your personality, what you're looking for, what you think you can offer that kind of thing. Spend some time looking at others profiles to see what works for them and then adapt it to you.

Good luck "

Cheers buddy much appreciated but like i say i offer some a meet after a chat in private or cam chat before hand and then i never hear from them its bonkers.

Thing is i never message anyone first i know their overrun with messages so think if they took the time to message me then i'm lucky so play it sweet. ha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Topping fabbed photos really doesn't equate to getting the desired meets you want. With regards to the profile, the text says so little about yourself and what you want. As far as people going cold, it happens. They can lose interest or not be real. Have you been to a club or anything?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Topping fabbed photos really doesn't equate to getting the desired meets you want. With regards to the profile, the text says so little about yourself and what you want. As far as people going cold, it happens. They can lose interest or not be real. Have you been to a club or anything?"

No i'd rather have private meets tbh and yes i'm begin to think a lot of the ladies profiles are not real why else ignore me when i offer to meet them or cam.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as already stated you cant accommodate and you are bi..both can count against you on here

as well as that some women may be put off by 'the body'...

and also you say you are approachable but some of your forum posts have suggested otherwise...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as already stated you cant accommodate and you are bi..both can count against you on here

as well as that some women may be put off by 'the body'...

and also you say you are approachable but some of your forum posts have suggested otherwise..."

I disagree with that i am a friendly guy i don't insult people like i seen a lot of users do and as for ' the body' i'm still human just like you and the rest so dont let that put you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as already stated you cant accommodate and you are bi..both can count against you on here

as well as that some women may be put off by 'the body'...

and also you say you are approachable but some of your forum posts have suggested otherwise...

I disagree with that i am a friendly guy i don't insult people like i seen a lot of users do and as for ' the body' i'm still human just like you and the rest so dont let that put you off"

you asked for advice ...I gave it, you disagreed ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible that women are just too intimidated to meet you and are afraid they won't be good enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as already stated you cant accommodate and you are bi..both can count against you on here

as well as that some women may be put off by 'the body'...

and also you say you are approachable but some of your forum posts have suggested otherwise...

I disagree with that i am a friendly guy i don't insult people like i seen a lot of users do and as for ' the body' i'm still human just like you and the rest so dont let that put you off

you asked for advice ...I gave it, you disagreed ... "

I'm not saying that i just need to see what you mean.

Have i ever been rude to you or another member on here.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Possible that women are just too intimidated to meet you and are afraid they won't be good enough. "

Yeah i get that but with me thats not the case but i understand its like the gym a pecking order.

I guess this cock just needs to peck out the honest hens on here. haha

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Don't change that you're Bi on here far to many hide under the pretext of being straight when they really aren't for fear of being judged.

The old moto "you only get out what your put in" is very true on here. Put a bit more into your profile write up. Maybe put some of your pics in friends only and swap them around occasionally to mix it up a bit to keep it fresh.

As long as you are polite at all times and respectful it's their loss and someone else's gain if they're not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't change that you're Bi on here far to many hide under the pretext of being straight when they really aren't for fear of being judged.

The old moto "you only get out what your put in" is very true on here. Put a bit more into your profile write up. Maybe put some of your pics in friends only and swap them around occasionally to mix it up a bit to keep it fresh.

As long as you are polite at all times and respectful it's their loss and someone else's gain if they're not interested "

Hey thanks very much and noted much appreciated have a wonderful Sunday.

Btw i put new pics up every week so its up to date and me now.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Decent and varied pictures that aren't cock pics, so that's not the problem.

I'd suggest perhaps your profile blurb is where you need to sell yourself better - you need to get across more of your personality, what you're looking for, what you think you can offer that kind of thing. Spend some time looking at others profiles to see what works for them and then adapt it to you.

Good luck

Cheers buddy much appreciated but like i say i offer some a meet after a chat in private or cam chat before hand and then i never hear from them its bonkers.

Thing is i never message anyone first i know their overrun with messages so think if they took the time to message me then i'm lucky so play it sweet. ha"

Not bonkers at all really - people are allowed to decide not to take things further if, after chatting, they find you're not what they're looking for.

