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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

I'm new on here and haven't really had much luck with getting replies any advice on what I can do, hell or even have a meet up with me. Any input would be great please help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

I'm new on here and haven't really had much luck with getting replies any advice on what I can do, hell or even have a meet up with me. Any input would be great please help."

no offence but its probably because you are obviously married/attached

apart from that there isn't much more I can say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats fair enough I can understand that but I'm sure there are some people on here that wouldn't mind as I've seen women on here and their husbands don't know about it so I might get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

I'm new on here and haven't really had much luck with getting replies any advice on what I can do, hell or even have a meet up with me. Any input would be great please help."

You want some advice?

You have a very poor profile and only that small profile pic.

Apart from being on here to cheat, it looks like you can't be bothered to put any effort in.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You are young. This usually counts against men.

You are not single. This usually counts against men.

You have no pictures. This usually counts against men.

Look at what you can change and change it, don't dwell on the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are young. This usually counts against men.

You are not single. This usually counts against men.

You have no pictures. This usually counts against men.

Look at what you can change and change it, don't dwell on the rest."

Cheating doesn't help either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your sex life is boring at 22? Jeez! Either sort it or end it, but for heavens sake don't start being the worst kind of man at such a young age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats fair enough I can understand that but I'm sure there are some people on here that wouldn't mind as I've seen women on here and their husbands don't know about it so I might get lucky"

not with such a poor profile you won't...

again no offence but there are hundreds of single men on here looking too...why would anyone want to meet a married man with nothing going for him (as per your poor profile) over any one of them?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Your sex life is boring at 22? Jeez! Either sort it or end it, but for heavens sake don't start being the worst kind of man at such a young age "

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

I dont think you know what youve let yourself in for by asking that question OP.

Besides, the above, first thing that screams out is your attitude.

'Guaranteed to get sex here...'

Says a great deal.and none of it is attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think you know what youve let yourself in for by asking that question OP.

Besides, the above, first thing that screams out is your attitude.

'Guaranteed to get sex here...'

Says a great deal.and none of it is attractive.

"

There seems a glut of these cheating guys who think they are guaranteed sex on here.

It seems they think swingers will have sex with anyone!!

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche


"I dont think you know what youve let yourself in for by asking that question OP.

Besides, the above, first thing that screams out is your attitude.

'Guaranteed to get sex here...'

Says a great deal.and none of it is attractive.

There seems a glut of these cheating guys who think they are guaranteed sex on here.

It seems they think swingers will have sex with anyone!!"

And also single guys too! Newbies for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there gorgeous same here I don't get much reply either. You look sexy in your pics ??

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire


"Hi everyone,

I'm new on here and haven't really had much luck with getting replies any advice on what I can do, hell or even have a meet up with me. Any input would be great please help.

no offence but its probably because you are obviously married/attached

apart from that there isn't much more I can say"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

But in the real world nobody cares about your circumstances.

You came on here asking a question and you got several answers to why you were not having much luck.

Getting aggressive and calling everyone judgemental won't do you at favours.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

and he's gone.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and he's gone..... "

Already back under a new guise, and with a new plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it that cheats think Fab is a place to get free and easy sex?

We are amazed at just how many people think swinging and cheating are the same thing.

We all know that some swingers have sex with others, but they don't have sex with just anyone who comes on here bored with their sex life and putting up a one-liner profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then the shopkeeper appeared . Time to go back Mr Benn

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By *hris wants to exploreMan
over a year ago

Burton

its always harder for men, no disrespect but women who men would'nt be seen with or even look at on a night out with there mates can now go online and chat and hookup without anyone knowing..

so now women who used to go down town on a weekend and leave with some minger can now take there pick of men online..

not being rude but seen it on here men who are pretty good looking nice body chatting to women on here they wouldnt even look at in a nightclub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its always harder for men, no disrespect but women who men would'nt be seen with or even look at on a night out with there mates can now go online and chat and hookup without anyone knowing..

