FabSwingers.com forum: It's tough finding a conversation.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here quite awhile, almost 2 months now I'd say... I literally feel like Ive gotten nowhere. It's so hard to get talking to a woman. I've tried my best with my profile... I try to make my messages original... Yet they all get deleted. Am I too young for this? I'm 18, but every woman seems to be 30+ and have zero interest in someone my age. I haven't made one decent friend on here since I've started and that is highly dissapointing I expected more from this site, so if anyone reads this and fancies a chat I'm here.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

You've been here no time at all. Two months really is nothing.

You are one of a gazillion single guys looking to make connections and one of the very many who put up messages bemoaning the fact that women aren't jumping into bed with them within a week.

Yes, your age will rule you out for many women, but there'll be some who like the younger guy and there's definitely a trend towards younger folk getting involved.

It's important to realise that women get masses of messages in here and they'd need a secretary to reply to them all. My friend gets at least 30 a day. She hasn't the time to copy and paste "sorry, no thanks" 25 times a day.

There's a lot of things in your profile that will put off potential contacts too tbh.

The main thing to take away though, is that patience is needed for the single guy. Most who have succeess do so because they build a good presence here over time by contributing to the forums in a way that reveals their character, going to events etc. You need to be prepared to be in it for the long haul.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here quite awhile, almost 2 months now I'd say... I literally feel like Ive gotten nowhere. It's so hard to get talking to a woman. I've tried my best with my profile... I try to make my messages original... Yet they all get deleted. Am I too young for this? I'm 18, but every woman seems to be 30+ and have zero interest in someone my age. I haven't made one decent friend on here since I've started and that is highly dissapointing I expected more from this site, so if anyone reads this and fancies a chat I'm here.

Your profile states that you are not interested in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mistake was expecting too much from this site. Your age and the fact you seem to be here just to chat will put many off.

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

You start your profile with a big moan/complaint, I, like many others, check profiles before I even read a message, and to be brutally honest I wouldn't open a message based on what's on there.

Ask yourself one question, if you were looking through profiles and came across yours, would you want to send you a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am completely confused by your profile and your expectations. You aren't looking to meet anyway, are you just here to make friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can u ladies look at my profile and give constructive criticism? Thanks

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Can u ladies look at my profile and give constructive criticism? Thanks "

You're better off starting your own thread rather than hijacking this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile states that you are not interested in meeting."

Yet another face palm smack thread

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By *appyman3943Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I've found the same thing around chatting. I love to chat and share experiences, to me it's a big part of the fun and if it builds up to a meet then great, but a lot of folk just want to meet up after a few one sentence replies and get hacked off when I say no!

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