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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Why did you think it would be easy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be patient it will cum

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Thats the same problem alot of people think when they join... instashag..

Chin up.. join the mile long que of men wanting the same as you

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Oh another single guy who thought he would be knee deep in clunge the moment he signed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything in life, put in the effort and get the rewards.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."

What will you say in 3 months time?

Patience......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Like anything in life, put in the effort and get the rewards. "

Oh yeah, and this. Zero effort in = zero results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First mistake, thinking that by joining you'd get an easy shag.

Second mistake, saying so.

Back to the drawing board for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be patient it will cum"

A guy I was giving a naughty massage to the other week said the exact same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First mistake, thinking that by joining you'd get an easy shag.

Second mistake, saying so.

Back to the drawing board for you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You thought maybe you were the first guy to hear about this site and come have a go?

Nah man...a lot have trodden the path before you I'm afraid.

It takes a little work and not just registering a profile on a website.

keep at it though...it's a great place if you go at it with the right attitude so don't be too put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."

The best place to start is always a good profile.

It shows an amount of effort has been put in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quality over quantity for me! This site sometimes can be a let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."

Ahh well, tough shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quality over quantity for me! This site sometimes can be a let down "

Nowt wrong with quantity.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."
Why would it be easy on here?.The normal rules of engagement still apply .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."

Why on earth did you think that? Fab is a swingers website not an escort agency.

Mrs

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"It's quality over quantity for me! This site sometimes can be a let down "
Most members will require both . There will be need to be sufficient quantity in order to assess the quality .

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

So you thought a picture of your 6 pack and no text would get the women flocking to you?

Shit out of luck there then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh another single guy who thought he would be knee deep in clunge the moment he signed up "

I love you for using the word "clunge"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not even that it's just a lot of time wasters and playing games I don't like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought everyone was adults on here... so what's with all the games and time wasting if you don't want to meet someone just say Don't arrange a meet and blow someone out just does not make no sense to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought everyone was adults on here... so what's with all the games and time wasting if you don't want to meet someone just say Don't arrange a meet and blow someone out just does not make no sense to me"

They are plenty or people on Fab who are enjoying the swing scene, and the clubs are full of them. But the trick to the on-line side of it is to avoid the time-wasters and only communicate with those who are serious.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your one line of actual text is arrogant and off putting. Maybe work on the profile

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."

I'm part of a couple, and organising meets is hard work. you have to make an effort ,catch someone's attention, and then keep em interested..probably had at least a hundred meets fall through, usually at the last possible moment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMA postitive mental attitude

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

When I saw the thread title ....why did I know it was from a guy who'd been here a few days ...

All genders and demographics have it hard on here..often for very different reasons .. you have to figure out the nuances that make you appealing ... My suggestion .. lose a lot of the expectation ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it would be easy to get some nsa fun on here... but noooo."

Widen your potential audience..

Maybe you should consider meeting men as well?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Yet another profile all about 'you' and 1 vague picture.

It's worth reading other forum threads on advice for newbies.

Also, ditch the silly warning paragraph to Sydney Uni.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh another single guy who thought he would be knee deep in clunge the moment he signed up "

"Knee deep in clunge!" Giggling away to myself here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clunge clunge clunge clunge

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

I've been in scene 9 years .. rarely get any messages and am regularly asked for meets by people I know from Events but still get blownout. Friends get 100 messages a day and same scenerio. Just nature of cyber land and not unique to fabs.

There are so many fake accounts on here ( still never worked out why ) but a hot body wont cut any mustard..

It helps to be verified . To proof you COULD be real so get out to a club or event. And stick your face up xx and ps going to those doesn't guarantee free sex either .. you probably do better on the wood burning site for that lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you go to a club/bar/the supermarket and expect to get laid..instantly...probably not...as for people letting you down...it's the Internet...for every genuine guy/girl/couple there are a ton of time wasters. My advice if you really want to get into the scene and not just get off/get laid as fast as possible is to look to join or at least visit and have a chat to your local swingers club. Firstly, your already there with likeminded people, you may get a "no thanks" but at least that's instant...but you can chat/meet people instantly, although like any human interaction...just because your there...doesn't mean your getting laid.

If your respectful and you seem like your a good looking bloke...id go to a club and speak to people/flirt...you never know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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