so now women who used to go down town on a weekend and leave with some minger can now take there pick of men online..

not being rude but seen it on here men who are pretty good looking nice body chatting to women on here they wouldnt even look at in a nightclub

"

I have no idea what that has to do with this thread, but thanks for your insight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its always harder for men, no disrespect but women who men would'nt be seen with or even look at on a night out with there mates can now go online and chat and hookup without anyone knowing..

so now women who used to go down town on a weekend and leave with some minger can now take there pick of men online..

not being rude but seen it on here men who are pretty good looking nice body chatting to women on here they wouldnt even look at in a nightclub

"

Interested to know how you have come to the conclusion they wouldn't look at these women in a nightclub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances "
i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all"

Probably best to take a break if you feel that way. This is just a bif of fun never to be taken seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

Probably best to take a break if you feel that way. This is just a bif of fun never to be taken seriously."
yeagh im thinking the same thing ive only accounted nastiness on here even though havnt been a perv not sending cock pics and being nice and sincere in my messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

Probably best to take a break if you feel that way. This is just a bif of fun never to be taken seriously.yeagh im thinking the same thing ive only accounted nastiness on here even though havnt been a perv not sending cock pics and being nice and sincere in my messages "

I wouldn't let it worry you, if people are going to be nasty then they will be, just be glad they showed their true colours. You wouldn't want to meet someone like that would you?

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all"

Are you familiar with the term "sour grapes"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

Probably best to take a break if you feel that way. This is just a bif of fun never to be taken seriously.yeagh im thinking the same thing ive only accounted nastiness on here even though havnt been a perv not sending cock pics and being nice and sincere in my messages

I wouldn't let it worry you, if people are going to be nasty then they will be, just be glad they showed their true colours. You wouldn't want to meet someone like that would you?"
no i certainly wouldnt but it has effected my confidence why are people so cruel i really dont understand it please be honest can you check my pics and profile and see if theres anything wrong im not photogenic but im defo not the worst in my oppinion but please please be honest with me

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

Just move on man, not everyone's going to be interested in everyone and that's fine.

Get yourself down to some clubs, mix and mingle with people in person and enjoy life. This website isn't the be all and end all and in all honesty, I find it much easier to 1) Talk to people and 2) make friends with people in person than online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

Probably best to take a break if you feel that way. This is just a bif of fun never to be taken seriously.yeagh im thinking the same thing ive only accounted nastiness on here even though havnt been a perv not sending cock pics and being nice and sincere in my messages

I wouldn't let it worry you, if people are going to be nasty then they will be, just be glad they showed their true colours. You wouldn't want to meet someone like that would you?no i certainly wouldnt but it has effected my confidence why are people so cruel i really dont understand it please be honest can you check my pics and profile and see if theres anything wrong im not photogenic but im defo not the worst in my oppinion but please please be honest with me"

All I would say is don't take it to heart or worry about it. I can't understand why you've encountered so many nasty people, one maybe two yes, but is it really that bad? Don't expect anything when you message then you won't be disappointed. As for your looks, its the thing most people go on as like it or not, there has to be physical attraction to spark an initial interest. If that's shallow then so be it but I wouldn't meet someone with a view to getting intimate if I didn't fancy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

Probably best to take a break if you feel that way. This is just a bif of fun never to be taken seriously.yeagh im thinking the same thing ive only accounted nastiness on here even though havnt been a perv not sending cock pics and being nice and sincere in my messages

I wouldn't let it worry you, if people are going to be nasty then they will be, just be glad they showed their true colours. You wouldn't want to meet someone like that would you?no i certainly wouldnt but it has effected my confidence why are people so cruel i really dont understand it please be honest can you check my pics and profile and see if theres anything wrong im not photogenic but im defo not the worst in my oppinion but please please be honest with me

All I would say is don't take it to heart or worry about it. I can't understand why you've encountered so many nasty people, one maybe two yes, but is it really that bad? Don't expect anything when you message then you won't be disappointed. As for your looks, its the thing most people go on as like it or not, there has to be physical attraction to spark an initial interest. If that's shallow then so be it but I wouldn't meet someone with a view to getting intimate if I didn't fancy them."
yeagh i know thanks for your advice im just bit fed up of it all guess im frustrated and angry because im nice and genuine guess i got to live with it and come off this site x

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

Are you familiar with the term "sour grapes"?are you familiar with the words fuck off

Why are people so cruel?!

