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By *routhead11 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I've been wanting to share my wife (very sexy) for years. But she's always flat out refused. Hence my single profile on here. Long story short. First weekend of December we're staying in Liverpool for the weekend. And she's agreed to a massage in the hotel room, I'm hoping this could lead onto more. So I'm looking for ideas or advice on how to set it up. Also looking for a guy whos experienced in the set of massage. This could be my one and only chance so needs to be right

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't set your wife up. When it comes to matters sexual no means no. Respect that and enjoy your wife enjoying a massage...nothing more.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Also many will proclaim they are good at massages and qualified etc... just be weary with what you end up with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't set your wife up. When it comes to matters sexual no means no. Respect that and enjoy your wife enjoying a massage...nothing more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single profile/ wife says it all really.. get a grip ..Anita

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

She's said no. She might be expecting an in room massage, meaning a massage.

You're hoping it might turn into more, not her.

Any woman who was expecting a massage and then the '_asseur' became sexual would be appalled, with him and you. This isn't a porn film.

Also very unfair on any guy YOU invite.

My advice is, completely drop the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is supposed to be based on trust and mutual consent, what you are suggesting is just plain wrong.

How could you 'set up' your wife so she is in a situation which she clearly does not want to be in????

Horrible

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

PS the 'meet' you have on your profile saying '100% genuine' , needs rewording.

Also give any poor guy who turns up a written disclaimer, so he can show it to the police when your wife reports him.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

I agree with others don't st her up , it took a while to pluck up courage for my wife . We went slowly slowly , first we use to put some porn on and watch it together . And talked about both our fantasys , we got to start being more daring going out showing plenty of her figure . She started enjoying the compliments,then I introduced her to a few sites where we could chat with others on cam . To eventually meeting a couple for soft play , ??Which then lead to meeting a guy with a lot more but not ultimate , we then both decided to attend a party where this guy got her so horny she practically ripped his clothes of , and he gave her a good seeing too , we have now had several meets at clubs and party's playing solo mmf mfmf and she has had some fem fun alone , we don't get to play often but we both look forward when we can

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By *routhead11 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Thanks for taking the time to reply and offering your advice. Can I just say. If any guy was to take up the offer I would clearly state it's a massage first and foremost. My wife is in control of anything that happens during the massage.and how far or not it go's. She's not totally nieve as to what it lead up to. And I can assure you I would never force into somthing she is nothappy with, we've role played this scenario many times. But on reflection. And advice given maybe this might not be right thing to do.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Role play is very different to real play op. You say your wife will be in control, probably best you join you in a couples profile then so she can be in on the search for a potential masseuse as currently you're in control of it all

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Don't set your wife up. When it comes to matters sexual no means no. Respect that and enjoy your wife enjoying a massage...nothing more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't set your wife up. When it comes to matters sexual no means no. Respect that and enjoy your wife enjoying a massage...nothing more."

Your missus will not be to happy if you try and set her up. Respect that no means no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is supposed to be based on trust and mutual consent, what you are suggesting is just plain wrong.

How could you 'set up' your wife so she is in a situation which she clearly does not want to be in????

Horrible"

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By *overs09ukCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

My suggestion would be role-playing with you doing the massage.

Could try and pretend you are a stranger might spark something in her that might make her agree in the future

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP You posted in November 2015 "Always wanted to share my wife. Tried many times over the years but she's having none of it but has agreed to letting me watch her getting chatted up in a bar". You were looking for a Fab volunteer. Did you find one and how did it go ?

Sally

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"She's said no. She might be expecting an in room massage, meaning a massage.

You're hoping it might turn into more, not her.

Any woman who was expecting a massage and then the '_asseur' became sexual would be appalled, with him and you. This isn't a porn film.

Also very unfair on any guy YOU invite.

My advice is, completely drop the idea."

Op think of this from her pov!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but you need to tell your wife. I am a masseuse and I assure you it'll be very awkward for him as well without her knowing

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

If she is wanting to dip her toe in take her to a social or a swingers club.

No pressure to fuck and you can leave without anyone touching you.

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By *asseurMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury England not Wales

As a qualified _asseur, I have only come across giving an unknowing wife a massage Once and it proved very awkward to say the least.

Best to let your wife decide how far she is willing to go.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"If she is wanting to dip her toe in take her to a social or a swingers club.

No pressure to fuck and you can leave without anyone touching you."

This is what we did, and it took a YEAR before we were both ready to play. But it's worth the wait

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