FabSwingers.com forum: How hard is meet someone on here

By *ew daveh OP Man
over a year ago

Middlewich

Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here"

I've never met anyone from the forums

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By *ew daveh OP Man
over a year ago

Middlewich

Do you have Snapchat can't message you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've not asked for profile advice, so I can't give any.

But ask yourself if your public profile sells you over and above all the other guys contacting the ladies.

Good luck my friend, I hope you find what you're after and the meets start to flow soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the opening question.

It's only as hard as you make it for yourself.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

It's a mystery.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Do you have Snapchat can't message you x"

Maybe you can't message her because you are not what she is looking for and she has set her filters for this reason.

Just because a lady has replied to you on the forum doesn't mean she is interested in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harder than a marshmallow but not as hard as an Astro-Physics degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's based on your location, profile, standards, inherent like ability or otherwise, level of attractiveness, how you come across in messages and forums and this is just the tip of the ice berg.

I worked out the mathematical formula for this one slow day at work. The answer, rather predictably, is 42

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Sorry but nothing written in the profile and a load of cock pics. Hardly standing out from the crowd.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Harder than a marshmallow but not as hard as an Astro-Physics degree."

As I've had no meets yet Il take the Astro physics degree

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

If you take time and effort with your profile there are plenty of genuine people on here to meet x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd personally prefer more of an effort made than lost my old email address.

I like to think I'm worth someone's time and effort, as that is what I'm also prepared to give.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

No one meets on here!!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Are your messages as well crafted as your post ?

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's difficult at times.

As someone said above, patience is important otherwise you'll get fed up and leave the site.

But meeting isn't impossible.

Whether it's via the chatrooms, forums, socials, clubs, private parties... so many ways to meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's harder, on average, for single men than it is for others.

It's harder, on average, for people who just show more of their cock, than their body in general, allowing people to access if they might find them attractive.

It's harder, on average, for people who don't participate in the fuller swinging scene, away from the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add a profile pic of yourself in lingerie and you will be inundated with requests to "meet today"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck fella, don't get frustrated and be willing to re-brand if necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's based on your location, profile, standards, inherent like ability or otherwise, level of attractiveness, how you come across in messages and forums and this is just the tip of the ice berg.

I worked out the mathematical formula for this one slow day at work. The answer, rather predictably, is 42

Isn't it always?

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"No one meets on here!!

Tis true, meets are just a miff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here"

Then change. It obviously isn't working for you at the moment and all of the above gives you a good idea of why.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"It's based on your location, profile, standards, inherent like ability or otherwise, level of attractiveness, how you come across in messages and forums and this is just the tip of the ice berg.

I worked out the mathematical formula for this one slow day at work. The answer, rather predictably, is 42

Isn't it always?

It's the meaning of life so it must be the answer to everything

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

If you come on here thinking your going to have sex with every women you message your wrong..patients is key

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"No one meets on here!!

Tis true, meets are just a miff "

Plenty of people meet on here otherwise what would be the point? And why would people have verifications? I did ok on here as a single guy and had quite a lot of meets. I actually met Miss on here.

We arent looking for single guys at the moment but if we were, a profile that just said lost my email address and a load of cock pics wouldnt interest us at all.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"No one meets on here!!

Tis true, meets are just a miff

Plenty of people meet on here otherwise what would be the point? And why would people have verifications? I did ok on here as a single guy and had quite a lot of meets. I actually met Miss on here.

We arent looking for single guys at the moment but if we were, a profile that just said lost my email address and a load of cock pics wouldnt interest us at all. "

Im being sarcastic mate, look at my veri summery

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"No one meets on here!!

Tis true, meets are just a miff

Plenty of people meet on here otherwise what would be the point? And why would people have verifications? I did ok on here as a single guy and had quite a lot of meets. I actually met Miss on here.

We arent looking for single guys at the moment but if we were, a profile that just said lost my email address and a load of cock pics wouldnt interest us at all.

Im being sarcastic mate, look at my veri summery

Sorry dude. Still fooked after nights lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here"

Its not hard. But I don't know if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one meets on here!!

Tis true, meets are just a miff

Plenty of people meet on here otherwise what would be the point? And why would people have verifications? I did ok on here as a single guy and had quite a lot of meets. I actually met Miss on here.

We arent looking for single guys at the moment but if we were, a profile that just said lost my email address and a load of cock pics wouldnt interest us at all.

Im being sarcastic mate, look at my veri summery

Sorry dude. Still fooked after nights lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here"

Its easy as pie to meet people on here if you speak to them correctly, have a bit of respect and don't take rejection badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how much effort you put into your profile OP. If you put a lot of effort into your profile text ( hint hint), the ride is a lot smoother, and you increase your chances

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

Ask yourself "why would anyone want to meet me amd not someone else "

Your profile photo is the first thing ppl look at . Next is your photos . Im sorry but just pics of a shaft isn't going to work.

