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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wy is so hard to reply i provide face pictures im verified and im not rude wy women insult me either way?

Peterborough area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a numbers game mate, lots of single guys, probably out number the couples and women 1o to 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 to 1 that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not working for you. Change what you're doing.

Simples.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wy is so hard to reply i provide face pictures im verified and im not rude wy women insult me either way?

Peterborough area"

The question I ask myself when I'm messaging (and you should as well) is, why would a woman reply to you rather than any of the other 50 guys who've just messaged her in the last 5 minutes.

Just saying (even implicitly through your profile) I've got a cock and I want to shag you really isn't going to get you very far. She gets loads of messages like that. She's probably not planning to shag all 50...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wy is so hard to reply i provide face pictures im verified and im not rude wy women insult me either way?

Peterborough area"

You are photo verified. For many people, that does not count for a great deal.

I cannot give profile advice without a request.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Wy is so hard to reply i provide face pictures im verified and im not rude wy women insult me either way?

Peterborough area

You are photo verified. For many people, that does not count for a great deal.

I cannot give profile advice without a request."

Without a decent and engaging profile, you won't get anywhere on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach? "

Report women for being rude? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach?

Report women for being rude? Really?"

To some single guys simply saying no thanks is classed as being rude

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Three public pics are all of your cock, angry status naming another site user, three line profile.

Why are the ladies not queuing?

Each lady receives many messages every day. Most women are not excited or enticed by cock pics, as they assume any man on here has one of those. You need to tell them why they should reply to you, and not the other 50 messages in their inbox from guys with cock pics and nonexistant profiles. What have you to offer? Just a cock? Or do you enjoy other things too, foreplay? Kinks? Frolics in the hay? Drinking tea? If you don't say, nobody knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wy is so hard to reply i provide face pictures im verified and im not rude wy women insult me either way?

Peterborough area"

Naming and shaming is against site rules OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach?

Report women for being rude? Really?"

Rude abusive, not rude naughty obviously

Although the OP dosn't make it clear, I assume he means that not replying is rude but wasn't sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach?

Report women for being rude? Really?

To some single guys simply saying no thanks is classed as being rude "

Exactly,admin would be inundated with cry babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wy is so hard to reply i provide face pictures im verified and im not rude wy women insult me either way?

Peterborough area"

If things are not working the first place to look is at your profile.

Is it good? Will people who read it think you are worth contacting, or have you actually put any real effort into it.

Also photos. There only really needs to be one cock photo and if you only have cock photos it tends to put people off.

Hope it helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find . " Fancy your back doors smashing in " works for me .

ToshsTopTips.com

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I always find . " Fancy your back doors smashing in " works for me .

ToshsTopTips.com "
PMSL X

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham


"If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach?

Report women for being rude? Really?

To some single guys simply saying no thanks is classed as being rude "

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you very much to everyone will try and refresh my profile thanks for the honesty and advices... Ima1st time on this sites better ask than make full of myself..

Thank you

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally, I like a man who knows how to punctuate. Sally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach?

Report women for being rude? Really?

To some single guys simply saying no thanks is classed as being rude "

I quite like getting a no thanks, not just a delete and block...

Just a bit of common curtousy in my opinion, although you cant speak for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If women are being rude then report them. If they are not replying then try changing your approach?

Report women for being rude? Really?

To some single guys simply saying no thanks is classed as being rude

I quite like getting a no thanks, not just a delete and block...

Just a bit of common curtousy in my opinion, although you cant speak for others "

So would I, but I accept with the volume of messages it's impactical for women. Plus not everyone is a polite as I am in the face of rejection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must say I've never had a message to a woman just deleted and or blocked ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I like a man who knows how to punctuate. Sally."

I once knew a Sally that liked to be punctuated.did you ever live in ballyclare ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to reply to most messages but if they are short (hi), not thought out or show that they have obviously not read our profile we delete them. Not saying our profile if perfect but if you haven't taken the time to read it and see what we're looking for then we won't bother either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you very much to everyone will try and refresh my profile thanks for the honesty and advices... Ima1st time on this sites better ask than make full of myself..

Thank you"

Refreshed your profile yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up a long time ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you are verified.....but you are not.

You ask why no replies.....if someone is considering a reply they normally look at a profile first. If they do that....they see 2 lines of profile and 3 pics of your cock.

A profile needs to stand out and show you have made an effort. I hope that answers your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont worry yourself mate happens to me all the time just some on here got there heads up there arses if its that bad get a escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont worry yourself mate happens to me all the time just some on here got there heads up there arses if its that bad get a escort "

Stop messaging women with their heads up their arses then, its obvious they won't reply as they won't be able to read your message let alone be able to type a reply!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"You say you are verified.....but you are not.

You ask why no replies.....if someone is considering a reply they normally look at a profile first. If they do that....they see 2 lines of profile and 3 pics of your cock.

A profile needs to stand out and show you have made an effort. I hope that answers your question."

Ah but that requires effort...

It's so much easier just to whine and blame others...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's really easy to get a meet, annoyingly so. I don't think I've ever not had a response to a message.. The secret ! Message people you genuinely match, if they say must have six pack and 9" I don't message ! If they say 'in good shape and above 7" I would try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely numbers game.. I did meet a lady from here.. Just a coffee and a blether.. She had been on five days and she showed me her profile on her phone.. She had 910 messages in her inbox..!! So frankly... ????? You've just got to play the long game esp in less populated areas of the country ie Scotland..! Means travelling far.. Not really conducive to regular fun.. I'm just sticking it out being polite courteous and entertaining.. Hopefully. No harm in that. All the best.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile says almost nothing about you. So you become invisible and forgettable. You photos are just your cock - people need to find your whole body and face attractive.

If you don't provide this, 100 other guys will and they'll get the meets.

Many of us here have a swinging lifestyle. This lifestyle isn't just being someone who logs on to a website. Expand your horizons to clubs.

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