I cannot believe that I missed the brutal irony. Fan-fucking-tastic.you really want to mess with me brad pitt"

You've really missed the point mate, as flamehaired just pointed out. This isn't the place for egos and being a big man. Honestly, it looks pathetic.

You're doing a Jekyll and Hyde thing: "Oh why doesn't anyone like me, give me sympathy" to "You want to mess with me? Fuck you".

You're saying you're a nice and genuine guy but this message trail is showing a side of you that I don't think many would find very attractive.

I'm not trying to start an argument with you; I have far better things to do with my time than that. But seriously man, chill out. None of this is the end of the world or anything to get stressed about. I also like the way you seem to have completely ignored my message which was actually supposed to be helpful and instead decided to have a go at me.

Best of luck with all of this pal.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all

Probably best to take a break if you feel that way. This is just a bif of fun never to be taken seriously.yeagh im thinking the same thing ive only accounted nastiness on here even though havnt been a perv not sending cock pics and being nice and sincere in my messages

I wouldn't let it worry you, if people are going to be nasty then they will be, just be glad they showed their true colours. You wouldn't want to meet someone like that would you?no i certainly wouldnt but it has effected my confidence why are people so cruel i really dont understand it please be honest can you check my pics and profile and see if theres anything wrong im not photogenic but im defo not the worst in my oppinion but please please be honest with me

All I would say is don't take it to heart or worry about it. I can't understand why you've encountered so many nasty people, one maybe two yes, but is it really that bad? Don't expect anything when you message then you won't be disappointed. As for your looks, its the thing most people go on as like it or not, there has to be physical attraction to spark an initial interest. If that's shallow then so be it but I wouldn't meet someone with a view to getting intimate if I didn't fancy them.yeagh i know thanks for your advice im just bit fed up of it all guess im frustrated and angry because im nice and genuine guess i got to live with it and come off this site x

And you tell people to fuck off???!! I really think you should hide your profile and take a break then see how you feel.thanks i think your right there is too many dicks on here like the twat who is trying to knock me when im down x"
Grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the worst kind of man tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow gotta say there's some pretty judgemental fuckers on here who really wanna jump the gun before knowing circumstances i totally agree people on here dont want to meet nice genuine guys all they judge you on is looks might seem to people that im being harsh but wtf constantly let down this website can wreck a single guy i dont think im that bad looking in the flesh but people are really nasty on here i put alot of time and effort on here telling people what im like a genuine nice guy (which i am) im so fed up with it all"

its not about you though, its about the OP who went UNLOS..

and he was married and looking for a bit of fun on the side...

if you don't think its working on here for you then maybe you should take some time out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the worst kind of man tho? "

the kind who hijacks another post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the worst kind of man tho?

the kind who hijacks another post? "

Who then tells someone to fuck off whilst banging on about how nice and genuine he is!

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth


"What is the worst kind of man tho?

the kind who hijacks another post?

Who then tells someone to fuck off whilst banging on about how nice and genuine he is! "

!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"What is the worst kind of man tho? "

An abusive one.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"its always harder for men, no disrespect but women who men would'nt be seen with or even look at on a night out with there mates can now go online and chat and hookup without anyone knowing..

so now women who used to go down town on a weekend and leave with some minger can now take there pick of men online..

not being rude but seen it on here men who are pretty good looking nice body chatting to women on here they wouldnt even look at in a nightclub

"

If you really believe this then you've not got much of a hope meeting women on here

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth


"What is the worst kind of man tho?

An abusive one."

That too!

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