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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a complete novice, in this world, and I am finding it hard just to have a conversation with women that I msg or wink at, any advice?

By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

Don't wink, 99% ignore them.

Read the profile, try and strike common ground. Make the message stand out. Don't Copy and paste.

Include a mugshot with each message, avoid the cock shot unless asked.

Accept that majority of women, get 100+ messages a day. If your message is read, and/or deleted take it as a know. If it's neither read of deleted after a week maybe try a second time, if nothing move on.

Men massively outnumber women, so competition is high.

I'm sure the ladies have better suggestions too.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well written detailed proifle is the most important thing to spark an interest. Most women will look at that before even reading your message so usually decide to respond or not on the back of it. Maybe have a rethink of yours?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I'm a complete novice, in this world, and I am finding it hard just to have a conversation with women that I msg or wink at, any advice?"

Write a proper profile and include some public pictures.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the tips

I will give it a go

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a small fish in a pond overflowing with other small fish. You've got to have two things, a way to stand out from the rest...why should a woman meet you over all the others. The other thing...patience.