I'd still work on building out your profile a little if I were you though.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*shrugs*

Fuckable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might be posts like this

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.

Beat me with your leg of lamb''

link to thread where the OP talks shit about UK women

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/576163

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Don't change that you're Bi on here far to many hide under the pretext of being straight when they really aren't for fear of being judged.

The old moto "you only get out what your put in" is very true on here. Put a bit more into your profile write up. Maybe put some of your pics in friends only and swap them around occasionally to mix it up a bit to keep it fresh.

As long as you are polite at all times and respectful it's their loss and someone else's gain if they're not interested

Hey thanks very much and noted much appreciated have a wonderful Sunday.

Btw i put new pics up every week so its up to date and me now. "

You're welcome. The main thing with fab is having a lot of patience and a pretty thick skin. Keep at it. As you very well know from looking at you, hard work pays off.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

[Removed by poster at 04/12/16 00:36:32]

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Beat me with your leg of lamb?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as already stated you cant accommodate and you are bi..both can count against you on here

as well as that some women may be put off by 'the body'...

and also you say you are approachable but some of your forum posts have suggested otherwise...

No just wanted you to show or explain

I disagree with that i am a friendly guy i don't insult people like i seen a lot of users do and as for ' the body' i'm still human just like you and the rest so dont let that put you off

you asked for advice ...I gave it, you disagreed ... "

No just wanted you to explain or show me one time i haven't been approachable.?

Please do.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"might be posts like this

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.

Beat me with your leg of lamb''

link to thread where the OP talks shit about UK women

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/576163"

Beat me to it (with your leg of lamb)!!

Some of your forum posts really don't help you OP...might want to consider a different approach there too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beat me with your leg of lamb? "

What being sorry that you guys turned your back on the EU.?

iS THAT really it you being honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's done you like kipper there OP tbf.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He's done you like kipper there OP tbf. "

The EU will do the UK like a kipper

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Beat me with your leg of lamb?

What being sorry that you guys turned your back on the EU.?

iS THAT really it you being honest?"

Is that what the thread was about? No idea, never read it...I thought it was about a Sunday roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's done you like kipper there OP tbf. "

takes a bow

and my work here is done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's the face palm emoji

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol why you English so bothered by a Dutch man. ?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

God I wished I'd clicked the green arrow next before. I want the face palm emoji too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people with the same IP address posting on this thread

The Hindenburg

The Titanic

Caddyshack 2

Rocketgym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God I wished I'd clicked the green arrow next before. I want the face palm emoji too! "

Generally the first thing I do, click the magic arrow of history and truth

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"God I wished I'd clicked the green arrow next before. I want the face palm emoji too!

Generally the first thing I do, click the magic arrow of history and truth "

I've seen the error of my ways lol never again

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

El oh 'ell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"might be posts like this

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.

Beat me with your leg of lamb''

link to thread where the OP talks shit about UK women

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/576163"

Real LOL 1 dutch guy against a whole forum so pathetic and i wasn't even being rude buddy just playful.

Says it all.

Look forward to article 50 hurry up bring it on you cowards. LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"people with the same IP address posting on this thread

The Hindenburg

The Titanic

Caddyshack 2

Rocketgym "

What you trying to say i don't understand.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"might be posts like this

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.

Beat me with your leg of lamb''

link to thread where the OP talks shit about UK women

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/576163

Real LOL 1 dutch guy against a whole forum so pathetic and i wasn't even being rude buddy just playful.

Says it all.

Look forward to article 50 hurry up bring it on you cowards. LOL"

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.''

very playful and yeah we're all cowards on here,

you a real slippery customer ain't you ?...must be all the baby oil

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Where's my popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"might be posts like this

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.

Beat me with your leg of lamb''

link to thread where the OP talks shit about UK women

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/576163

Real LOL 1 dutch guy against a whole forum so pathetic and i wasn't even being rude buddy just playful.

Says it all.

Look forward to article 50 hurry up bring it on you cowards. LOL

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.''

very playful and yeah we're all cowards on here,

you a real slippery customer ain't you ?...must be all the baby oil "

To be honest i have no idea what your point is please explain or shut up ok .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table "

Brexit means Brexit.