Im no oil painting but I manage to meet lots of ppl .

Have fun with your profile . Show ppl what's on offer. Don't set too many limits .

Ppl join sites like this to meet ppl for sex . So stand out from the rest and get noticed.

Everyone wants to meet today . So why should they pic you.

If you show it they will cum .

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here"

You haven't asked for profile advice so I'll not go into detail.... just say that "Your profile is crap" possibly one of the worst I've ever seen. If you were a woman, would you pick to meet the owner of a profile like that?

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol"

Yes patience.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't meet

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?"

That´s Sorry I believe

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?"

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either "

Haha. It is frustration. Quite fitting realy taking the conversation in account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either "

So it is - very apt for my current state.

Patience is cards isn't it

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either

Haha. It is frustration. Quite fitting realy taking the conversation in account.

I like to play poker

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either

So it is - very apt for my current state.

Patience is cards isn't it"

Yes it is. I like a card game. Go fish or shithead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet? Why are the majority - not all - of us here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either

So it is - very apt for my current state.

Patience is cards isn't it

Yes it is. I like a card game. Go fish or shithead?

Strip blackjack could be a speedy one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's based on your location, profile, standards, inherent like ability or otherwise, level of attractiveness, how you come across in messages and forums and this is just the tip of the ice berg.

I worked out the mathematical formula for this one slow day at work. The answer, rather predictably, is 42

Actually it's 42.6666666 recurring!

I know, so close to what you're actually thinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet? Why are the majority - not all - of us here!"

I'm not in the majority but I can say Jesus loves you!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either

So it is - very apt for my current state.

Patience is cards isn't it

Yes it is. I like a card game. Go fish or shithead?

Strip blackjack could be a speedy one

I don't know that. Let's go for some Texas hold 'em

I suggest many layers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol

Yes patience.

Patience- please explain this?

It's a fucking irritating game where you use some stupid plastic dome to roll some dice.

That's it isn't it?

No that is frustration

not a fan of that either

So it is - very apt for my current state.

Patience is cards isn't it

Yes it is. I like a card game. Go fish or shithead?

Strip blackjack could be a speedy one

I don't know that. Let's go for some Texas hold 'em

I suggest many layers

You're on

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"It's harder, on average, for single men than it is for others.

It's harder, on average, for people who just show more of their cock, than their body in general, allowing people to access if they might find them attractive.

It's harder, on average, for people who don't participate in the fuller swinging scene, away from the internet."
this..get out and be known more in person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not hard .. people just expect to come on and think they are going to be fucking everything with a pulse, it don't work like that, people get wrong idea about the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet

So I've noticed

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Folk do meet...maybe not you op.. they meet others though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Extremely."
aww bless..cute bottie

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't meet

So I've noticed

Ah well. I like being selective, not into fucking everyone for the sake of it. If I wanted to do that I would go down the pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet

So I've noticed

Ah well. I like being selective, not into fucking everyone for the sake of it. If I wanted to do that I would go down the pub.

One was joking Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rather peachy derriere also madam if I may say so.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"A rather peachy derriere also madam if I may say so."

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't meet

So I've noticed

Ah well. I like being selective, not into fucking everyone for the sake of it. If I wanted to do that I would go down the pub.

One was joking Miss

I'll let you off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet

So I've noticed

Ah well. I like being selective, not into fucking everyone for the sake of it. If I wanted to do that I would go down the pub.

One was joking Miss

I'll let you off.

I'm not one to judge sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here

I've never met anyone from the forums "

Yet.......

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I've never met anyone from the forums "

Yeah, we have yet to do the Welsh Castles

(and about 174 other locations

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Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself OP, are your messages and profile as well written as this post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, were a genuine couple well up for a laugh but no one seems forthcoming

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Same here, were a genuine couple well up for a laugh but no one seems forthcoming"
lovely pics, couldn't read what you wanted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op it took me 6 months to attain a meet first time round on fab due to crap messaging and not reading profiles properly and diving in thinking everyone would be up for sex no questions asked but now I'm older wiser and a lot patienter I'm reaping the rewards so slow down get to know people before u jump in and take it steady

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By *ew daveh OP Man
over a year ago

Middlewich

Can't message you add me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here"

It's not hard to meet...for me.

But it is hard to find someone I'd meet AGAIN.

If you get me.

"Fuck and go's" do nothing for me at all.

Not interested in that one bit.

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By *CanDoThisAllDayCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Impossible! You will. Ever meet anybody ever! Don't do it!!!! C x

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Meeting all the time

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury

"Is meet but don't get to meet anyone on here

I've never met anyone from the forums "

I have twice and both times were brilliant!

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By *arumcoupleCouple
over a year ago

salisbury

I would say that lacking an email address doesn't help !!

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By *iolet2000Woman
over a year ago

Ormskirk

Public profile pics all dicks. Might be what someones looking for.

Personally its off putting. Is this really all there is to you as a person?.

. Try appearing a bit more interesting.

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