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No luck so far....what am I doing wrong??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here a while now and very rarely get a reply, if I do it's a short "not interested" which is fine as I'm obviously not their type.

Can anyone offer any advice? Maybe read my profile and help with that.

As for not displaying a face picture as my profile pic, I'm not overly confident with my looks so I'd rather only let people who I intend to meet see it.

Thanks

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Face or body pic rather than a cock pic.

Alot of women will just automatically delete cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should evaluate your profile and connect with more sensual woman and step in slowly to start with instead of going in gull on balls deep. Try that way and you will probably see a change. . Then you will discover those that require what you may like.. women let you know what they want and i have never had an issue meeting and indulging if you ride the wave so to speak..

Take a more relaxed step back..

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice I'll change to a body pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, cock avatars are an instant delete for us. Secondly, nobody expects a face pic as a avatar.

However most people will expect a face pic with first message. If you are not confident about your face you will have to get over that, but maybe focus on what your selling points. Put up pictures that show your sex appeal.

Also change your body description from curvy to average. Nobody wants a 'curvy' man, and those who go for the younger age group will probably be doing so because younger men usually have better bodies. But at your age it should be easy to correct your body shape.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Firstly, cock avatars are an instant delete for us. Secondly, nobody expects a face pic as a avatar.

However most people will expect a face pic with first message. If you are not confident about your face you will have to get over that, but maybe focus on what your selling points. Put up pictures that show your sex appeal.

Also change your body description from curvy to average. Nobody wants a 'curvy' man, and those who go for the younger age group will probably be doing so because younger men usually have better bodies. But at your age it should be easy to correct your body shape.

Mrs

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Really appreciate the advice! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just noticed from your profile that you are only looking for women and not couples. If that's the case you should probably use this site in conjunction with a casual dating site. Some men find it easier to get one-on-one MF sex from dating sites than from swingers sites.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks for the advice I'll change to a body pic "
when?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thanks for the advice I'll change to a body pic when?"

Next week, on Wednesday afternoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, been on this Fab now 2 weeks and what the hell is happening? I believe I have an adventurous and liberating sex life although to no avail as of yet regarding participants.

Am I doing something wrong? I'm not even beginning threads full on and asking for social meets.

Help!!!! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a joke right? "

Thought about creating one myself. Then I looked at this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a joke right?

Thought about creating one myself. Then I looked at this thread "

Helpful individual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a joke right?

Thought about creating one myself. Then I looked at this thread

Helpful individual?

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Am in same boat only attract couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't understand posts like these , the majority of the people who ask for advice do absolutely nothing when given the advice

I've seen it time and time again and I know it shouldn't but it bloody well winds me up

Maybe I should wait until Thursday for my rant

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By *llgoodfun123123Man
over a year ago

st osyth

when I've come onto these forums I see a lot of ladies say about not having pics of willies etc but out of curiosity when men have viewed my profile I take a look and 90% have all got there bits out. if I come across a lady I like the look of I take a look at the competition/verifications and 90% of them have just got pics of there tools . there's a load of tools on here lol it don't seem to make any difference coz they are still getting laid this site can be frustrating for men . in 6/7 months I've been on here I've met 4 single ladies but in all that time I've only had about 3/4 women message me first none of which tickled my fancy . also had about 5 men try it on even thou it says straight on profile . just remember that women can afford to be like a sack of spuds on here .i.e. lay back and let the men do all the work lol . most women on here get 100plus messages a day , just keep trying dude

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By *evnorMan
over a year ago

normanton

Well been on here a while not all time but send messages couple of no thanks OK no worries . How do I get people to message me. Are we not supposed to be in a age of equality ladies .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well been on here a while not all time but send messages couple of no thanks OK no worries . How do I get people to message me. Are we not supposed to be in a age of equality ladies ."

As you can probably observe there is no equality of numbers here. Far more men than women. Most couples looking for other couples or women, rather than men.

The answer to this is what YOU do to make yourself more appealing. How you st out your profile, your pictures and your messages. Get yourself out and about to clubs/socials etc.

Lots of successful guys on here.....numbers don't bother us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well been on here a while not all time but send messages couple of no thanks OK no worries . How do I get people to message me. Are we not supposed to be in a age of equality ladies ."

Your post has more in it that you're profile, "I am a straight man and I'm looking to meet women." will not make you stand out from the crowd I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well been on here a while not all time but send messages couple of no thanks OK no worries . How do I get people to message me. Are we not supposed to be in a age of equality ladies ."

Why would you expect anyone to make an effort to reply or message you when you've clearly made no effort in your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His patience ran out lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"His patience ran out lol"

You should have said earlier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His patience ran out lol

You should have said earlier! "
Yes I should of there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His patience ran out lol"

Ha ha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep going ..hang in there and don't give up...make your profile stand out as best as you can... you will be successful and keep that in your mind at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been here over a year now never had a meet don't know what am doing wrong help plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been here over a year now never had a meet don't know what am doing wrong help plz "
maybe best to start your own thread about your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done but no one answers me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just keep going ..hang in there and don't give up...make your profile stand out as best as you can... you will be successful and keep that in your mind at all times. "

He's left the site already. He can't read what you're saying.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have done but no one answers me "

Nor here....? Read the other bits of advice.

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By *exybeverleyTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawely

Maybe leaving don't help. And read profiles. Normally will tell you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your not the only one i am in the same boat

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By *exybeverleyTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His patience ran out lol

Ha ha brilliant "

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