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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What am I doing wrong is my profile ok? I've been trying for ages to get a meet from either a girl or a couple but still no luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea what sort of messages you are sending so cannot comment about that but your profile looks ok to me.

My only suggestion would be maybe add a couple more non cock shots?

Have you thought about going to a social to get to know a few people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try reading the other 10 million posts by single men asking the same question

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Try reading the other 10 million posts by single men asking the same question "

Try reading the replies to your other two 'profile help' threads.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Not easy for guy's is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not easy for guy's is it"

Not that hard if you can read between the lines and play the game of fabthrones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there is a social n Warrington this weekend and possibly next as well.... Might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you are looking to mainly chat and flirt and that you may wish to meet in future

I would take that as you not wanting to meet right now

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Not easy for guy's is it

Not that hard if you can read between the lines and play the game of fabthrones "

You'll have to explain that one a bit more,how do you read between the line's?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your name and get rid of most of the cock pics ...

if somebody messages me and regardless of the content of the message, if the profile is cockcentric then I'm not interested, you need to have more of a selling point than your big dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different pictures would be better..we all know what a cock looks like.

The first line in your bio about breaking down boundaries(or something like that) yikes!! strange way to start.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

First line "I'm up for breaking boundaries down" bad English tbh, people have boundaries for a reason last thing they are looking for is an outsider to come "push" them..

That's how it reads to me anyway, which I doubt was your intention..

Good luck

S

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Try reading the other 10 million posts by single men asking the same question

Try reading the replies to your other two 'profile help' threads. "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What am I doing wrong is my profile ok? I've been trying for ages to get a meet from either a girl or a couple but still no luck. "

Just get used to it dude, this is how it is for us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the help"

Hope that's not your real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the help

Hope that's not your real name "

Why??

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Thanks for the help

Hope that's not your real name

Why??"

Why do you think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the help

Hope that's not your real name

Why??

Why do you think!"

Go on, enlighten me

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Thanks for the help

Hope that's not your real name

Why??

Why do you think!"

He may as well stick a face pic up if he's going to have his real name up!

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

Happens to us all lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Ah, I remember now. You refer to women as yours, female or girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not easy for guy's is it"

I don't think it's easy for most people tbh. We had a meet up for Saturday night and had no response. Only ever put a few meets up on the 5 years we've been on the site but had no joy x

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

Had a lot of no shows as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not easy for guy's is it

Not that hard if you can read between the lines and play the game of fabthrones

You'll have to explain that one a bit more,how do you read between the line's?!"

Allows you to dodge the fakes, wannabes and jokers. Pick the good ones out....thankfully there are plenty of those about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i,m not surprised mate. the str8 single guy has virtually no chance on here . we are rated the lowest form in the pecking order below c/ds , trannies & half queers. there,s at least 90% are not wanting single men per say & str8 men even less . there seems an "unofficial" cut off point of 45 ,so anyone who is over that age have 2 chance of a meet , a dogs chance & no chance. so it,s no surprise to me you have had no meets on here."

Half queer?!

Maybe your attitude is to blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need to be patient being pushy seriously doesn't work.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"i,m not surprised mate. the str8 single guy has virtually no chance on here . we are rated the lowest form in the pecking order below c/ds , trannies & half queers. there,s at least 90% are not wanting single men per say & str8 men even less . there seems an "unofficial" cut off point of 45 ,so anyone who is over that age have 2 chance of a meet , a dogs chance & no chance. so it,s no surprise to me you have had no meets on here."

I'll keep my thoughts to myself on this one methinks.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"i,m not surprised mate. the str8 single guy has virtually no chance on here . we are rated the lowest form in the pecking order below c/ds , trannies & half queers. there,s at least 90% are not wanting single men per say & str8 men even less . there seems an "unofficial" cut off point of 45 ,so anyone who is over that age have 2 chance of a meet , a dogs chance & no chance. so it,s no surprise to me you have had no meets on here."

"Half Queer"?

I think I might change my sexuality

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By *erryteeMan
over a year ago

wigan

the reason i said half queer is that bisexual guys are rife on here. iv,e been on 3 other site but iv,e never seen as many bi guys on a swing site as this one. if you dont like what iv,e said then tough as i,m saying it how it is for single str8 guys on here & i,m not the only one who thinks this way.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"the reason i said half queer is that bisexual guys are rife on here. iv,e been on 3 other site but iv,e never seen as many bi guys on a swing site as this one. if you dont like what iv,e said then tough as i,m saying it how it is for single str8 guys on here & i,m not the only one who thinks this way."

Then why not just say bisexual,rather than trying to be rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say Chatting and flirting is a big turn on for me and what I'm mostly interested in' Which suggests youre not much into meeting as flirting and chatting. So no wonder women are not really showing interest. Just a thought but it would put me off that you prefer the chatting/flirting. Im on here to meet as well x

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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago

land of debauchery and kink


"Thanks for the help

Hope that's not your real name

Why??

Why do you think!

He may as well stick a face pic up if he's going to have his real name up!"

Can you not have your real name up?

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"the reason i said half queer is that bisexual guys are rife on here. iv,e been on 3 other site but iv,e never seen as many bi guys on a swing site as this one. if you dont like what iv,e said then tough as i,m saying it how it is for single str8 guys on here & i,m not the only one who thinks this way."
but whats the problem with alot of bi guys? honestly dont know how that can be a problem for u if your straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've written a few posts about this OP, if I recall correctly. Your profile is much better than the last one, since you've edited it. You have a good profile picture. I can't comment on the messages you've sent out, as I've not seen them, but please bear in mind, you've only been on the site for 9 weeks. It takes longer for a lot of single men to become a little more established. You need patience and persistence. Someone will bite, and you'll be on your way to your first verification. Other than that, socials and clubs are a good way to meet people... As is a cam verification if you can find someone willing to verify you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore my last comment on the cam part... I see you've already done that! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does take a while chap.

Be persistent but not pushy, it took me quire some time before I got a meet.

I now meet 2 wonderful ladies whenever I can and when they are free.

You'll get there

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

You have I trouble.......

Too many I's

And not enough you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not easy for guy's is it

I don't think it's easy for most people tbh. We had a meet up for Saturday night and had no response. Only ever put a few meets up on the 5 years we've been on the site but had no joy x"

I find it strange why no one would not want to meet a sexy couple like yourselves. There are a lot of fools on here that like to talk about it but never follow through. If only you lived down South.

To the OP, you've only been on here 9 weeks so have patience.

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heh...looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not easy for guy's is it

I don't think it's easy for most people tbh. We had a meet up for Saturday night and had no response. Only ever put a few meets up on the 5 years we've been on the site but had no joy x

I find it strange why no one would not want to meet a sexy couple like yourselves. There are a lot of fools on here that like to talk about it but never follow through. If only you lived down South.

To the OP, you've only been on here 9 weeks so have patience. "

Thanks very much. We live quite local to a swinging club so usually go there but thought we'd try something different. No loss as went to the club anyway

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