Fuzzy don't know what fuzzy means.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table

Brexit means Brexit.

Fuzzy don't know what fuzzy means. "

Ready Brexit?

Full English Brexit?

What is Brexit, dude?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table

Brexit means Brexit.

Fuzzy don't know what fuzzy means.

Ready Brexit?

Full English Brexit?

What is Brexit, dude?"

He's Dutch joe...continental brexit obviously

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table

Brexit means Brexit.

Fuzzy don't know what fuzzy means.

Ready Brexit?

Full English Brexit?

What is Brexit, dude?

He's Dutch joe...continental brexit obviously "

I should probably be paying less attention to politics and more to the comings and goings on here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table

Brexit means Brexit.

Fuzzy don't know what fuzzy means.

Ready Brexit?

Full English Brexit?

What is Brexit, dude?"

Bar steward, you've now put full English in my head when I was planning a much healthier brexit of fruit, yoghurt and pancakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever seen someone wear a spade down to the handle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table

Brexit means Brexit.

Fuzzy don't know what fuzzy means.

Ready Brexit?

Full English Brexit?

What is Brexit, dude?"

We love to know what brexit means to you it's about time it's been 6 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 1/4 German 1/4 Irish and half awesome

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'll shut ok ? cause it's obvious you can't keep up and need to go sit at the kids table

Brexit means Brexit.

Fuzzy don't know what fuzzy means.

Ready Brexit?

Full English Brexit?

What is Brexit, dude?

We love to know what brexit means to you it's about time it's been 6 months."

I have no idea what it means and, unlike the political classes of this country, I'm quite happy to say so

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"brexited by poster at 04/12/16 01:18:29]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"might be posts like this

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.

Beat me with your leg of lamb''

link to thread where the OP talks shit about UK women

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/576163

Real LOL 1 dutch guy against a whole forum so pathetic and i wasn't even being rude buddy just playful.

Says it all.

Look forward to article 50 hurry up bring it on you cowards. LOL

''British are slutty trash no class on the whole.''

very playful and yeah we're all cowards on here,

you a real slippery customer ain't you ?...must be all the baby oil

To be honest i have no idea what your point is please explain or shut up ok ."

You have chosen to live in Britain, have learned English and yet you deem the people as trash? Doesn't make you look very bright now does it? Especially as the Netherlands is pretty shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"brexited by poster at 04/12/16 01:18:29]"

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn right for Harwich, there's you Brexit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love the UK or wouldn't move here but i know you voted to leave us and i'm sad by that but i accept it but guys.

Why you hate me then.?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Turn right for Harwich, there's you Brexit. "

* Hard right turn...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I love the UK or wouldn't move here but i know you voted to leave us and i'm sad by that but i accept it but guys.

Why you hate me then.?"

I didn't vote for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you . "

Oh, I dunno...

Nice tits?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i'm just a pair of tits on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you . "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

"

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

"

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

You've been on here a month and met 3 people. You're doing good, mate. This isn't tinder.

Take a few different pics, forum a bit and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

"

So a lovely lady gives you some measured feedback (as asked for), which I happen to agree with, and you are being defensive about it? Always top 3 of what? Why would I even care? Who is asking you to scrape the barrel at the top or the bottom? Why are you even bothered what the silly wind up merchants are saying (come on, you made a comment on another post and you're being ribbed for it, it's no big deal, ignore them)? It appears as if your final sentence on your OP is looking a little shaky about now.

Anyway, either take on the constructive critique that some have given you or don't. No matter either way. Happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now "

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i'm just a pair of tits on here. "

would say you was a pair of tits, just the one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So i'm just a pair of tits on here.

would say you was a pair of tits, just the one "

Brexit means brexit.

Fuzzy means nothing.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok . "

I don't think anyone was giving you abuse, not were they referring to comments about Brexit, more your comments in which you referred to British women as being "fat" and "trash" in that other thread.

You've been given advice as to improvements you could make to your profile, so as Estella suggests perhaps you should focus on that for now.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So i'm just a pair of tits on here.

would say you was a pair of tits, just the one

Brexit means brexit.

