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By *urndog1997 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Hi guys I am a young male who has only recently discovered the scene and this site. Just wondering if any of you could help me improve my profile as I'm struggling to get replies to any messages I send out and I'm still looking for my first meet.

Cheers M

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

According to your profile you are looking to meet TVs. If I try to message you I get a big red warning message saying you aren't looking to meet women.

Maybe look at that first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be patient. It will take time. Some of the best advice is to join in on the forum posts so that you get to know people. Also try to find a local social or club and you can then meet and chat to people.

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By *urndog1997 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Sorted that out now didn't even realise

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By *ohnnybadman666Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Good luck, young sir. Young fellas don't always get a look in but be yourself and I might even try and help you out with a meet with a woman!

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

There's some plusses there Matt.

A lot of guys moan they can't get meets and they've literally written nothing. Yours is well-written. It's a bit generic though - says similar things to hundreds of others. I think the key is to write something that makes you stand out a little by giving a real insight into your personality. Not easy I know, but hang around the forums and you'll spot a few guys who do well - don't nick their profile text though, just get insights!

Your photos are better than many - too many cock pics is a common issue. I imagine women will conclude you look pretty good!

The downsides - you are very, very young. Loads of people in here will have kids older than you. I don't think it's impossible, as there are more young folk around, but be prepared for lots to say no based on age.

Secondly - that username is a shocker. . I'd wager that for every woman who is intrigued by it, ten will be turned off. .

You're going to have to be patient. Very patient - all single guys have to be on here. I've got female friends who get masses of messages. Even replying to all is impossible - they can't cut and paste a reply 25 times a day!

Good luck

LS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a profile take note think I have learnt a thing or too from this man . . . .shit hot profile in my opinion (straight)

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By *urndog1997 OP   Man
over a year ago

Altrincham

Just changed my username hope it's more appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe most clubs have an age limit of 21, so you might want to clarify that before advertising you'd like to attend one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile.

It's a numbers game though, so don't be put off.

Lots of negative/bitchy types on here so don't let it faze you.

Rejection is just part of the process.

Good luck

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"What a profile take note think I have learnt a thing or too from this man . . . .shit hot profile in my opinion (straight)"

Me?!

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"Just changed my username hope it's more appealing "

I think so mate.

Don't get me wrong, women will appreciate the fact you're hung like a mutant killer whale, but there's a deluge of cocks on here and it gets wearing (I'm led to believe!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys I am a young male who has only recently discovered the scene and this site. Just wondering if any of you could help me improve my profile as I'm struggling to get replies to any messages I send out and I'm still looking for my first meet.

Cheers M"

Good profile and pics

It's like buying a lottery ticket mate. The odds are for men are nearly that bad! BUT you never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You age will be against you I'm afraid. Not many swingers are interested in very young men, and you will find that most clubs require ID and have an over 21 age restriction. On the plus side, you can only get older, so no worries.

Mrs

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