FabSwingers.com forum: Difficulty finding a couple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I can never seem to get couple meets its something I've wanted to do for ages but have no idea why not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I can never seem to get couple meets its something I've wanted to do for ages but have no idea why not ? "

According to your profile, you have met 3 couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha sorry these were social meets nothing got carried forward as it was never compatible to meet again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh and dirty Gertie was a single fem and we played on our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I can never seem to get couple meets its something I've wanted to do for ages but have no idea why not ? "

Our advice is - go to a swingers club and interact with the couples there.....face to face interaction is so much more real and satisfying than contact via a computer. M x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice , just a tad nervous about going on my own

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

As said below why not pluck up courage and go to a swingers club , there are plenty of us couples who want to meet single guys for fun at clubs , when you contact them send face pics as well as cock pics . Think nearly all clubs allow a certain amount of single guys in , just check there sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding a few more photos may help but don't be tempted to show cock pics, they really don't show anyone well unless you're a cock that is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have face pics on my profile just not for everyone to see , they are in private and I'm not so sure about a club would rather meet a couple one to one where it's just the wife ,guy and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pics on my profile just not for everyone to see , they are in private and I'm not so sure about a club would rather meet a couple one to one where it's just the wife ,guy and me "

Well youll just need to keep at it if your not interested in clubs

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

You can do that at clubs , most have private rooms , most couples on here would think carefully about inviting strangers back to there homes . We wouldn't . We will play at clubs party's or at hotel , if we were on holiday or business trips and will only visit a single guys house if husband has been and checked it out for cleanliness and safety and to make sure address exists , you may want to try out a dogging area , but in summer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I can never seem to get couple meets its something I've wanted to do for ages but have no idea why not ? "

You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't say anything other than nothing in there would give couples any idea of what you might have to offer to them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok maybe I need to look at editing my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple who has actively searched for single men to join us, and have experienced the best and the worst, there are a number of pointers that may or may not be relevant to you. The first question we ask ourselves when looking at a profile or message from a guy is 'why to they want to play with a couple?' A lot of guys just want sex with the lady and will put up with the husband being there. So we will only consider a single guy if we know he genuinely wants to play with a couple. Always remember that couple play is a three way relationship where all parties have a valuable role. A lot of guys make the mistake in marginalising the husband, and this is not good. So if you are building a friendship via text, make sure you chat with the man not just the lady. For a successful threesome arrangement there has to be chemistry between the lady and the new man, but the husband/partner must also get on well with the new man. Regard it that you are working as a team with the man to give his lady ultimate pleasure. It's the understanding of the dynamics of playing with an MF couple that is so important.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I can never seem to get couple meets its something I've wanted to do for ages but have no idea why not ? "

I started in this 'scene' by going to clubs and getting to know people. I don't go as much as I used to but it was a good way to connect with people in person who then you could friend on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is great advice for me it's the turn on about being with another guys wife wether he watches or joins in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is great advice for me it's the turn on about being with another guys wife wether he watches or joins in "

Yes there are a variety of different themes for a threeesome. If you are not looking for a bisexual threeesome, your role is most likely to be associated with a lady who wants to be pleasured by two men, so the focus will be in her. You might find a couple where the man just wants to watch. Or there might be a bit if both. Understand your role and you should be fine. If you are lucky you will get a couple who ask you want you want too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most helpful guys thanks now I just need a couple that want to meet me

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We were immediately interested when a handsome young gas engineer contacted us with a role play scenario. We went ahead with his plan and it was really exciting.

I think to be successful you need to send a couple a message of what you can offer them.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great advice guys

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

We are a couple looking for a guy. And you are just up the Rd. But you've hidden your profile so I can't see you.

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