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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy is there something wrong with my profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you're not going to write a novel as communication with a woman speaks volumes however, to get that initial interest to spark a conversation, you might need to expand a bit more about yourself on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is nice and you look hot from your pics. probably isn't you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another?! This must be a new record for these posts today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy ..... "

It's not though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

noted thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy is there something wrong with my profile ? "

In my opinion (and only mine), you have good photos but your text as far too sparse. I would have no idea whether we had anything in common.

Oh, and it is "intimacy," and not "intamacy."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"your profile is nice and you look hot from your pics. probably isn't you.

"
thanks hun probley right

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

What does the first line of your profile actually mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your pics are good but the profile doesnt really say much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the first line of your profile actually mean ?"

He doesn't like writing novels, but he likes communicating? I'm confused too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your profile is nice and you look hot from your pics. probably isn't you.

thanks hun probley right"

I took it to mean she thought the pics weren't really of you

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP if you do a forum search you will find thousands of similar posts. There is lots of advice out there, including profile advice, that you can take on board.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"your profile is nice and you look hot from your pics. probably isn't you.

thanks hun probley right

I took it to mean she thought the pics weren't really of you "
them pics are me why would i put pics of another guy up that is just stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its extremely hard for a single guy to get a solo meet. I keep getting told clubs are the easiest way to get noticed.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Yes as other responder states try and stike up a conversation...

Though just like in real life, you,ll get plenty of knock backs, with occasional damn right rude replies..

Perseverance is key, without being pushy...Don,t take it personally if request is " no thankyou" just move on....

It is tough for us single fellas, cos we are treated with suspicion and regarded as a bit of a novelty.

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By *ustfortonightMan
over a year ago

Kent


"Its extremely hard for a single guy to get a solo meet. I keep getting told clubs are the easiest way to get noticed. "

I've been on here a similar amount of time to you and the OP.

Compare the length of my profile and number of pics I have to yours. Then compare number of meets. Do you see a correlation?

Yes it is hard for single guys, but it's hard for everyone. The more effort you make, the easier it gets.

Show what you actually have to offer, make yourself worth meeting.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Yes as other responder states try and stike up a conversation...

Though just like in real life, you,ll get plenty of knock backs, with occasional damn right rude replies..

Perseverance is key, without being pushy...Don,t take it personally if request is " no thankyou" just move on....

It is tough for us single fellas, cos we are treated with suspicion and regarded as a bit of a novelty or worse pity

"
PS .... Don,t always assume your communicating with the female when chatting to couples..

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By *ustfortonightMan
over a year ago

Kent


"Yes as other responder states try and stike up a conversation...

Though just like in real life, you,ll get plenty of knock backs, with occasional damn right rude replies..

Perseverance is key, without being pushy...Don,t take it personally if request is " no thankyou" just move on....

It is tough for us single fellas, cos we are treated with suspicion and regarded as a bit of a novelty or worse pity

PS .... Don,t always assume your communicating with the female when chatting to couples.."

I'd go as far as to say never assume that

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy is there something wrong with my profile ? "

op don't take anything I'm about to say the wrong way .

your pictures are good as others have said but your profile is just plain average its generic .

a generic profile says lack of effort where is the personality in your profile

effort equals reward try to remember your competing against not only other guys but couples and single ferns for attention of others that's a lot of choice for people you maybe interested in.

which means your going to have to put the effort into your profile to stand out .

I suggest looking at other guys profiles for ideas on how to try and have a interesting memorable profile .

because it all starts there

lots of people on here read a profile of a sender before they read the message of a sender .

hope this helps buddy chin up life is hard for single guys on swinger sites but if you put the effort in the rewards and adventures can be great and truly memorable .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is because the site is saturated with men lol.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It is because the site is saturated with men lol."

Correct

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It is because the site is saturated with men lol.

Correct"

* which is absolutely fine, depending on what yr looking for

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

All of the above plus I think it's great you have a few face pics but why don't take some more with you smiling???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is because the site is saturated with men lol.

Correct

* which is absolutely fine, depending on what yr looking for "

So it's fine for you?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It is because the site is saturated with men lol.

Correct

* which is absolutely fine, depending on what yr looking for

So it's fine for you? "

How are you finding it?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"It is because the site is saturated with men lol.

Correct

* which is absolutely fine, depending on what yr looking for

So it's fine for you?

How are you finding it?

"

(it's like fishing with dynamite btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is because the site is saturated with men lol.

Correct

* which is absolutely fine, depending on what yr looking for

So it's fine for you?

How are you finding it?

"

Delightful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is because the site is saturated with men lol.

Correct

* which is absolutely fine, depending on what yr looking for

So it's fine for you?

How are you finding it?

(it's like fishing with dynamite btw)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your profile is nice and you look hot from your pics. probably isn't you.

thanks hun probley right

I took it to mean she thought the pics weren't really of you "

lol, no i didn't think that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you everyone i will go tho my profile and add more to it im just a genuine honest guy trying to get more involved in swinging not just for the sex but friendship aswell thanks again everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy .....

It's not though "

Maybe you need Viagra then....!

But, getting back on track, the likelihood is that it probably isn't you OP, the men outnumber the women drastically on here, so to have any chance of success, you're going to have to make your profile stand out enough to make a woman choose you over the hundreds of other men on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy .....

It's not though

Maybe you need Viagra then....!

But, getting back on track, the likelihood is that it probably isn't you OP, the men outnumber the women drastically on here, so to have any chance of success, you're going to have to make your profile stand out enough to make a woman choose you over the hundreds of other men on here."
just changed my profile hope it is a bit better the last one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy .....

It's not though "

Exactly.......it isn't hard for "genuine single guys" per se. Just for some, while others have success. The problem must, therefore, lie with the individual. With their approach and expectations. Just my take on it!

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP Have you not had time yet to read through your new, revised profile to check for spelling and punctuation?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op

Be on the forums be yoyrself be nice and share the banter and go to a club as alot of members here will be at them.

Get yourself known and the meets will come

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Its extremely hard for a single guy to get a solo meet. I keep getting told clubs are the easiest way to get noticed.

I've been on here a similar amount of time to you and the OP.

Compare the length of my profile and number of pics I have to yours. Then compare number of meets. Do you see a correlation?

Yes it is hard for single guys, but it's hard for everyone. The more effort you make, the easier it gets.

Show what you actually have to offer, make yourself worth meeting."

I consider this a good, well written profile

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover


"whis is it so hard for a genuine single guy is there something wrong with my profile ? "

On the main forum page just enter profile help in the

"Search forum subjects box"

read and take note, also take a look at the people who asked for help to see any improvement in finding a meet ..enjoy fab

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