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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just my face or is it difficult to find people to cart to on this haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not, if you're finding it hard to get results doing what you're currently doing...change it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have changed loads of things. Nearly ever person says I'm not their type or we are not looking same things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but a meet veri from the last week doesn't suggest struggles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was helping a friend in need. She was supposed to meet someone and car broke down so I drove to pick her up and dropped her to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just my face or is it difficult to find people to cart to on this haha. "

Cart?!

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Is it just my face or is it difficult to find people to cart to on this haha. "

You're right it's a very lonely existence on here for single men! Unless you have model looks or a big cock know one's really interested lol..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just my face or is it difficult to find people to cart to on this haha.

You're right it's a very lonely existence on here for single men! Unless you have model looks or a big cock know one's really interested lol.. "

Yes I have neither ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile needs filling out properly.

More pics of body and face.

Send face and body shot with every message.

In your first message, point out what you like about their profile (the text not pics)

Let them know what you have to offer.

If they delete your message move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Send about 5 pics with every message and I also talk about the profile as it let's them know I have paid attention. Most responses are your not my type. I didn't realise you had to have a type to talk to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile needs filling out properly.

More pics of body and face.

Send face and body shot with every message.

In your first message, point out what you like about their profile (the text not pics)

Let them know what you have to offer.

If they delete your message move on. "

And be prepared to move on a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send about 5 pics with every message and I also talk about the profile as it let's them know I have paid attention. Most responses are your not my type. I didn't realise you had to have a type to talk to people "

That's just one of those things, nobody will pursue a conversation with someone the don't find attractive.

Solutions, make yourself stand out beyond the 1000's of other men here. Give them a reason to want to meet you. Use all the tools that fab gives every person here to maximise their potential. There are plenty of guys of all shapes, sizes, and looks who are doing perfectly well so perhaps look at what they're doing that you're not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Send about 5 pics with every message and I also talk about the profile as it let's them know I have paid attention. Most responses are your not my type. I didn't realise you had to have a type to talk to people

That's just one of those things, nobody will pursue a conversation with someone the don't find attractive.

Solutions, make yourself stand out beyond the 1000's of other men here. Give them a reason to want to meet you. Use all the tools that fab gives every person here to maximise their potential. There are plenty of guys of all shapes, sizes, and looks who are doing perfectly well so perhaps look at what they're doing that you're not."

I will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally turn away terrible spelling. People outside my preferred age range and anyone who's list of interests either scare me (so many guys click them all) or don't interest me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally turn away terrible spelling. People outside my preferred age range and anyone who's list of interests either scare me (so many guys click them all) or don't interest me"
yes I can understand all that haha. I normally check the details but sometimes I do chance my arm of close to age barrier

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Send about 5 pics with every message and I also talk about the profile as it let's them know I have paid attention. Most responses are your not my type. I didn't realise you had to have a type to talk to people

That's just one of those things, nobody will pursue a conversation with someone the don't find attractive.

Solutions, make yourself stand out beyond the 1000's of other men here. Give them a reason to want to meet you. Use all the tools that fab gives every person here to maximise their potential. There are plenty of guys of all shapes, sizes, and looks who are doing perfectly well so perhaps look at what they're doing that you're not.

I will do "

Make your self stand out against 1000's of other men?still no Idea what it means lol..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Send about 5 pics with every message and I also talk about the profile as it let's them know I have paid attention. Most responses are your not my type. I didn't realise you had to have a type to talk to people "

We ladies can get a lot of messages per day, which adds up to lots per week, per month etc personally after nearly 7 years one here, if I were to just chat to every guy that messaged me that wasn't my type I'd never had a life and need to take on a PA to aid with correspondences

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

All I can add is that a smiling face is far better than a 'rabbits caught in headlights' one you have.

And more profile text, a lazy profile can mean a lazy lover

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I can add is that a smiling face is far better than a 'rabbits caught in headlights' one you have.

And more profile text, a lazy profile can mean a lazy lover"

surely a face pic is better than none tho. I don't like me smiling haha I look awful. Imagine how worse it is then.

What more to write in my text ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send about 5 pics with every message and I also talk about the profile as it let's them know I have paid attention. Most responses are your not my type. I didn't realise you had to have a type to talk to people "

No you don't have to have a type to talk to people. But the purpose of this site is not for talking. People on this site talk with an end goal to have sex, and most people only have sex with those they are attracted to, ie their type.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"All I can add is that a smiling face is far better than a 'rabbits caught in headlights' one you have.

And more profile text, a lazy profile can mean a lazy lover surely a face pic is better than none tho. I don't like me smiling haha I look awful. Imagine how worse it is then.

What more to write in my text ?"

Yes a face pic is good. Get a friend to take a real smile pic?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Send about 5 pics with every message and I also talk about the profile as it let's them know I have paid attention. Most responses are your not my type. I didn't realise you had to have a type to talk to people

That's just one of those things, nobody will pursue a conversation with someone the don't find attractive.

Solutions, make yourself stand out beyond the 1000's of other men here. Give them a reason to want to meet you. Use all the tools that fab gives every person here to maximise their potential. There are plenty of guys of all shapes, sizes, and looks who are doing perfectly well so perhaps look at what they're doing that you're not.

I will do

Make your self stand out against 1000's of other men?still no Idea what it means lol.. "

I guess it means writing an engaging profile that's informative and attracts the kind of people you seek.

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