Fuzzy means nothing. "

means I don't shave my balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok . "

You've been given positive advice and your responses have been progressively more stupid. Why should anyone offer advice under those circumstances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

So a lovely lady gives you some measured feedback (as asked for), which I happen to agree with, and you are being defensive about it? Always top 3 of what? Why would I even care? Who is asking you to scrape the barrel at the top or the bottom? Why are you even bothered what the silly wind up merchants are saying (come on, you made a comment on another post and you're being ribbed for it, it's no big deal, ignore them)? It appears as if your final sentence on your OP is looking a little shaky about now.

Anyway, either take on the constructive critique that some have given you or don't. No matter either way. Happy fabbing. "

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them walk on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

"

What are you even talking about? Haha. That didn't even correlate with my comment. I won't even bother next time. Note to self... One to avoid on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok .

I don't think anyone was giving you abuse, not were they referring to comments about Brexit, more your comments in which you referred to British women as being "fat" and "trash" in that other thread.

You've been given advice as to improvements you could make to your profile, so as Estella suggests perhaps you should focus on that for now.

Good luck "

Cheers buddy and noted and i didn't mean it but on the whole its why i moved her the UK has a weight issue and its in my line of work so not gonna lie and say you're all fit when 67% are obese just being honest its where the money is at.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok . "

Well your profile is fine from where I'm standing, I agree with what others have said, having an exceptionally good physique can intimidate people and it can also lead to people being envious and possibly lead to some bitter comments on here.

Personally I haven't made any comments regarding brexit except for the light headed continental brexit comment.

I think a few of the light hearted comments have been lost in translation due to English not being your native language but then again you've also got a little over defensive with a couple of profile advice comments

As I said I haven't read these previous threads of yours and as far as I remember I haven't given you any 'abuse'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok .

I don't think anyone was giving you abuse, not were they referring to comments about Brexit, more your comments in which you referred to British women as being "fat" and "trash" in that other thread.

You've been given advice as to improvements you could make to your profile, so as Estella suggests perhaps you should focus on that for now.

Good luck

Cheers buddy and noted and i didn't mean it but on the whole its why i moved her the UK has a weight issue and its in my line of work so not gonna lie and say you're all fit when 67% are obese just being honest its where the money is at. "

And that's why my fat ass wouldn't be interested in you, I have visions of you telling me to bounce for ten more reps on your cock to burn the calories. No thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I haven't given you any 'abuse'"

I'd let you abuse me any day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

I was looking for constructive advice and have i got any.?

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok .

You've been given positive advice and your responses have been progressively more stupid. Why should anyone offer advice under those circumstances?

"

i WAS looking for constructive advice but all i got was improve on my text blah blah blah which is pointless seeing it is.

Then i got a couple of guys/clowns just jump i so forgive me for thinking what was the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text.

i WAS looking for constructive advice but all i got was improve on my text blah blah blah which is pointless seeing it is.

"

That *is* constructive advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile text. It's not eye-catching to be honest. The most successful men on here have a great text, and draw the woman in. Personality and humour is a huge turn on for some. As for your pictures, they are great. Add to your text, and it will be a great profile, and hopefully encourage more local ladies towards taking the leap and meeting you .

I do ok missy always top 3.

Plus i know if i wanted anytime i can go back to the top and not scrape around the bottom of the barrel like my haters on here .

I was looking for constructive advice and have i got any.?

Scrape around the barrel? Op you said in your opening post you 'didn't want to come across as a wanker' you really aren't helping yourself. I haven't read your previous posts but this one isn't doing you any favours. Ok I'll sit back and await the abuse now

I love you guys but not gonna stand for abuse so please explain why you feel the need on this thread i posted or make excuses like your pretend Brexit thats not going to happen.lol

So any postive profile advice not childish bitching i would appreciated ok .

You've been given positive advice and your responses have been progressively more stupid. Why should anyone offer advice under those circumstances?

i WAS looking for constructive advice but all i got was improve on my text blah blah blah which is pointless seeing it is.

Then i got a couple of guys/clowns just jump i so forgive me for thinking what was the point.

