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Striggling to get people to message me back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone think my page is boring what do I need to do to it, or is it my age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you the police officer from Allo Allo?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anyone think my page is boring what do I need to do to it, or is it my age?"

It's your age. Now what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone think my page is boring what do I need to do to it, or is it my age?

It's your age. Now what? "

Age ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone think my page is boring what do I need to do to it, or is it my age?"

You are aware this is a swingers site?

Although some people are also here to get straight into it (your words) there are others who like a bit of banter and a social ...

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"Are you the police officer from Allo Allo? "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you say is you like oral sex and having sex. There's nothing there about you as person or your personality.

Plus if you've been here before surely you know it's about how you sell yourself and make yourself appealing to others, just saying I like sex isn't going to work for many people

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Are you the police officer from Allo Allo? "

I was just pissing by this thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you the police officer from Allo Allo? "

Chortle, chortle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Improve profile immeasurably, (search profile help on forums), and remember its a numbers game.

Good luck

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Put videos of cats on it, your views will increase 100 fold.....or is that youtube?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anyone think my page is boring what do I need to do to it, or is it my age?

It's your age. Now what?

Age ? "

Problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably your age. Oops sorry. I thought you said 'massage me back'.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Put videos of cats on it, your views will increase 100 fold.....or is that youtube?"

The internet in general, but not Fab

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's probably your age. Oops sorry. I thought you said 'massage me back'. "

Age?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's not his age, it's his "I'm here come and get me" style profile

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile waffles a bit, though doesn't really emphasise what it is that makes you in fact you. I'd like to know why I'd really benefit from meeting you, what I'd expect, why I should choose you - instead of all the other guys etc.

You've been on Fab before apparently and yet your profile doesn't really show you physically, in a way that I'd grasp how much physical attraction I have for you.

When you send messages to others, they'll likely view your profile. If it's not brilliant, then you're underselling yourself and potentially wasting the effort of sending messages out. Add a range of photos, that reveal more of how you really look. You don't need to show everything but enough to give the sparks of desire a chance to set more passion on fire.

Good luck!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's not his age, it's his "I'm here come and get me" style profile "

I'm glad it's not his age because if was, the only cure is to wait for himself to get older and that takes years. Or seconds, depending on your level of optimism.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It's not his age, it's his "I'm here come and get me" style profile

I'm glad it's not his age because if was, the only cure is to wait for himself to get older and that takes years. Or seconds, depending on your level of optimism. "

Or how quickly you can set up a new profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have one picture up OP, which is a little grainy. A variety would be good.

Your profile text could do with a bit of an overhaul. Put a little more about yourself on there. I've said this quite a few times, but have a look at some of the male forumites profiles. Some of them are very successful at getting meets. You may get some tips as to why, and implement your own spin on your own profile. Just remember, a lot of women will look at your profile before even opening your message. Use it as your selling point, then hopefully more will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says 'let's get straight to it'! Are you serious? Fab isn't an escort agency!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does everyone think now anything else I could add there must be something I'm missing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone think now anything else I could add there must be something I'm missing?"

too many exclamation marks! but I like the word striggling and have now stolen it...

honest?

be yourself chap; thats the best advice you will ever get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile waffles a bit, though doesn't really emphasise what it is that makes you in fact you. I'd like to know why I'd really benefit from meeting you, what I'd expect, why I should choose you - instead of all the other guys etc.

You've been on Fab before apparently and yet your profile doesn't really show you physically, in a way that I'd grasp how much physical attraction I have for you.

When you send messages to others, they'll likely view your profile. If it's not brilliant, then you're underselling yourself and potentially wasting the effort of sending messages out. Add a range of photos, that reveal more of how you really look. You don't need to show everything but enough to give the sparks of desire a chance to set more passion on fire.

Good luck! "

Good of you to take time to answer positively to this guy have one of these

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all

Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile seems ok to us mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone think now anything else I could add there must be something I'm missing?"

Sharpen up the grammar and spellcheck.

I am looking to meet mature woman...no, it's a mature woman or mature women, for example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you the police officer from Allo Allo? "

Bwahahahahaaa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does everyone think now anything else I could add there must be something I'm missing?"

Yes that's better. I would drop the bit about wanting someone to 'show you the ropes'. Nobody will do you that favour. People will either like you or they won't. Experience always helps on the swing scene, so I would advise you to get to some clubs and build up from there. Couples will be hard if you haven't been there before. There are certain dynamics with couple play and a three-way connection is required. As you can't accomodate, it might be worth suggesting an alternative - unless you were expecting to be invited to someone's house on a play meet.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Anyone think my page is boring what do I need to do to it, or is it my age?"

We don't know you: you do. If you take all the advice offered your profile then becomes a generic yawn fest like thousands of others on here.

Don't be afraid to be "selective". Would you really meet a 70 year old? I'm 56 and wouldn't...but it really might be your thing, so hey!

All your sexual fantasies could come true but you need to let others know what you want and can offer in return.

Add an array of pics, just don't let them all be about your knob.

Your age will be a disadvantage, so don't handicap yourself further with a dire profile.

Good luck.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's better than it was James! Quick thoughts here -

I'd cut out anything that's possibly a bit negative. It's not that it makes you sound negative but when reading it the reader acquires some of that negativity and likely associates you with it, albeit unconsciously.

Keep things focused on the priority areas of interest or about you.

There were some bits that were less focused on your main objectives. Eg, meeting a black woman, one day. (That's great but you could also just divert attention back away from your dream, to what you're mainly looking for and offering to others. Emphasise your sexual expertise too.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


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Don't be afraid to be "selective". Would you really meet a 70 year old? ...but it really might be your thing, so hey!

All your sexual fantasies could come true but you need to let others know what you want and can offer in return.

Add an array of pics, just don't let them all be about your knob.

Your age will be a disadvantage, so don't handicap yourself further with a dire profile.

Good luck."

Good advice x

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