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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

been on here a few weeks now, sent a lot of messages but can't seem to get a meet. heard there are a lot of timewasters on here. can anyone tell me what's wrong with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry it usually takes weeks just have some patience and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry it usually takes weeks just have some patience and you'll be fine"

this girl knows what she's talking about mate...even if i think she leads a gang of criminals in the midlands you just need to message a few profiles that take your fancy, whilst obviously being realistic with whether you would all be compatable. be nice, polite, considerate and also don't get disheartened if you are rejected. i assure you that there is someone for everyone on here mate.....just need to participate in the process of illimination best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We where the same when we started on here we now have had one meet from this site and loved it however its easy finding a mmf its a mff thats hard to find as we been asking folk for weeks but nothing just b paitent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry it usually takes weeks just have some patience and you'll be fine

this girl knows what she's talking about mate...even if i think she leads a gang of criminals in the midlands "
don't make me come down there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we r on site about 6 months before we got our 1st meet. it will happen mate, just give it time. go into the chat rooms and join in the banter aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry it usually takes weeks just have some patience and you'll be fine

this girl knows what she's talking about mate...even if i think she leads a gang of criminals in the midlands don't make me come down there..."

pfffffft, is that a threat or promise....either way i don't mind....have u left yet?!?!?! (to the OP....note that she didn't deny my claims lol) xx

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"been on here a few weeks now, sent a lot of messages but can't seem to get a meet. heard there are a lot of timewasters on here. can anyone tell me what's wrong with me? "

I love these threads funny thing is ive been logged of site and still meeting keep at it, only a few reach the promised land

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

We find most of our meets at clubs now, also it iliminates the time wasters too. Not that we have had any on here ( touch wood), but do find it hard to get meets from here. Clubs deffinatly work better for us, and funny enough most of the ppl at the club we meet are members of fab x

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By *iercedTattooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

bangor

Have you been on Fab before? I ask because your profile name does not match the name on your pictures.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Don't worry it usually takes weeks just have some patience and you'll be fine"

Weeks, is that official? Surely I can't keep it up for that long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key my friend, good luck but above all be patient!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all the words of wisdom, i will stick at it. i changed my user name just after joining.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"We where the same when we started on here we now have had one meet from this site and loved it however its easy finding a mmf its a mff thats hard to find as we been asking folk for weeks but nothing just b paitent"

We have been on here for 7 months and only had one mff

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Took me a year to get my first meet ... and I wasn't new to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow you must have the patience of a saint ! A year is a long time to wait to get ur first meet ! Been a few months for me and still no meets.at least there's some hope for others. You do start doubting yourself and wondering if anyone will reply to any messages you send ! but I'm sure there's someone for everyone. it's just hard being a guy on here.

so I'll just be patient and hope to meet a couple or girl soon, happy swinging everyone !

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

elephant in the room... i cant say it, i just cant.... god its a struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry its all about having the right conection, that spark that triggers the interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on here a few weeks now, sent a lot of messages but can't seem to get a meet. heard there are a lot of timewasters on here. can anyone tell me what's wrong with me? "

Check out my thread on "whats a boy to do"

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By *hiz2112Man
over a year ago

south wales and gloucestershire

stick with it mate,you will get a meet, i was the same,then all of a sudden it started to happen,and yea there is a lot of fakes on here,but you will suss them out,good luck

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By *wingTheMoodMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Ive not met anyone yet. Its hard for the old single fella tho, I used to be part of a couple and you can then pick who you like. All you (we/I) can do is stick at it, be yourself and see what happens. The more fustrated you get, the more desperate you get the worse you come off.

This stuff is just for a laugh and good time. It'll come (oo-er) Besides, even if you dont get the sex, Ive made a couple of decent friends off here. Makes it worth the effort.

Hello everyone by the way!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Ive not met anyone yet. Its hard for the old single fella tho, I used to be part of a couple and you can then pick who you like. All you (we/I) can do is stick at it, be yourself and see what happens. The more fustrated you get, the more Idesperate you get the worse you come off.

This stuff is just for a laugh and good time. It'll come (oo-er) Besides, even if you dont get the sex, Ive made a couple of decent friends off here. Makes it worth the effort.

Hello everyone by the way! "

Hello and welcome

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"been on here a few weeks now, sent a lot of messages but can't seem to get a meet. heard there are a lot of timewasters on here. can anyone tell me what's wrong with me?

I love these threads funny thing is ive been logged of site and still meeting keep at it, only a few reach the promised land "

oh well i bet that ade him feel all warm and fluffy inside

OP, be polite, be respectful, read profiles, get to some socials maybe and things will turn right for you

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

funny how guys come on fab thinking its place for easy sex how wrong get a grip on here you need to sell your self stop moaning

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