"

If I were you I'd reflect on this thread in the cold light of day and think how you might have responded differently

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Unfortunately we can't tell you HOW to improve on your profile text, apart from generic suggestions like those I made, that in itself can only come from you as you know you best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were you I'd reflect on this thread in the cold light of day and think how you might have responded differently "

I love you so hard right now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone's into the heavily muscled look, however nice you might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate. "

Hooray. Well done OP. You showed us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were you I'd reflect on this thread in the cold light of day and think how you might have responded differently

I love you so hard right now!! "

wish I was hard right now damn Jagermaster has given me drinkers droop

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate. "

Congratulations op, I have 436 unread emails from today

Ps I'm not a Brit or desperate by the way

Leaves 'tread'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wake up, you've fallen to sleep and are dreaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate.

Congratulations op, I have 436 unread emails from today

Ps I'm not a Brit or desperate by the way

Leaves 'tread'"

*Thread* carefully Perdita, don't upset him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate.

Hooray. Well done OP. You showed us!! "

Haha I thought messages weren't the problem... It was keeping them interested enough to meet once he was talking to them

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate.

Congratulations op, I have 436 unread emails from today

Ps I'm not a Brit or desperate by the way

Leaves 'tread'

*Thread* carefully Perdita, don't upset him!"

*threads carefully off making sure to avoid bruised over inflated egos and cunning genius's*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate.

Hooray. Well done OP. You showed us!!

Haha I thought messages weren't the problem... It was keeping them interested enough to meet once he was talking to them "

Stop speaking sense! It's not allowed on his thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate.

Congratulations op, I have 436 unread emails from today

Ps I'm not a Brit or desperate by the way

Leaves 'tread'

*Thread* carefully Perdita, don't upset him!

*threads carefully off making sure to avoid bruised over inflated egos and cunning penises*"

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why can I picture Baldrick out of Blackadder ''I have a cunning plan''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as already stated you cant accommodate and you are bi..both can count against you on here

as well as that some women may be put off by 'the body'...

and also you say you are approachable but some of your forum posts have suggested otherwise...

I disagree with that i am a friendly guy i don't insult people like i seen a lot of users do and as for ' the body' i'm still human just like you and the rest so dont let that put you off

you asked for advice ...I gave it, you disagreed ...

I'm not saying that i just need to see what you mean.

Have i ever been rude to you or another member on here.?"

Rude to me, no.

The green arrow provides plenty of evidence to other members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this was interesting.

Maybe eat a few Big Macs and become obese like the rest of us? Or find a new career and move some where else?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try being as relaxed and pleasant in your exchanges as you portray yourself to be in your profile OP. Perhaps a nice snooze will help straighten things out.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Possible that women are just too intimidated to meet you and are afraid they won't be good enough. "

I agree!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Real LOL my cunning plan has worked i just seen i got 11 messages from local ladies.

Boo hoo you Brits are so dumb at times hahahahaha.

Tread closed unless you're desperate. "

Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone can have the most fantastically well written profile with great pics but if their attitude stinks it's going to be very difficult to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone can have the most fantastically well written profile with great pics but if their attitude stinks it's going to be very difficult to get meets "

*sniggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. It's dangerous to ask for advice and then get personal and aggressive when people give it.

Building a network of folks to play with takes time and effort.

Redo your profile text. It took me a while to write mine, and it attracts the sort of people I want to fuck. So be clear about exactly what you're looking for.

With regards the Forums, there will be folks who like you and folks who don't... just like in real life.

Ive met some fantastic ladies through the forums, who I would not have met otherwise.

Just be yourself... unless yourself is as angry as you are coming across... not many women I know get turned on by anger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. It's dangerous to ask for advice and then get personal and aggressive when people give it.

Building a network of folks to play with takes time and effort.

Redo your profile text. It took me a while to write mine, and it attracts the sort of people I want to fuck. So be clear about exactly what you're looking for.

With regards the Forums, there will be folks who like you and folks who don't... just like in real life.

Ive met some fantastic ladies through the forums, who I would not have met otherwise.

Just be yourself... unless yourself is as angry as you are coming across... not many women I know get turned on by anger.

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